Bros how do I even date?

5'4 Indian here, I managed to go on a date with some white girl who is like 5'5 or 5'6, she did ask my height before. I was honest and recognised the shit test when she said "Oh I'm taller than you"

I told her "Don't worry I'll bring heels for the first date."

Date went alrightish. I was really really awkward sober and didn't make any edgy jokes or anything. Then we got drinks and my real personality came out. Needless to say I had her laughing and whatnot, I got into an argument with some lesbians because I made my date pay for her drinks. I pretty calmly made told them they can have her if she wants, and the girl laughed a little.

Anyways, I managed to get a kiss and the girl wants me to meet again.

So I went on the second date, same thing happened no sex :(

She wants a 3rd date and wants me to meet her friends, I'm bailing out anons. How do you even date normally...

She lives in another town, she suggested I sleep in her car if we meet her friends. Like no, I am no dog.

Virgin > Lose self-respect.

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>She wants a 3rd date and wants me to meet her friends, I'm bailing out anons. How do you even date normally...
literally keeping doing what you're doinng but stop worrying about it

Yeah youre doing well,she likes you

so she wants to see you a 3rd time and offer to let you sleep in her car despite the fact that you're a 5'4 indian guy? in all due respect you're lucky you got a a date in the first place. this has nothing to do with self respect stop being a faggot

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Take hwat you can man.

What the other anons said. You’re in your head waaaaay too much and eventually that will come through and ruin your chances. No girl actually cares how tall you are when you’re eating them out. Stop buying into the stupid Yas Forums alpha/beta rhetoric and all the heightism bollocks. Some women will prefer taller guys, maybe even most, but a preference =/= a condition. Being assured in who you are and having confidence is a far more attractive trait. You can’t mogg the average man in height, but you can mogg them with your give no fucks attitude

Dude why the fuck would I sleep in some girl's car. That's fucking awful.

She double texts me whenever I leave her on read for days. Idek what to say at this point.

>5'4
>poo
>thinks he can afford to be picky
It's nothing short of a miracle she even looked at you, you little gremlin.

Dude she wants me to meet her friends and go clubbing with them, then sleep in her car. FUCK THAT

That's such a simp move. Imagine sleeping in some girl's car

because you're a fucking tiny retard and you have no other option

So I guess I should just lift more till I get options.

I'd rather be a virgin than a simp. Virginity loss won't change me. Loss of self respect is a greater loss than anything.

Yeah you’re proving my point by caring about it so much. Your ego is a consequence of your low self-esteem. It’s a car not a dumpster

You won't sleep in her car, you retard. She a girl, she doesn't wanna pass for a slut so she's not saying "yeah you'll sleep at my place, no worries" but it is CLEARLY a scenario where once the evening with her friends is over it's on you to start kissing her and escalate things to end up sleeping in her bed rather than in her car

yeah so you say, "ok, I like that plan but don't want to sleep in your car." say you'll play it by ear that night. simple as. you gotta know how to take her clues

This. Don't fuck this up bro

She's going to sleep over at her friends... I won't be able to fuck her in her own friend's house

This
Just kiss her while you're dancing with her and most importantly enjoy yourself.
Do you even like hanging out with her?

Wdym? "Play it by ear"?

Okay then this user provided you a plan B :

Then politly tell her you rather not sleep in a car and maybe next time if you can stay over. Or just ask if you can sleep at her friends house aswell? You're doing great focus on having a good time yourself.

I can only tolerate her after I drink a little, when I'm sober she's a brick wall to talk to.

On 2nd date I kissed her and I spoke about some grappling I did ages ago, and she asked me to choke her. She's weird.

Ahahahahha! The life of a manlet, such problems

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OP, I genuinely have no ability to offer any form of reasonable opinion, I don't know if you should sleep in her car, I don't know if you shouldn't, for some reason I just wanted to post in this thread, I wouldn't know what to do in this situation tbqh

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Good idea user, I'm just trying to fuck this girl. She gives me the vibe she wants something serious though

Ye nah bro don't listen to these other faggots, she's trying to keep you locked away in her car until her friends arrive and then she'll show u off like a circus animal to her friends. Pic rel will happen if u go through with it.

You're doing it right fren

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THAT'S WHAT YOU SAY TO HER. """""""""""""""""""""""""""""LET'S PLAY IT BY EAR""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""
>Do you even like hanging out with her?
please say yes, man. sex is very tied with emotions and love and belonging. if you don't really like her you WILL break her heart in the long run or YOU will have your heart broken

Thank you user.

tip #420: don't listen to incels
also sex is going to fuck you and her up. I've seen it a 1000 times.
t. volcel

Sounds like she wants to fuck.
If you're not used to taking women home yet dont beat yourself up if it doesnt work because she wants you to be the "bad boy"
Im rooting for you and search for other girls aswell, you're doing well :)

I had 1 gf before but she was an ultra-conservative christian, I geniunely had loved her and so did she love me. I already had my heart broken. Most guys in this board would have loved her, 5'2 and blonde and went church every Sunday.

Needless to say I had to break it off with her because I was going off to university, she cried a lot. Now she a new boyfriend, he isn't my greatest fan... She does still like me somewhat as whenever we get drunk she always hangs near me lmao.

barneyfag?

>and she asked me to choke her. She's weird.
Sounds like she wants you to act like a man and fuck her good but you keep on acting like a virgin

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Yeah I can't take women home lmao, she says I'm super funny and no other guy makes her laugh as much. Idk what the fuck she means by it.

I know for a fact she's more interested in me, I can leave her on read for days and she'll double text me asking if I'm alright. I've already had to meet her dog on the 2nd date.

I feel like a circus animal having to jump through hoops just to get some pussy. Is dating normally like this bro?

I was quite taken aback by it too, I did tell her to come to my hometown to get some drinks. But she declined saying it's too far...

>I feel like a circus animal having to jump through hoops jut to get some pussy
It's because you are. Try caring about her.
inb4 roastie, just a dude who's seen this end in hurt too many times

Wdym try "caring"? How can I express care?

Listen man, you either jump through hoops like an animal or dance together.

thats what dating is like for any relationship, male or female. You choose which you prefer.

Also stop placing (her) pussy on a pedestal, hang out with people because you want to, treat people as goals on their own and not as a means and such.

it's not about expressing; it's about doing. when you care, you know.

>I know for a fact she's more interested in me, I can leave her on read for days and she'll double text me asking if I'm alright
Or you made her upset for taking forever to respond and now she just wants to goad you on and make you watch as she gets wasted and throws herself in the arms of her "friend"

Based, I understand, I should date someone if I actually like them. That way the process feels like a dance not a circus act.

Thank you anons

>I feel like a circus animal having to jump through hoops just to get some pussy. Is dating normally like this bro?
Yes. You'll have to clown yourself for the rest of your dating life in order to get pussy and you'll have to do it a lot because even the Chadiest Chads don't get to fuck anything that moves so easily. Good looking men will sometimes get rejected by a girl who dislikes their personality, rich men will sometimes get rejected by a girl who doesn't care about money etc. If you're just the average Joe you'll go through even more rejection and you'll have to find another girl to clown yourself with, and then another one, and then another one
What's having "game" if not just being a good actor?

She did give me shit when we got a bit drunk saying that I make feel anxious because I never reply fast. She did record me laughing and sent a video of me to her friends.

Her friends gave her approval and I could literally hear one of them scream "Omg I love him, he's actually so cute!"

>Bros how do I even date?
I recommend SS + GOMAD.
Exercising with weight training will force your body back to a healthy mindset and grow your meager ass.
I recommend that you, especially, should attempt to drink the gallon in one session. The inevitable gagging and throwing up will remind you that you are a human being with needs. This helps you to set your priorities straight so you can confidently display your desire for her and communicate this desire in an appropriate but firm manner.

trust me being a short heavy weightlifter looks even more retarded than a normal short guy

no it doesn't. go back to robot9k

i forgot that shithole even existed dont remind me ffs
anyway, yes it is
people wont admire a thick nigga if they cant just kick them down with one foot

In all honesty i say you should just bite the bullet and that’ll remove all problem solving situations. From what it sounds like you’re going to fuck this up and future endeavors with women i say instead of confiding to this social construct of getting a girlfriend/married or just laid. I think you killing yourself is truly your best option