If unattractive girls find me attractive does that mean I’m unattractive? Because all the girls that show interest in me are fat obese goblins
Has finding a partner improved or detracted from your gains? Your life in general?
>single for the past year after a mutual breakup of long and troubled relationship
>career taking off, feeling super motivated
>looking at options for doctoral programs, putting a plan in place for my next couple years
>taking classes, advanced certifications on my own dime because it interests me and is rewarding
>hobbies blossom, learn to scuba, get into cars
>making huge life gains and hungry for more
>foolishly hang out with ex last weekend due to lapse in control of my primitive functions
>spend about 24 hours in a hotel room together
>feel all that drive and energy ive accumulated literally leave my body
>just want to be a lazy shithead and lay in bed with her
>start thinking insane shit like "well going back to school probably wouldn't work out anyway" and "you should give her another chance" even though dating her did serious damage to my mental health
fucking spooky, like I know it's my reptile brain trying to get me to settle down and raise children but I'm still feeling unsettled
Been with my GF for about a year now. Don’t get as much time to gym, dropped from 6/7 days a week to 4ish so have changed my programme to focus on strength as a result. I’ve gained weight (about 10lbs) because can’t be as strict with my diet because she’s a veggie and also hates eggs. Strength is the best it’s ever been, aesthetics struggling slightly, but my god am I happy in a way I’ve never been happy before. Can’t wait to put a ring on it and raise a family and teach our kids to be Yas Forums.