I hate being an Incel!

I hate being an Incel!
Why can't I get a cutie like this?

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Because you're spending your energy posting this thread at god knows what hour Tuesday night/Wednesday morning. Get in shape and go meet chicks dude. Its nobody's fault but your own.

Parce que tu ne parles pas français, faggot.

she dutch tho

Colgate lady looks ok

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You can't she has black boyfriend

Atention whore

I love her name: Jutta

OP here.
1.93cm, 78kg, totally fit and in shape.
blond hair, blue eyes

Salty faggot

>oh God you're right. Fuck me
Point still stands though. Bitches love a man who's multilingual, and most women appreciate dirty talk in French. There truly is a sexual stigma linked to it.

>1.93cm, 78kg,
Skelly

Not OP, but questioning some shit that went down earlier.
>Monday, grocery store, always seen this cashier, qt, around, end up buying a winning scratch card and go back to the store to get my money, shes managing the self checkout and i keep looking over at her, she ended up walking up to me, like 3 feet away, about to say something, and then I turned and she looked at me really shy, smiling and did a 180, could feel something but didnt do anything.
Got home, got pissed I didnt make a move, then promised I would next time
>FF to today, went there to go buy flowers for my mom's birthday, guess its a decent icebreaker
>Shes working the cash register, go into her line, my heart is fucking pounding, already promised id ask for her number
>walk up, hand her the stuff, small talk
>she says the total, i say "i know its kinda weird, but could I get your number?"
>pauses, smiling, she says "im gonna have to say no...im talking to someone right now"
>no problem
>hands my receipt, and before I walk off, blurts out "Im so sorry, you're really cute, I just cant"
>fuck
I'm not really pissed off but I can't tell if shes just trying to sound nice or if it was legit. I'm 6'2 and about average maybe a little above average in terms of looks. What you guys think? She went up to me the previous day and definitiely wanted to say something to me but i'm confused.

She's probably into other athletes, user. She might have some unknown attractions too so that part is unfair but everyone has those.
There's plenty of women out there like her. Sure they won't be world class athletes but I'm sure you could find someone you like enough through some sort of sport or even just working out. Not saying to go hit on every woman you see in a gym though.

You already have the height and the looks from the sound of it. What's your problem? Can't talk to women because you're a virgin or something? Being a virgin honestly isn't a big deal unless you make it one, though of course the more experience you have the better. If you don't care about losing it to someone you will be with "forever" then lower your standards and start learning the game.

why would a cutie like that choose you instead of one of your betters?

probably start by not labeling yourself as an incel

Just imagine all the hot, steamy, crazy sex she has.

Who knows with women, could have been legit or she could have just been really shy/scared because she's just that into you. That or you're misinterpreting what she was really going to do the day before.
Just take it as a confidence booster for next time.

I'll take that. Yeah its definitely got me feeling weird because I very rarely have girls compliment me like that. Last time was at work months back and this girl just shouted "You're really cute!" when she walked out the door.

You're probably just as oblivious as me when it comes to girls. My friends tell me all the time that girls are checking me out or giving me hints and I never see it unless it's something that obvious

Je crois qu'il parle des putes qui sont très belle, non de leur lang


I don't speak French so go ahead and be smug about my mistakes

He doesn't are about the language, more about the loos

How do I develop after year of my parents sheltering me and socially isolating my from the world.

1. How do I deal with all these young 20-somethings all being physically fit and having perfect bodies / social media account

2. How do I deal with having missed out on so much in life?

TFW....
> You played field hockey at a club which had boys and girls teams
> You find out many years later that the boys and girls would meet up after weekend matches and have massive orgies, sex parties and gangbangs in the locker rooms and showers
> Your parents would frog march you to the car and drive you home straight after a match or practice session
> I was never able to stay at the club after practice sessions or matches to socialise with my peers as your parents said you have other appointments.
> Now thinking my parents knew what happened at the club and denied me the chance to develop sexually
> I'am a sad, lonely, 20-something kissless virgin

Recently I spoke to a colleague who also played field hockey.
He explained to me that these sex parties were encouraged as most where from middle and upper class household.
Meaning good health and hardly any STDs.
He also said 17-25 years are you golden years to party and fuck around (metaphorically and literally)
When I told him that during those years I was mostly a recluse he called me a total loser and mocked me.

But it is true

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Social media can be like a game too. Most people only post the best things in their life or try to spruce it up to look better than it is, even on their bad days. Filters help with looks a lot in that too, I've been told by a few friends that they even edit their photos beyond just simple insta filters.
Kind of pathetic of them to do imo but I get it. That's how you get a following which can lead to sponsors or selling something to them.
>Or just not feeling alone
I have social media but never use it and my friends think I'm a weird for it but in reality it doesn't hurt me irl


>Missing out on life
Not sure, I had the same with football and band. I had known my mates were fucking some of the cheerleaders but right after a game I had to leave as well.
Just try not to dwell on it because that past is over and you have to look toward what you can be doing now. 16-25 imo is def the peak years but that doesn't mean the years after have to suck either. If you're still into hs/college girls then fuck it, the ones in my area are suckers for alcohol because they think it makes them cool

Kill them (parents)
Traumatize yourself into understanding (fucking hooker after hooker and being a man slut in general)
Get over yourself

Are you rich?

I wasn't so of course had to feel some fake envy because they could do shit like that because they could afford it
I couldn't and can't so I don't give a fuck about what isn't even my circle

Agreed, social media is total bullshit. Its just a mind game.
Can't comment on the missing out on life part.

Kek

Oh and OP some women are gold diggers. They can be fun but only while you're spending your hard earned money. They aren't worth it unless you have endless cash

It turned from people being honest at times to trying to be influencers. My own sister calls herself a micro influencer and shills pet products to ~30k followers.

She's a professional athlete. She trains 18 hours a day, travels and competes everywhere, does multiple sponsorship events and watches every single thing she eats.
She doesn't have time to fit you in her schedule. Besides what time did you wake up today? 11am. She's already burnt off 2000 calories by then.
Besides any guy she partners with will be moving in the same circles as her and 'gets' her lifestyle.

Yeah Yas Forums lookism is wrong. I have a BMI of 20. I've never had a girl interested in me. I don't think I'm the most handsome guy, but I've had girls tell me I'm handsome. I've just never had any interested in me. I've been attracted to girls at work and school they just all shoot me down. I'm starting to think it is just a personality thing. Yes I'm a virgin, I'm not obese, disgusting and deformed, my standards aren't to high, I've just never had any girl interested in me.

Looks only go so far user. Don't trick yourself into thinking there aren't shallow girls who don't want to fuck every single fit guy they see but there has to be some other things going into it too than just your fitness level.
Personality can be a big thing but I feel like that's only needed for an actual relationship.
If you're just trying to get your dick wet then it shouldn't be that big of an issue if you whore yourself out at a club.