Is it possible to admire both orthodoxy and catholicism at the same time or do you like have to pick a side or else?

Are you denying that Wesley glosses over the stricter aspects of your faith to focus on the feel good stuff? Have you never read the man's sermons?

Eastern Rite Catholic Churches are still ethnic enclaves for cradles and Byzantine Cargo Cult centers for converts, with the extra sperg from the TradCats fed up with Susan from the Parish Council at their local Novus Ordo Church. ER Catholicism isn't much of a refuge.

Yes, ultimately both of them, and even protestants, are all one in Christ.

Calvinist here, I like parts of the Anglican Church and the Catholic church. Catholic posters are pretty insufferable sometimes but am willing to overlook it. I've grown the dislike the Orthodox over the past couple of years. I'm sure cradle orthos are ok.