Why are westerners so against sex appeal in vidya?

I realized I kind of stopped buying games after 2015
never saw anything I'd want to support
last thing I bought was doom 2016

>if you make good female characters you're sjw garbage
>if you don't you're outdated and backwards
what a great timeline.

Where does this idea of "make female characters ugly to appeal for female gamers" come from? All the video gaming women I've met are crazy about skimpy anime idols and other beautiful female characters, even the out of shape extra spergy nerd women who look absolutely nothing like the women in video games have their rooms full of anime girl posters and whatnot. I have never met a guy who has a problem with idealized male characters like Solid Snake either, so why would it be any different for women and idealized female characters?