I'VE FUCKING WASTED MY LIFE

>The pain of being a loser for almost three decades isn't a worthwhile experience
user you need to learn to have a growth based mindset

33 and a failure but it doesn't bother me. You have to realize that your life is still un your control and life can change dramatically in a short period of time, if you are just willing to take things into your hands and are ready to take risks. The only thing you can do wrong at this point is keep doing the same shit you've been doing all this time. You can't wait for a miracle.

GO TO THERAPY RETARD. IT IS NEVER TOO LATE TO TURN YOUR LIFE AROUND EXCEPT WHEN YOU'RE 80 AND DYING

21, fat fuck, has fucked 3 women and 2 landwhales. The key is once you meet someone, dont get too comfortable with them and share too much about yourself. Be yourself but not the version of you when you're with best friends

Also it doesn't matter if you have nothing to show for it now. You are only a loser if you aren't moving forward. As long as you are actively working on improving your situation you are not a loser or a failure, you are already on the way to success, you just aren't quite there yet. The times of failure will be left far behind and they won't matter to anyone once you are on the right path.

Just turned 30, and really my best years have just started.

Read up on entering the second half of life.

It sounds like a retirement home coping mechanism, but its actually just showing that there are two parts to human life, and we are just inundated with the first.

The first part of life is answering the question "What does the world want from me?" It's about making mistakes, learning from them, and figuring out your place in the world.

The second phase of life starts once you've realized this question and are uncomfortable with it.

Lots of doctors, janitors, engineers, CEOs, bank tellers, and fast food workers ultimately run into a "mid-life crisis" of sorts. You've found your place in the world, but you may be unhappy with it (this is from analyst James Hollis, btw, who noticed this pattern and wrote about it). This is because you have found what the world wants from you, but you are now transitioning to the second half of life, which is this: "What does my soul want from me?"

And when it's different from what the world wants from you, you encounter a tension that wont go away. You become depressed. You are unsure of who you are or what you want to be, and it doesn't matter *what your profession is, what you've done for the world, or how the world views you*. It only matters if its what your soul wants you to do.

Keep posting on a Brooklyn throat singing forum, I'm sure it'll work itself out

Unironically leaving Yas Forums and never coming back would do an immense amount to improve your life. This place is a void that will only further and further disconnect you from what's important and valuable.

I spent the years of 20-28 blackout drunk
somehow managed to graduate college
kept a job
Met my now wife at 26, we got married when I was 28 and her one thing was if we were going to live together i had to stop boozing. So I did
At 30 with money saved I started law school and am in better shape than ever (still not great but I went from a fat fuck 5'10'' 195 lbs to 155 lbs and up until the gympocalypse was lifting 3 or 4 days a week.
Things get better if you make them better, things get accomplished if you move your ass and accomplish them.
A support systems help.

and it only gets worse

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Then start nigga, it's not too late until you die

Don't spend to much time on your computer. Don't waste your life looking for life wisdom on the internet, get it from actually living.

I'm 42. I was a loser for a huge part of my life, you could say I am still a loser for browsing places like this. But I did fix my life up and did improve a lot and "made it" in it.

The best advice I can give you, is just do something, even if its 1 thing. Focus on that 1 thing, if its losing fat, do that, if its fixing your teeth, focus on that. Just do SOMETHING, even if its only ONE thing.

The biggest issue I had was never doing anything because I had so many things to do, and I was just too overwhelmed about having so much things to do. I only started improving when i just picked 1 thing to improve upon, and improve on it, then when I started hitting diminishing returns, I moved onto the next thing to improve. Eventually over the years you will have improved 5 or 10 major things in your life which make an incredible difference to your life for the better.

Just start now. Fucked up teeth? Goto a dentist, get a plan to fix them, focus on your teeth 100%, nothing else, just the teeth. Once your teeth are fixed, move onto the next thing.

Its really that simple.

Naw man you've got time. I went to firefighter/emt school when I was 28 and now I'm working in the field at 31 having a pretty good time making alright money. My gf of 2.5 yrs and I just broke up though so that's fucking me up but what can you do.

lmao what are you talking about
are you implying I take this site serious?
I just come here to shitpost about fitness and to build up a healthy mindset on women and jews

reading the advice from old faggots in this thread is fucking hilarious.
what did you retards do when you were 17-24?
serious question.

tfw 28 and an attorney

Shut In NEET WoW player.

You cant expect someone who was out of society to just reenter it all of a sudden and go 0-100. Thats how the person fails and ends up back in the same situation again.

Which is why I advise improving upon 1 thing at a time if you're a loser.

You need momentum in life, which losers dont have. A person who has always been successful in life has such huge momentum in life that they cant actually teach a loser how to stop being a loser.

You need someone who was a loser who managed to build up from nothing and fix himself thats the only person who can help losers.

Haha yeah me too bro
It's still 2006 right, I still have time to change right

Thanks for the input reddit tourist

I've fucking loved my life.

I'm 25 years old. I might not have a job anymore. I might have had to pay thousands in student loan debt for falling for the biggest lie of our generation. The ideal concept of love and equality might be a total fabrication I've spent my entire adolescence chasing. I might never get to raise a child the way I always wanted to, to give them the chance to have the father I never had. But gosh darn it if I didn't have fun perfecting my body and sharing some laughs every day right here with my friends.

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reading this description of your life even stresses me out

I love you too, user.

30 turning 31 in a couple of weeks here. We will be playing catchup for the rest of our lives

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leave Yas Forums and never come back. it poisons the mind. i got the same advice and didn't listen. learn from our mistakes

You know when I think about it at least I have an excuse. I was bullied and sexually abused by my own brother growing up. Raised so fucking fat I have stretch marks all over my body. The only reason I havent killed myself yet is having a great friend group. Now I'm a 26khv incel autist because I'm a broken man with mental illness but I will never understand some people who were skinny and have semi-normal family and be virgin? wtf? Even the most ugly fucking manlet friend I have has gf and shit.

We were sold a lie as a generation (tail end millennial-23 last january)

-Was Old enough to watch 9/11 happen (4) and grow up with the forever wars being fought

-Lived through the 2008 recession watching our parents lose jobs/careers

-Go to high school and deal with Avian and Ebola outbreaks and see the rise of identitarias and women politics over muh "gender and race"

-Go to college suffer the renewed rise of Islamic terror under ISIS

-Graduate or about to Graduate college into the equivalent of the Spanish Flu Pt2 electric boogaloo into an economic recession or fucking Great Depression 2.0 where the dollar isn't worth as much due to BRRRRRR.

We are the cursed generation as we lack money, time, and normalcy to our lives.

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You'll be a fine dad user. So long as you are there for your kids they'll be ok. I have an amazing dad. He wasn't perfect but he was and still is always there. He always wanted to be the dad he never had, because his dad left when he was 6. Just walked out the door and never came back. So just be there, teach them right from wrong, and how to be strong men and women. Let your dynasty start with you. My family's started with my dad, and my little brother and I are proud every day to continue his legacy.

he's right

Same lol, except that I'm 27.