Why is it so hard and rare to form a functioning family nowadays?

Why is it so hard and rare to form a functioning family nowadays?

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That looks comfy as fuck

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>nowadays
It has and always been about resource my dude.
You either have it you don't.
Love is something only men experiance.

Literally the women and blacks

After the women wanted more rights blacks wanted rights as well and for the years they were treated like subhuman they shilled hard enough. Created a gender divide and race divide that somehow wasn't solved by them getting their rights because a group of troglodyte elites weaponised them to counteract their inane policies. We are literally in the middle of a nonviolent race war and gender war

Women have rights thats why.

Because women have been given the illusion of unlimited choice.

Jews

It takes two to tango, but only one can lead.

It's all so tiresome. I give up.

jews, frankfurt school, commies, they've been trying to break down the family for some time

When are you going to start taking hormones?

a strong family is the jew's biggest threat. its no coincidence its nearly impossible to create in these dark times

A murderous police state protects shitskins, faggots, kikels, and whores at every single turn.
As resources dwindle, we are left fighting for increasingly little as we subsidize the meaningless lives of these objectively detrimental groups. If you dare fight to put an end to this, you will be thrown into state-enforced sodom or you will die.

Women typically don't even think about starting a family until they are approaching the end of their fertility.
Even three generations ago, women knew that their place was to breed and raise children.
They have become so confused about what their role is in the world. I feel sorry for them.

Uh...short answer, feminism.
So jews. I have a psycho-bitch manager, who reminds me every day she needs to be belted in the fucking mouth until her teeth fall out and beaten until she is made painfully aware of her lack of real, god-given power.

Women must be re-subjugated, and the only thing stopping us is the police.

The police can be stopped with guns. If enough people have had enough, the police cannot safeguard women's rights, and the jew magic will fall apart.

Of course, this requires, people to turn from their evil ways, repent, and adhere to the Lord...and they won't.

So...fall deeper into your depravity. Be an incel. Suffer and grind and cry. Drink the cup of suffering you have freely purchased. Good things proceed from the Lord. And you've made your choices.

I agree. It's weird though how most men who have a family are libtards.

A family is something made out of necessity. If it's tough to survive on your own and you need to make a family to keep going by god you are going to go and make a family. If a family is not necessary and you can support yourself on a single income and no relatives or even social connections than why bother? People do what is easy, not what is good.

now you went full retard

Would you guys even be happy? If you found a girl, got married, and had kids, would you be happy? Probably not, right?

Yes? Why wouldn't I

It's hard because you're a retarded incel that spergs out about the jews all the time

>Why is it so hard and rare to form a functioning family nowadays?

The Devil's power is waxing strong, strong, STRONG!!!

And there is no target more savory for him or more crucial to destroy than the family.

>Love is something only men experiance.
'Love' is an illusion men create to get sex. It is like a video game you tailor-make for your woman to entertain herself, and keep her subhuman tendencies in check with. True love is to be reserved for your son, your brothers, your friends.

Never get high on your own supply! Simp!

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nah partially true but surface level analysis

I honestly think I would, user. That's one of life's greatest achievments.

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Jews

In the end, she would still likely just be a cheating whore or something no? And the kids would grow up to be trannies or losers so.. It just seems like, often when family is brought up, there's this big fantasy of a warm home with a loving wife and great children you can teach. Don't get me wrong, I like that fantasy too. But reality seems bleaker.

imagine being 70 and having nobody in the world that cares about you because you never had kids and have no woman, you're sick in a nursing home and the only people there are the somali staff that wipe your ass

Never. I'm either too masculine or too feminine depending on the opinions of various people online and offline over the many years.
I'd like to just go somewhere isolated and never come out.

This will always be the result of a matriarchal or gyncentric society. Low parental investment is the anti thesis of our species. High parental investment is literally our defining characteristic, our children are the slowest to develop among all species to have ever existed. All of this, because every single woman feels entitled to mate with peak male specimen regardless of her own worth. There's a reason Negroids are the least developed race on earth, matriarchal societies simply do not prosper. The only goal of such societies is fulfilling the primitive female desire of mating with the best possible male at the cost of everything else. The men suffer, the children suffer, and the women themselves eventually suffer. The only way this model can ever work is to force men to commit high parental investment through violence, which would never happen. This model simply discourages every single male from participating in the parenting process. Highly attractive males will never settle down when they have the entire female population competing for them, and will never raise any of their countless bastards. Unattractive males will fight over scraps, be unfit for the role anyway, or opt out entirely. Children need high parental investment to grow up properly and prosper. We live at times where parental investment is as low as hunter gatherer primitives. Globalists of every race and nation are doing their utmost to destroy parental investment in their own society to destroy all the competition their bloodlines have to ensure wealth never leaves their family.

That pic looks so comfy.
>Listen to the pitter patter of the rain on the roof
>Full stomach from breakfast
>Sitting in a recliner
>Your kid is watching an old VHS recording of "Bear in the Big Blue House"
>Close your eyes
>Snooze off

That's a horrible reality. I'm aware of it. I only mean to point out that the other option, a family, is really only the lesser of two evils. What should be the best thing in your life just doesn't seem all that attractive in the current society we have.

For women it's contraceptives and the pill specifically. For men it's BPA and onions.

Pls open my mind. I don't agreed with the necessary argument at all.
Life is nondualistic and things are more complex than that post so pls so tell me your analysis.

this. absolutely checked

If we threw you out of our countries we could probably live very peacefully.

Believe it or not men do feel love for women.
Every love song, every poem was written by a man in love.
That love is from knowing deep down that she's basically an object and the wish that she could be more than that.

You can fuck right off with that simp shit fella.

>Why is it so hard
never been easier
>rare
Because people dont want to

You will an hero sooner or later.
You can mark these words.

>most men who have a family are libtards.
hint: it isnt much of a family if it's you and your wife's son

You mistake my question as hostile. It's really more food for thought. Of course everybody wants to be happy with a loving family. But very few people have that. Why? Actually, this has been a problem for much longer than you might think.

Finances. Couples don’t make enough money for the cost of living. Germany has Kindergeld for that very reason

You're going to be stuck in one anyway, faggot, your kids aren't to sit around and kneel at your bedside while you regale with tales about posting on Yas Forums between dumping in a bedpan. Grow up you fucking tool.

this

Educated women.

This person brings up a good point. Family values have eroded to the point where even if you manage to get a wife and have kids, they won't be grateful and they won't respect you. They'll leave you to rot. At least in America- how many middle aged adults take care of their parents?

because you've been here demoralizing us for decades. why don't you fuck off

I just mean that people's decisions and behavior are manipulated. He's right that people often choose the path of least resistance. But what constitutes the path of least resistance can be shaped by the kikes in the government. For example single mothers are largely a result of making it easy for women to divorce and get welfare for the kids. There is no shame at all about becoming a single mom for some women, some even want that in the first place it seems. Similarly incels aren't necessarily just genetic failures but they got to that position through deliberate politics.

You can't answer the question. I assume because you don't know? It's alright. I know it may be kind of uncomfortable to think about.

Because it's fucking exhausting. Your entire life revolves around other people. You never get to experience peaceful solitude again. Women and children are needy and annoying and occasionally outright insufferable. Being at work becomes the best part of your day and vacations become a fucking chore that you're going through for the sake of someone else. Don't get me wrong, I do love my family and I won't abandon them, but if I could have my life over? No way I would do this shit again. I was so much happier as a bachelor.

It'll happen to you, too. You think it won't. You're convinced it won't. You probably think I'm an ungrateful sack of shit, and you know what? That's fine; because you have no idea. It's so easy to think about all the heartwarming after school special moments having a family apparently comes bundled with when you have none of that responsibility yet. It never ends. It's every fucking day and you don't get a break.

shut up and get back to work slave

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I said sick not stuck

you already got your answer, don't be disingenuous. you're the problem. go away.

No societal pressure to keep women from being degenerates. Women left to their own devices will burn their own world down and start their life over solely to avoid responsibility.

>Believe it or not men do feel love for women.Every love song, every poem was written by a man in love.
Because they SIMP fella. My dad never loved my mom - by that I mean he kept himself reserved to a degree. He gave her like 60-80% of his love, the rest was just keeping frame, TRP style. Resultingly there was plenty of love for me to come around, like, Confucian-style levels! He just focused all his surplus energy on his paternal role. Way more effective in keeping her from divorce than if he gave her the surplus directly, because I always had his back when she acted uppidy!

Sorry to hear you got affection-cucked by your mom! Father-Son friendship is waaay better than any affection a mother can ever give, and your ancestors knew it!

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Asking questions is problematic?