How can I deal with being in love with someone who I'm 100% sure doesn't love me back...

I'm friendzoned into the oblivion. She constantly says she loves me and stuff, but that's just in a friendly manner and it only hurts me even more. She had a boyfriend, but they didn't even like each other so they broke up, but now they're supposedly together again somehow (from what she says she doesn't love him and I'm the person she's most comfortable talking about her problems and life, but she hopes that they will eventually love each other because now it's only a crush).

I just want to vanish right now

Tell her about everything and if she wont agree 4 fuck(or whatever) just spit in her face

Find someone else, move on. Don’t waste time on this. Drink with your buddies, chase other women. You’ll forget all about this girl once you’re balls deep in another. Seriously, you’re young - play the field, forget about love for now. Just have fun.

I know what I should do, but god damn it still hurts. And I wanted to confess to her and end this "friendship" thing, but because of the quarantine I can't even do that.

Also, I still wonder how the fuck did she even got together with that guy. Seriously, she had a crush because he gave her compliments, but she doesn't even like talking with him. She literally perceives going out with him on dates as a chore. This is just absurd. I seriously don't want to sound like a nice guy, and I constantly reminded myself not to be like one. I also never talked with her like a nice guy. That's why I became her best friend. Like she literally tells me every single thing about her day, always asks me for advice, she told me countless of times that I'm the person she trusts the most and that she would be the most sad if she lost me. But you know, it just makes me so angry, what is so wrong with me? Is it the looks? The personality? This just feels too cruel.

stopping a faggot and learn to take advice, do what these anons said:

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Have you tried dropping off of the face of the earth? Works for me.

No matter what I do I just get regrets that "if maybe I did better I wouldn't be in this situation right now". No matter how hard I try everything just comes back to her, I can't find a better person for me. So I don't think that the "find someone else" part of the advice can actually help me.
I can forget about the situation for a while if I dive into maths, that kinda helps, but sometimes I'm so depressed I can't even do that.

Also, one time she told me she had a crush on my best friend because of his looks. Nothing came out of it, but now I can't even look at him normally since every time I think about it I'm getting filled with jelousy. Literally everybody likes him as a person, and from my point of view he doesn't make any mistakes at anything in his life. It's like he's a natural magnet for people. I also know that I shouldn't think about him like that because he's my best friend, but what the actual fuck, why can't I be the happpy one for once.

Mate i love you, what do you like about her? If shes likes someone Else better than You in that way you shouldnt like her in that way, watch peepshow

I love you, do you have discord or something?

Dude. There are SO many other fish in the sea. You've simply allowed yourself to become captived by ONE. The solution is to talk to ither girls.

I was once in your position. Was friendzoned HARD. As soon as I started dating other girls and paying almost no attention to friendzone girl she started shit with the girls I was with and had serious jealousy issues. That changes the way you see them. They become jealous succubus cunts that are just using you for the attention you give them, take away that attention and you'll get a better picture of who they really are.

Makes it very easy to move on.

Opening up discord will just give me bad memories of all the times I talked to her 6+ hours. But thank you, I really appreciate it

Literally everything - her personality, her pure, kinda naive outlook on life, her jokes, her smile and laugh, the way she always tries her best. She sometimes feels like a mirror image of me, since we both have problems with life. That's why I always tried to help her, if not directly then emotionally. Then the more I knew about her the more I started to like her, and now I'm like this.

Okay, Why do you like that she is pure and naive? Maybe that is why she doesnt know you like her and that she doesnt like you if you're very serious or something

If you got with her i think you'd get tired of her being naive/pure

Research Stoicism.

Okay, maybe I went a little overboard. Actually she loves drinking alcohol with her friends (I personally hate it, especially since my father was an alcoholic and left our family). But she's not an alcoholic, I think. I tried to dislike her because of that, but I feel like I'm just too blinded by her. If there's a bad side to her my brain automatically overlooks it. It's just so wrong.

Apart from that, she is pure because of the way she thinks about people, how she always tries to help them, and how she wants to believe that people are generally good

It works until you actually become sad. Right now I'm doing my best to maintain the impression of being cool and composed, and from what I heard from others it works, but inside I'm just screaming for help.
Also, yeah, that was really edgy from me. I've never had this famous "edgy" phase, so now's the time

Lmao stop being a pussy. I've never once been shook for more than a few days after being dumped, theres countless girls out there. The more you dwell on it the more it makes you a depressed annoying faggot noone wants to be around.

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move on faggot

Okay, i think you might just really like her appereance and laughter, i used to "like everything" about a trap guy, but he was just hot and had been raped, and liked some of the same Things as I did, but I found out that he was apperently really indifferent about everyone, i think it might genuinely be her 'charm' that has you feeling fucked up

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Hope that helps, now go out there and find someone better! I believe in you!

As if that's going to be easy. Like I said, I already wanted to move on by confessing and getting rejected, but now that's postponed cause Coronavirus-chan is everywhere

I like her looks but for me it's her personality that's charming. Like no matter what she does, it's just way too cute. But if what you say is really true, then I still don't know how to stop that.

I also just want to thank everyone here right now because I don't feel as alone as I did before. Love you guys

Recognize that romantic love is a fleeting emotion designed to facilitate breeding in a dangerous, prehistoric world.

While this fact doesn't invalidate your emotions, it helps you focus on the broader context - ultimately, it doesn't really matter. Your love for her will fade over time, and eventually you'll move on.

Try to forget about your crush, OP.

I think that if you got with her you might actually become tired of the cuteness, but you should Do an update on here when you tell her, when will you tell her do you think?

And You're welcome, thank you for making the thread

Stop being a bitch and tell her you have to cut her out of your life because you’re in love with her and need to get over it.
Then actually cut her out of your life and move on. Being a beta pussy and keeping someone in your life that doesn’t feel the same way about you as you feel about them is retarded

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Here is a piece of sincere advice, OP - been engaged twice, and more than a few 'relationships'.

All women are whores - if you are not a retard, you come to this conclusion sooner or later.

Focus on bettering yourself, and women will come and go. Pleasing and attracting women is not something you want to waste your time or emotional energy on.

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