Does anyone have any tips on how to abandon the incel ideology?
It's ruining my life. I view women as being less than men and I find women who choose to work rather than have children as being pathetic. I can't take women scientists or politician's seriously and I think normal young women who wear skimpy clothing and go out drinking are disgusting. I think women are too emotional and generally obnoxious. I don't think women are funny. In general, I don't like being around women and only believe they should be homemakers and bear children for men.
How do I escape this belief system? It's not healthy and I can't fit in with modern society like this. It's taking a toll on my mental health by not being able to relate with the opinions of normal productive members of society. When I see successful people and politicians who don't think like I do it makes me feel really shitty. I can't stand it anymore. I want to stop having this old fashioned view of women. It's isolating me from society further and further every year as women are becoming more and more prevalent in positions of power.
you're absolutely correct though. the only way to escape that belief system is to become a simpleton
Austin Collins
That doesn't help when this thought frame is preventing me from having sex in the first place.
Brody Barnes
lmao just stop doing the bad things
Tyler Long
I'll try and make you feel better incel
No man likes being around a women. We are just too different. It has always been this way. Not enjoying their company doesn't mean you have to hate them. I don't like being around my parents very much but I still love them.
I've been married for 8 years. My wife is upstairs watching some brain-dead tv show and I'm on my phone while pretending to watch a movie. My kids are playing with each other in their room. None of us are even in the same room. Its not because of the Shanghai shivers. Its always like this. Most families are.
Even though I'm married to a women I love and have two awesome kids I still get lonely, bored and generally upset with life.
Maybe you will find a women you like and start a family. Maybe you won't. Either way you will still be you. Its all the same. Being alone is our natural state. Learn to enjoy it.
Bentley King
i knew this guy in high school. he lived with his grandma, she didnt give him shit. he also smoked cigarettes and acted about half retarded fat slob. he had a matress in the floor and a poster on the wall that was it, like that
Josiah Allen
user women are inferior to men but so are dogs and i love them both. my advice is stop being a loser and have sex
Sebastian Robinson
It's not an ideology, it's an illusion and a crutch that keeps you from actually putting in the long-term, steady work that is required in order for you to achieve the things that you want out of life (material possessions and interpersonal relationships). Similar to drug addiction or clinical depression, you are stuck in a negative and counterproductive "loop" and mindframe where your failure to achieve your (potentially unrealistic) goals in the short term render you even more hopeless, and evermore unlikely to make any sort of progress.
In short, you need to snap out of it and realize that the quite drastic changes that you would like to see from your current state of mind, lifestyle, material and social conditions won't come overnight. However, if you truly invest your energy in making slow, incremental changes to your habits, productivity/output (in regards to work, education, hobbies and socialization) and physical fitness, you will find yourself in a completely new and vastly improved situation in 6-8 months time. I believe in you user, you've already taken a significant step by posting and seeking the help of others with an open mind.
