Any married/childraising Yas Forums anons here? How did marriage and having kids influence your fitness level...

Any married/childraising Yas Forums anons here? How did marriage and having kids influence your fitness level? Did you lose some gains? I'm a 26 year old kissless hugless virgin who will never experience anything like that and die alone, so to me it is fascinating to hear from people like you; it is like speaking to a different species altogether.

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at first i had undying contempt for her, now I fantasize about her fat pussy being brutalized by some burly darkish men

Having kids and staying Yas Forums is close to impossible.
You simply don't have the time.

>Just do it in the morning bro
Yeah ok except when they are 0-5 they cry all night, no energy and then its time to pick them up, guess what? you have to entertain them all evening, and then food, then somehow get them to sleep so you MAYBE get 2 hours of sleep.

>Just do it when they are older
Ok sure, but who is gonna drive them to school? Then after school they want lunch, then need help with homework and then dinner, and then there's all the bullshit that comes with being a parent to a kid attenting school

>Just make your wife take care of all that shit
Do you have any experience with women?

Only way you can stay Yas Forums is accepting you MIGHT be able to hit the gym 2 times a week, but you won't have a good schedule so the gains you keep is doubtful

Unless you are ready to sacrifice 15 years of being a sick cunt (when they can actually take care of themselves) don't get kids.

That sounds very challenging. How do you deal? What made you decide to have kids and do you feel it was a good decision?

Home Gym?

At the end of the day, you find a girl who wants to settle down. It becomes clear that its sort of an ultimatum that its either "I leave or we get kids rn" So you sort of accept it because you (hopefully) love her.

Some guys want kids tho and are willing to sacrifice everything for it, I've spoken to several dads about this, I'd say around 50% wanted kids themselves (either they were bored, next step in the relationship, its stale etc) and 50% didn't want kids but got them because of their gf/wife.

Of course once you get kids, you love them more than anything, but is life improved because of kids? I wouldn't say. I can't imagine life without them (now) but I'm not sure that my life improved.

The older you get, the more you realize every idiot can get kids, a lot of parents shouldnt have kids but they get them anyway, it's not some sort of "goal to life" to get kids. There's a lot more you can do besides gettings kids. Women in general seem to have this fantasy about getting kids a lot more than men tho. (Married, kids etc) Then once they realize there's nothing more to do, they find another man (sometimes)

Would make it easier but
>Buy new house
>So this is the room for home gym?
>Wife: Haha ok sure buddy
>Hey lets have another kid, that gym room is perfect!

>You don't have one hour out of every 48

Doubt

>>Buy new house
>>So this is the room for home gym?
>>Wife: Haha ok sure buddy
>>Hey lets have another kid, that gym room is perfect!

BETAAAA

So if I'm getting this right, you essentially had kids because your gf wanted them and you were willing to concede in order to prevent her from leaving you. Interesting to hear someone's perspective on the whole thing. I hope it works out for you, sad to hear that you have no time to lift however.

it's not so much about having an hour, of course you have an hour and there, but once you have it, you barely have energy for it. The point is that you can't really keep a tight schedule and stay Yas Forums sure, you can stay in shape, but nothing else.

You don't realize how fast a day goes by after you have kids, and a lot of the time you leave the house, your gf/wife calls you back because "hurr u cant just leave me here!"

As I said, a LOT of guys do this. Almost any guy you speak to doesn't want kids. They get them because their partner thinks its time, and then you think "Oh well, maybe it is" the woman decides when it times usually, unless you are willing to leave her (because this is HER next step) then yeah, you are about to have kids.

So let me get this straight
>don’t want kids
>wife does
>have kids so she doesn’t leave you
>sacrifice enormous amounts of time and money for them
>after a few years of this, there’s a high chance she will cheat on you for “that next step”

I don’t get it bro, were you just scared to be alone?

Obviously I don't think she will leave me, no guy hopes that lmao. This is why you sacrifice and compromise.

If you get kids, willingly or not, then yeah.. you will have to sacrifice "your own life" for theirs, and yeah.. Money will be going down the bottomless pit.


It's not about being scared of being alone, but once you get a gf you actually care about, then you stick with her (unless you don't like to be happy) then after a few years and you both grow older, she will most likely want kids (she's on the clock) so then you have to question how much she means to you, if she still means a lot to you, you end up with kids you obviously love aswell.

But finding a gf, getting kids then she leaves isn't just a meme exactly. They get bored and think "they wasted their youth being pregnant" etc

I'm tired all the time. I haven't slept a good, whole night in almost 4 years. I've gained twenty pounds from before I had a child. I'm closer to being an alcoholic than anything else. Spent my whole life eating well, flat stomach, low fat and now I'm fat.
I'm too tired, I'm a single parent, I'm 36, this is my life now.

Honestly, it sounds to me as if this kind of life is akin to being mercilessly tossed around in the ocean. No rhyme or reason, just going with the flow. My issue: the flow may take some very unexpected turns. How do you look out for the wife leaving? Any signs?

>not wanting 6 kids and forming your own tribe of Yas Forums warriors

ngmi

Reading through this thread I guess my experience is unusual. My wife is also a competitive athlete, so maybe that makes a difference. This is my daily/weekly routine (when we're not locked down by coronachan) and it's worked pretty well for us. Our son is 15 months and was sleeping through the night from a pretty early age, which also helps; you're pretty much playing roulette with that, everyone says new parents get no sleep but you just never hear from those of us that do get sleep. We have a second on the way.

M/W/F
Wake up at 4:30, out the door by 4:45 to get to the gym
5-6 lift
6-7 eat breakfast while my wife goes for a run. I usually get my son up around 7 but if he wakes up earlier I take care of him
7-7:30 my wife and son eat breakfast while I shower and get dressed
7:30-8 we all take the dog for a walk
8:15 I'm out the door and it takes me about half an hour door to door to get to work
9-5:30 I work a normal job, 40 hours a week with a half hour lunch break, and I'm home by 6
6-6:30 we take another walk with the dog
6:30-7 dinner, my wife and I meal prep over the weekends and don't have to anything except heat our food
7-7:30 play with my son after dinner and get him ready for bed, he's in bed by 7:30
7:30-8 my wife and clean up from dinner, do any tidying of the house that needs to be done, etc.
8-9 we either catch up on our day, read, have sex, or on rare occasion will watch an episode of TV, and then are in bed by 9

T/Tr is same as above, but I go for a one hour run between 5 and 6. I also run for an hour on Saturdays, usually including a track workout, and a long run on Sundays. Saturdays I make sure to spend some time with friends and Sundays I do a lot of meal prepping and usually a longer walk with the family. The times above are estimates, I'm not on a tight schedule.

>my wife is a competitive athlete
>proceeds to explain how he does nothing all day
kek she getting some good from Tyrone at her track meets

>Would make it easier but
>>Buy new house
>>So this is the room for home gym?
>>Wife: Haha ok sure buddy
>>Hey lets have another kid, that gym room is perfect!

Lmao cuck

Based
Grow some nuts
By the time your kid is 12 they should be able to generally look after themselves without you babying them, the goal of being a parent is to raise, teach and then guide your children. Teach them to be independent thinkers and make decisions for themselves. But yes you will be mentoring them for most of your life but thats part if the fun, seeing your own blood and bone set out into the world

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4 kids here. It is awful from ages 0-2, but after that it gets easier.

Toddlers are old enough for gym day care at $2/kid/hour

As soon as school starts, it's even easier. Kids take the bus in the morning cause I don't live in a shitty district. Hit the gym immediately after bus drop off, shower at gym, then head to work.

The real challenge with older kids is that all they want to eat is garbage. But your money, your fridge

> mercilessly tossed around in the ocean. No rhyme or reason, just going with the flow.

A lot of people live like that.. Its always "whats next"


>How do you look out for the wife leaving? Any signs?
I mean unless theres obvious signs like frustration, less sexual contact etc there's really no way to know. It can come out of nowhere

Where did I imply my wife does nothing all day? She works closer to home so she drops my son off at daycare and picks him up after work.

Also she runs marathons, not track races. Her PR is under 7:30 pace for 26.2, she could probably beat Yas Forums in a relay.

>Would make it easier but
>>Buy new house
>>So this is the room for home gym?
>>Wife: Haha ok sure buddy
>>Hey lets have another kid, that gym room is perfect!

What kind of monster would put their kids room into the garage?

Also who the fuck wants only one kid. Kids without siblings always end up being selfish assholes. Reserve space for several kids to begin with, it's not that hard to plan ahead.

I have no idea who this midget is but i love him

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>Yeah ok except when they are 0-5 they cry all night, no energy and then its time to pick them up, guess what? you have to entertain them all evening, and then food, then somehow get them to sleep so you MAYBE get 2 hours of sleep.
Imagine being a breeder unironically. Can you even cuck yourself any harder? Is it even possible?
>inb4 have sex incel
have sleep, cuck

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not everybody lives in USA or in a house, most of europe is literally big apartments

I said YOU barely do shit for your kid. 30 minutes of playtime a day! I bet she has zero animosity towards that, yep!

nobody cares about anime posters or their opinions on life in general

Just make your wife take care of all that shit
>Do you have any experience with women?
Yes. Kids too. You lack the psychotic drive to power that is masculinity and, consequentially, the ability to control women.

glad you're willingly ending your pathetic lineage

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Who the fuck wakes up at 4:30 and goes to bed at 9? what kinda life is that? You are constantly doing things to match your timing, no breaks, just hamster wheeling because you got kids, holy shit what a great life.

You see, most people enjoy having a partner in life not a maid. We aren’t all manchildren.

.t has never had a long term gf or gf at all for that matter

>nobody cares about anime posters
did you get lost on your way to reddit?
have sleep, cuck