Social awkwardness

Social awkwardness

This is health related

How do I stop Being this way?

Today I was doing skip the dishes because that’s the only job I’m comfortable with, I went into a restaurant and it was busy with people lined up and I walked up to the counter to grab the food and a chick standing by the counter talking to a guy worker says in a smug ass way “I SHOULD DO SKIP THE DISHES” I didn’t acknowledge the comment I just grabbed the food and zipped it up in my bag and then the guy and her are looking at me both with shit eating smirks and the girl says “IS IT BUSY THESE DAYS?” And I replied “Yep it’s pretty busy these days” and a girl behind the counter, the guy, and the girl chatting all burst out laughing as if I was a cringy sub human or something, definitely laughing at me, idk if it was the way I said it or not, it was a friendly laugh it was like “get a load of this guy” laugh. I didn’t say anything and just left. What the fuck is wrong with me?

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you did nothing wrong they were just assholes bro

lift until you're so jacked no one would dare laugh at you

what the fuck is skip the dishes, maple syrup doordash?
anyone who laughed at you making money during a pandemic where people are staying inside and you're bringing them food is a fucking retarded nigger. there was no need to even say anything in this situation unless you planned on fighting someone, just ignore retards. Or call them a dumb fuck and go about your day.

where do you faggots even meet these people in the modern world, do you just have a punchable face or what?

Sometimes I wonder if I come off as half threatening or something but the other guy thinks of me as a easy challenge or something and that’s why I get so many shit heads eye balling me down, or maybe I just have a punchable face. I don’t know

It takes work, uncomfortable work. You have to keep putting yourself in social situations. Try to find friends to hang out with and hang out with them often. Do social things like go out to bars. Also at the same time, don't worry about fitting in with people like that. They're shitty people because they're dealing with their own shitty lives. You're not in this alone user. We're all suffering :(

This

I have no idea what skip the dishes means. Is that like a delivery driver or something?

Anyway, it doesn’t sound like you did anything wrong. Either there was a joke that you just missed and you’re overthinking it or those people were just assholes?

How old are you? I used to be like you honestly. I even tried really hard not to be like that so I’d be radically open with people and try to come off as aloof. I ended up doing some of the most embarrassing cringe shit you could ever imagine. I thought about how I didn’t fit in constantly and analyzed every social interaction up, down, and sideways. The common theme was that I was always coming down hard on myself and no one else. I used to think there was something wrong with me but once I got older I realized there was nothing wrong with me. I was just different from most people. I mean today’s standard of what is socially normal is objectively shit so it’s almost a mark of pride despite its difficulties. The shift really cemented when I was around 25 because I was mature enough by then. I think it will for you too if you’re still young. Honestly, it doesn’t sound like you’re really actually awkward though. You perhaps overthink things and that’s the root of your awkwardness, it it exists at all.

They were making fun of you and you responded like it was a literal question, that's why they laughed at you. You were supposed to zing them back. You should've said "Yeah, is it busy down at the brothel?"

>Social awkwardness

Any normie has it now because of Corona quarantine so god basically pressed the reset button on the charisma stat because some people were overpowered. Now is your time to be early on the grind user.

Haha

People are just assholes user. You didnt do anything wrong. The best thing you could do is realise that you arent gonna fit in or get along with a lot of people. I didnt and im still happy with the people i have found.

Yes they were laughing at you, and yes they’re assholes. They were looking down on you for being a delivery driver, there are people out there that see low skill jobs as utterly pathetic (no offence). You’re making money and working, that’s all that matters to most people, to some tho, they just see a pathetic delivery boy. Again. No offence, that’s what they are thinking, I always tip my skip driver well. We’re all trying to make a living, no need in career shaming.

>. You should've said "Yeah, is it busy down at the brothel?"
HOW ARE YOU SAY THIS TO US? WTF ARREST THAT EVIL MAN!!


Thats literally how it will go unless you tall and handsome, you think average looking normiecels can get away with saying shit like that ? lmfao

Get a real job

yes you can retard

>waah I'm awkward
>posts bitching frog with gun on a nepalese origami board
Yes, we can all tell that you are a little bitch, OP

You literally can. A good comeback from anyone is still a good comeback. As long as you dont stutter and look at the ground.

Its even better when a good comeback comes from an uggo cause they expect you to be a fucking retard.

I don't understand anything about this post

MDMA

Its because skip the dishes and related delivery services are a leech in the restaurant business as they take revenue away from the restaurant.

nothing wrong in being socially awkward, and i dont say dont try to be better

If you want people to be friendly with you, then you have to stop judging them like that. You are probably insecure and taking thins very personally (me too) but the vast majority of people are not trying to be cruel or will stop if you act decent to them

Next time something like this happens, say
>Please don't make fun of me. I have social problems and I know it's weird but I can't help it.
They will stop bullying you or they will face my wrath. No-one bullies MY friend and gets away with it, friend *extends hand towards you and smiles warmly* :)

Just be yourself lol

Don’t hate the messenger

As the other have said they were just dickheads and you’re fine.

PRO TIP: 90% of people are actually non confrontational and dislike it. Challenge them by saying “is something funny?” In a stern loud, clear, but calm nonannoyed way. You can also go a step further and just get straight to the point “do you want to do something buddy?”. It sounds cringe but this works. Atleast for me it does but that could be because I’m 6’2”. It’s hilarious how quickly people shut the fuck up and respect you if you go straight into confrontation mode. If yo I can’t fight or you’re just a weak faggot carry a knife/gun/taser incase they actually do follow through (my experience is about 10% of the time they do)

It was a literal question. I've been asked a ton of times if it's been busy because of covid

If that was true then why don't the restaurants just not apply to use them? They have to specially sign up to be on DoorDash/etc you know?

Fucking retard

OP this too, most normies/NPCs do this shit as a sort of cope. “I have this random JOB I don’t give a fuck about but I’m making $40k a year so I’m better than someone making $20k”. It’s a cope to make themselves feel better because they’re slacking in other parts of their lives. They’re going to be stuck in dead end shit jobs never making any real money, keep grinding and you’ll eventually be in a real career doing shit you care about while they’re still just a disposable employee bullying other people they deem lesser.

As someone who washed dishes for an entire year before I got promoted to a line cook, it’s just your job bro. People treat dishwashers like shit. It’s fucked up. I used to joke that my job title was “kitchen bitch” because I did all the unwanted jobs.
TLDR they don’t respect you because you wash dishes even though you probably work harder than them.

the jerk store called, and they're running out of YOU

yes you can, if you show you don't give a fuck people won't do shit to you