>but my point still stands that if you do good shit to purely get something out of someone then you're not really a good person
your definition of a good person is some absurd jesus like figure lol. people do good things because it makes them feel good and hopefully someone does something good for you in the future. there is nothing wrong with this. you take this out of the equation and everything turns into some fucking psychopathic barter negotiation.
>people don't expect you to act like a cunt to those around you in terms of just being an asshole
Yes they do. That's absolutely expected. Do you live in a small isolated village with less than a hundred people total?
>when you leave the house and talk to a stranger do you just walk up to them expecting them to do something bad like being rude or ignoring you?
Yes I do, actually I don't mind if they're rude or ignore me. That's the least offensive thing they can do. Most people will try to steal or physically fight you. I don't carry a pistol around everywhere because people aren't polite enough. Real world people will absolutely harm you if they think there is a single hope they can get away with it. It's amazing how you are telling me I'm off subject when you have a reply chain of a ton of people telling you how wrong you are in multiple different ways. You're flipping delusional girl.
No I think you're just selfish.
ok, why do you have a computer? go sell your computer and give the money to a homeless person.
i literally say that i don't see that as the same thing as me doing something good to you in order to get something out of you, it's right in the first line and i even admit i could have written the argument better.
Oh you're a retard. Doing selfless things doesn't mean everything you do is selfless.
sorry that i made you uncomfortable even though you are being selfish
You didn't. I'm not sure what you're talking about now.
As far as I'm aware research on the subject suggests that Dark Triad traits are more attractive to women than any other kind, so it is true, after a manner. It's not as simple as "treat them like shit," it's "treat them like shit because you present yourself as a big important man who gets shit done, knows where he's going and doesn't particularly care who he hurts on the way, and any woman in his life is just an accessory." I don't think you could get a GF just by insulting women to their faces, but being callous and aloof in a way that causes injuries to the ego will probably stir up more interest than being kind and careful would.
If you really want to tune it up, the kind of man that women have written endless fanfictions about is one that has all the Dark Triad traits for everyone EXCEPT for that specific woman, and while he still dominates her, he finds it impossible to harm her. That's the Edward Cullen dynamic.
yea i guess you just cant follow me at all so yea kind of pointless to continue. every time someone does something good to you i suggest you be extreme cautious because they are out to get you bro
lol