I need your help Yas Forums. My 14 y/o daughter wants a vibrator.
>be me, single dad. >get email from daughter's school that they are finally going to try to start their online classes in 2 weeks so that she can pass this year. >daughter still sleeping at 2pm because time means nothing anymore. >I get her tablet to install the apps her school says she will need. She's never kept the tablet secret or anything, and she has a phone, so it's not like I'm sneaking into it or being nosy. >install a couple apps >go to install some kind of group chat app, and she already has it. >open app to log into account the school made for her, but app is already logged in with her own account. >conversation open with 3 other girls, 2 of which I recognize names as her friends. >last night they were discussing guys, sex, and then sex toys. >2 of the girls said they bought vibrators online with their own amazon accounts. >daughter said she wants a vibrator but doesn't have amazon. They share amazon links to vibrators and even butt plugs they wanted, and links about making homemade sex toys before all going to bed at like 5am.
So my daughter wants a sex toy. I think I'm okay with that, I mean I feel that she's old enough and it's better than chasing dick for fun. It sounds like a lot of her friends have something like that by now anyways. Some DIY links were pretty sketchy though. I definitely put my wiener in some crazy stuff at that age to get off, but that's different than putting something inside you and I definitely don't want her to get hurt or get an infection or anything like that. We have a good relationship, but we never talk about sex because her school handled that before I even had to think about that conversation.
I don't want to tell her that I saw her messages because that would be extremely embarrassing for her and it's not like she did anything wrong. What does Yas Forums think I should do?
Honestly my dude its either her hand or a vibrator. Its not going to stop her from getting off. At least if she's open with her sexuality as an individual she won't use men to explore it later on.
t. dad with 18 year old girl
Adam Butler
gift her a Amazon card, help her set up a account, give some BS excuse.
Adrian Walker
this seems like a good idea. make sure you pass it off as a gift for something she did so she thinks its just a coincidence. alternatively, you could rape and kill her
Xavier Lewis
This, but $100
Anthony Smith
Get her a vibrator and stop being a faggot, bad dragon has a few good ones
Mason Hall
Next time you swap out toothbrushes, get her an electric one.
Jordan Hernandez
I agree, a decent vibrator will be at least $50.
Robert Diaz
I want you to get off Yas Forums and never come back, dad.
No seriously... you should get her a vibrator and leave it in her room and not say anything. Or if you have any lady friends/relatives that could broach the topic with her and do the deed, then that works too.
If she asks, you don't have to tell her the full story. If she figures it out on her own then fair game. You should at the very least be honest and tell her that she's getting to that age, everyone does it and it's nothing to be embarrassed about, and you'd rather her be able to explore things by herself before ever thinking about offering herself up to the first shitlord that comes along.
The more you are honest with her and the more you teach her about life, the better prepared she will be.
Michael Harris
Pretty open minded of you OP. good job.
Camden Perez
Slap yourself for reading those messages instead of looking for win
why get her a toy when you have a fully functioning jizz shooter
Ryan Gutierrez
Ok well fine I'm neither a dad with a daughter or a homosexual male so didnt think vibes were that expensive. Dad, I would think twice about giving her any more than is necessary to buy a decent starter vibe. You're her dad not her porn producer.
Nathaniel Wilson
This too, obviously
Owen Perry
They shared like 20 different amazon links between them and talked about which ones they liked. No blacks ones though, thankfully
Christopher Wood
What would be wrong with her chasing dick (safely)? This seems like youre just venting about struggling to accept your present reality and thats a lot of typing you did there. calm the fuck down
I agree with the gift card thing, but tell her you'll give it to her if she does well during her first week or so of classes. 2 birds 1 stone.
Christopher Turner
"We have a good relationship, but we never talk about sex because her school handled that before I even had to think about that conversation."
Nope. Her school handled whatever bullshit curriculum is mandated. Sack up and talk to her yourself.
Dylan Perry
Just don't tell her you saw and buy a few for her to play with from a sex shop or something under the guise that she's "getting older now" and you want her to be safe and responsible and "you know it's hard without a mom" and all that shit and you're "trying your best" to help her grow up to be a good woman and that she has sexual needs and it's good to have open communication with each other, blah blah blah.
Just buy them!
Michael Peterson
>No blacks ones though, thankfully Is this where the troll kicks in?
Ethan Hall
Vibrators are unnatural and ungodly. Just give me your address, and I'll pop round and fuck the shit out of her the way god intended.
Christian Torres
Buy her something that can be used as a vibrator but isn’t.
Ryder Bailey
nokia 3310 on vibrate
Camden Johnson
And she still won’t have an orgasm
Jose Baker
Get her a $50 amazon gift card and let her order whatever the fuck she wants. Jfc dude... you were a horny fucking teenager once... use your brain and parent.
Not a bad idea but It might seem weird because I've never done that before I think the biggest thing is that probably wouldn't want it delivered here because she never orders anything and I might open it?
One of her friends said that she'd order something for her if she wanted and give it to her, but with school closed they don't see each other in person anymore.
Levi Morgan
Every human culture from the earliest recorded has had phallus objects used by women for masturbation, Only in the very , very recent past has it been viewed as ‘sinful’
