Hey Yas Forumsros, I really need your help. So basically since i discovered masturbating i developed the habit of doing it regularly. The problem is that now i have a gf. If I do not masturbate for a week and we try to have sex, i last about 5 minutes. If I masturbate a Day or two before the act, that is if I know that it's going to happen before hand, I will last longer, like half and hour or an hour, but not at full capacity. We have sex, but if i pull out to go down on her, when we change the position she must give me a handjob to make it hard again to be able to penetrate. And of course there is the issue of her telling me that I do not like her body, and that's because i don't have a full hard on. So my question is how do I prevent premature ejaculation. I mean, i suppose most answers will be to stop masturbating. But how? How in the sense that after this pandemic shit is over and we meet again, i will have blue balls theoretically and just explode at the first touch. So any advice? Sorry for the long post. Pic unrelated.
Hey Yas Forumsros, I really need your help...
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first world problems....
try being a 33 yr old virgin you selfish fuck.... at least you get sex.
Don't stop masturbating completely but the number of times you do it. do it once every three days. Skip a jerk off day if you know you're going to be fucking.
I mostly do this for her. I am satisfied even if i last 5 min. Or a short bj. But i want to make her feel good as well. Besides fingering or oral sex. I want to make her feel good to. And for a longer period, not just a few thrusts
Shut up retard you're probably a virgin because you try too hard.
R u sure u like women
Thx for the tip. I will try this
No, don't stop masturbating, that stuff just builds up and builds up and you'll come quicker, with more spunk. I've always found doing it once a good 3-4 hours before I have sex helps me last longer.
It's an ongoing battle user, but you'll figure it out.
Ask Kurt Cobain
Doesn't sound like a terrible thing if her body is repulsive to you but you still cum in 5 minutes. Must have some bomb ass pussy... I ran into a girl like that on Tinder who, regardless of not being the shape she indicated on her bio, had a magic pussy I still think about. Shit made me feel like a high schooler again rather than a mid-30s man who can generally time his orgasms to coincide with his partners'.
Not every girl has the magic, OP.
Yeah, but that's the problem. I will last longer but it won't be as hard as if it's for the first time in 2-3 days. I want it to be rock hard, so that we don't have to stop to get it back into shape after each little break, like deciding what position to do next
She says that, not me. I like her body. A lot. Not very big breasts, like 75B, but she has a really big ass, and not big like fat, but big like beautiful big. So I am really attracted to her, that's not the problem
Don't put so many expectations on your dick like it's not part of you. Enjoy the whole experience. Expectations ruin everything in relationships, from you and your girl to you and your cock. You >are< your cock, my friend.
masturbating isn't the problem; porn is
continue to masturbate if you want but don't look at porn.
also who cares if you cum early, just use your hands/mouth. better than not being hard
You're complaining about 5 minutes? I blow a full load in 23 seconds after it's in.
Maybe some positions would help you last longer. Cumming is linked to breathing and muscle tension - the more tense you are and the less you breathe, the sooner you'll cum. So we like to finish in cowgirl because then I can completely relax my body, and if I feel I'm getting softer, I can just raise my torso a little, grab her face, make it more intense. On the opposite, if I'm near too soon, I can focus on breathing and do some weird shapes with my fingers or something.
The thing is visual situation is also a "problem" so to say. If we do doggy for example, as I mentioned above, she has a great ass and I can't help but stare at it as i'm fucking her. Not that this is my problem, i guess we all do this, i'm just saying that if i have a great view i will be closer to cumming
So fuck her twice. 1st shot on her face or in her mouth. 2nd shot in da pussy. And then a nap.
>course there is the issue of her telling me that I do not like her body
Get a new woman.
There are times where i can go two rounds. But not always
fuck off dude, I wish I could last five minutes. I have to get my gf off with oral and toys because I blow my load as soon as I get touched.
what's going on here, anons are actually being nice...
>Not every girl has the magic, OP.
This fucking guy knows. Some bitches I can fuck for hours. Those are usually the ones that like sex but they aren't comfy with their body or some daddy issues. And then there are the next level pussies. Those pussies are attached to bitches that love the dick, with daddy issues. Those bitches get into your mind and fuck you like a woman should.
Fuck you, you motherfucker shit bird, piece of shit, low life dirt bag, bitch. Have a good day, user.
not saying i'm unhappy about it
I can only last long in bed when the girl is average or ugly. I premature with anyone that I find attractive, so I look for 4/10s to actually enjoy long sex. Feel bad for ghosting after hooking up.
>Feel bad for ghosting after hooking up.
Don't, those secondary bitches know they are second choice. They should be happy they got dick at all. They know deep inside they are going to get ghosted but they want the dick more. So, fuck on my friend, your doing God's work.
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Works for me edging
Hahaha!