Why does it hurt to bring those memories?
Tell me about her /fit
It gets better anons. I'm a 31 yo khv so I've never been in a relationship but at some point you really can outgrow the concept of 'oneitis'. You really can.
we've been corresponding during the quarantine via long emails as if they were handwritten letters but she keeps reminiscing about her now ex that she was with when I met her. I can't distract myself from her and I know she doesn't see me romantically. It even made me text my own ex which ended in a shitshow. I train to distract.
Never had a
>her
Also my uncle died due to corona today
We had plans for a buisness, feels so surreal
i made it and found a high tier catholic gf shes great, she is beatiful, inteligent, cooks good, shares my /out/ hobbies but doesnt understand /k/ stuff but there are some downsides
>no sex before marriage
i can work with that not a big deal
>no extensive kissing and touching
okaaay its still not a major issue
>she dont like when we kiss for more then few minutes
that actually bothers me
>thinks lying and cuddling is a waste of time
i just want to be touched and close to someone for gods sake. Some time ago we were sleeping next to each other and the whole night my heart was beating like crazy. Warmth and softness of her body was like heaven to me. I think the only way is just marrying her asap.
AND NOW THAT QUARANTINE STROKE IT ALL HURTS QUADRIPLE
She got fat but I still want her
It must be love
thats sad user, hope you will be okay, just use method and train to distract it might help
She cheated on me and ruined my life and confidence and I keep dreaming about her. Fuckin sucks. I don't even want her back, I just want the dark thoughts and anxiety to go away.
Yikes man, if she's deep into Catholicism she will only have sex to make a kid, nothing for fun..and she will be as dead as a fish in bed
what to think when a woman shotguns you with reasons and excuses why we cant date
>she doesnt feel the same
>we dont "flow"
>we have nothing in common
>we dont know each other well enough
>i dont go to the same church she does
>we rushed into dating
>she doesnt want to get more serious
now she wants to talk about things? how do you even respond to all that garbage?
I’d rather not remind myself of my idiocy.
btw we dated for three months and she dropped all this on me randomly the other night
Thanks, will do
same here user. I'm on month three and I've dreamt about her three nights in a row after not dreaming about her for like three weeks. I'm slowly getting better but its really fucked my self-image.
you move on best you can, give her space and she might come back
I'm so sorry user
How old was he?
Marry her and put babies in her belly already
Broke up with her after getting Yas Forums and wanting to bang other women.
5 years on. I can't find a stable woman to start a family with, and she's engaged and talking about kids.
Banging random girls wasn't worth it.
Next thing is i openly want to have at least 5 kids and when i asked her she said she is too young to think about such thing
But im in love so much its unreal, she feels the same.
She made me feel something I had never felt before and I haven’t felt again ever since
It’s her fucking birthday today, tried so hard not to think about it but I did. So I went and lifted weights to make sad voice in head go away
Thanks for reading my blog post
>what to think when a woman shotguns you with reasons
you are the second or third option. better move on and find somebody else that treats you like a human, not like a pet.
She's using you to cope with her ex. Yikes drop the bitch and move on.
Who's her? My life belongs completely to my boyfriend.
Amazing for 4 months then all the issues came out and she expected me to take care of them all, broke up with her and she has since gained 20 pounds, fucking fatties
>Was supposed to fly to see her last week.
>Canceled because of corona.
>text her to make small talk
>read
nice dubs none the less
She cheated on my and thought about didn't know do I just left. It's painful because she felt like home, I've never been so comfortable around someone.
>Fuck bitches acquire currency.
>The illusions of the past. You think to have cast them off, only to find them years later, unwearying, unrelenting. The past can bind a man as surely as irons. Cut the true path.
Sorry to hear that, bro. It never seems real until it hits someone close to you
>her birthday
>20th of April
>88 dubs
We all miss him user dont worry
This is too real, please dont remind me
blog post but I havent had anyone to talk about this with and it's eating me up inside.
We were having marital issues before I deployed to Iraq and they were exacerbated while I was deployed. We didn't talk for 3 or so weeks when I was redeploying to Kuwait. I called her and she was upset that I was acting like we hadn't had a fight 3 weeks prior. This is because I am quick to forgive and forget and to move on. She instead took this as me being uncaring and, for her, the final straw.
We had sex the morning after I got back home, she curled up with her knees on the bed afterwards and said, "maybe we should start using condoms..."
"We have never used condoms. Even when we started dating" I said, hurt by her suggestion.
I slept on the couch that night, the next morning I tried to talk to her about it and she snapped at me, "We're getting a divorce, user!" hands clapping at me between each word.
The next day she came home from work, talking on the phone using a too-familiar tone of voice with whomever she was speaking with. She left a few minutes later to "go to the store."
This set off my spidey senses. I got on her lap top, one which I had set up and she never changed the password too, and saw her phone in the parking lot of a hotel in town. Thinking this to be unbelievable, I wait and refresh every 10 minutes, all the while letting my imagination run rampant. A half hour goes by and there is no movement. I grab my camera and my .45 and drive to the hotel only to find no car. I drive around the area (there are lots of hotels in the area) and her car is no where to be found.
She calls me, "are you tracking my phone?"
"no" I lie. Turns out, the refreshing the page pinged her phone. Which gave her time to flee.
1/2
Just broke up last week. 2 and a half years. We had big plans together but she felt like we were forcing it with the relationship and honestly now that I've time to think on it I think she was right. We lived together so shes at her moms currently while I look for a place because I cant afford to live here by myself. I'm trying to not be bummed about it but it still gets me down. You go from sharing so much of your life with a person and then they're gone.