Why are so many people brainwashed enough to think it's a good idea to remove hair that naturally grows on their bodies?

It's only seen as manly in the modern oversexualised culture, where everything has to be extreme contrast.

Men do have much more body hair on average.
A woman who has as much as a man couldbe considered manly/boyish.

Of course you can find photos of hairy as fuck women on the internet.
But generally, women are not very hairy.

And also, I can only think of one single woman that I know who actually has a beard and shaves it.
It's not full beard, more like a teenage boy neckbeard.
She does have children, so she probably doesn't have a significant hormonal imbalance.

Besides, the modern society sometimes encourages men to shave body hair.
Isn't that too womanly by your standards?