>10yr GF wants her freedom/space aka The Cock Carousel >Wants to know the novelty of being single and not having to worry about me. >She still loves me, but doesn't seem fully in love with me. I know I've taken her for granted and haven't been plowing the fields well for about a year. >I still want her, offer swinging. Not enough. Just wants to be free. >Both 30. Have a house and everything. I'm keeping mostly everything. She doesn't care. Just wants to be free.
What can I do b/ros? I've been romancing her for a couple weeks. Feelings go off and on. Even if I keep her, she will still lust for the newness of other men wanting her. Something I'll never be able to replicate...
Congrats on keeping the house and your shit. You’d have neither if you were married. If you had made the mistake of marrying her she’d still have left. Let that sink in. Huge silver lining man
Hudson Powell
I know man. But fuck it hurts knowing that she craves freedom so much, she even knows it's probably a mistake, but it's still worth it.
Noah Hernandez
For real dude. Not to mention you got a house and shit. Find a new gf. You’ll have fun too! Ten years is a long time to date someone. Don’t stay with her if she doesn’t want to be together anymore. It didn’t work out and that’s okay!
Ayden Sanders
>30
Matthew Morris
In time you will see you dodged a bullet. You probably have hear this, but it gets better. Let me ask you, even if you could make her stay, would you want to now? Knowing there is always a chance she wants to leave? Thats not a relationship anymore, you cant control people, and you feel this way because that person is very familiar to you, but i bet you dont love them the same way you did before. They are not the same person you feel in love with and you have to slow that pill.
Julian Myers
She's been my best friend for 12 years man. I started treating her more like that than a woman for the past year or so. It's tearing me apart that me not fucking her is what's the cause of this. She's given me threesomes throughout the years and is great woman. I can't lose her ...
Matthew Gray
This is why I don't feel bad in the least bit that I have not lived with a woman yet again age 27. Head up King
Aiden Ross
You can't change her mind. Let her go. Don't take her back after she fucked because she already proved that her own needs are more important to her. Start fucking around too, then after few years get new gf. Women after 30 are such easy to get.
Landon Russell
Exactly what this user says you are one of the luckiest man alive. Also thank God she understood her feelings in advance. Abort the ship and move in with your life.
>30 >No kids Sounds good, let her have the freedom she wants She will crawl back in 5 years crying how she wants a child and family Stop being a fag and leave that whore
Anthony Hill
Well everyone of us had someone they really loved which broke their heart. Welcome into the club of broken people.
Gabriel Parker
>Offer swinging Top tier cuck Kys
Henry Bell
I met her as a hippie and formed her. She's said I've been like a dad/BF .She never was great with emotions. Of course things be different. But I've never been a quitter. And it will be in the back of my head. That's why I'm desperately searching for answers. I know I've lost her. She will probably move out next month. But even if she does, I'm going to try and win her back.
Joshua Roberts
happened to me after 7 years. But my gf cheated on me and prolly knew she was pregnant and said take a "year" off. I told her she leaves this relationship it is over for good. she still said im going to leave.
CUT AND RUN. KEEP YOUR SHIT you are better off without her. Trust me. I am now happily married with a house. Learn from this experience and grow.
Jose Jones
The decision to say ,” I want something new” doesn’t just come out of nowhere. Especially after so many years. It’s a decision choice that isn’t made lightly. There isn’t some random gesture or promise you can make to suddenly make her never want to do that.
It’s really a blessing.
You have 2 real choices in front of you. 1) you can move in realizing that even though you care for her and spent a lot of time together, it just didn’t work out. Nobody at fault 2)entire the wonderful world of being a cuck. You get to stay with her and be her one-sides best friend as she gets to fuck whoever she wants and even develop feelings for them too. And you get a brand-new title
Logan Miller
It's not about the pussy man. We've grown up together. Been through thick and thin. If I get some other whore, I'll be in the same spot just a few years later.
Adrian Adams
I never loved anyone starting with trying to find my own mother and trying to salvage the relationship between my sister and father who I despise.
Who are you again?
Ryder Rivera
She's actually never wanted kids, I wanted one maybe in like 4 yrs. Reason why we are not married is because she doesn't care for it either. She's been good to me. I failed her...
William Garcia
So am I supposed to just keep getting a new girl to fall in love with every few years. Again, she's given me 3somes throughout the years. I even took an 18yr olds virginity a couple years ago, thanks to her. I don't want to be a cuck, but fuck, I don't want to lose her either. I think my best choice is to let her go and win her back. I was just posting here for some other advice/ideas. But thank you, you speak the truth
Cameron Wilson
I'm kinda dealing with the same shit now. Been with this girl for like 4 years. We don't have a house together or anything but I took a job near her which is like ten hours away from anyone else I knew before moving here. Past year has been bland. I was away on work most of the summer and she started having really fucking bad anxiety and anger problems, both of which led to problems in bed. Been about a year now. The bed situation has gotten better, but she's like splitting time at her grandparents like 5 hours away. We don't see each much now and when we do everything gives her anxiety cause if she can't get to her grandmom her grandmom will die. It's like outrageous, especially with this covid shit. So idk, honestly hearing you going at it on your own gives me hope and is making me look for jobs by my friends back home.
Connor Peterson
Don't confuse love with caring. Feelings dissipate. You'll miss her like crazy for about 5 years max. Usually much lower. Once you dissolve the familiarity you'll feel better cause that's all there was
Lincoln Cooper
This is going to sound like a bitch thing to say, but love is many things. Maybe it is familiarity, caring, but we are great partners as well. Are we all just meant to move on from one partner to the next once we hit that expiration point?
Jose Anderson
This.
Benjamin Lewis
I meant more on her side but I'm sure that it applies to you as well. You only care so much now because she's leaving. If you loved her like you said you did it would have been different
It could be abysmal between you two, sounds like you're getting off easy enough. Be thankful for the experience, get it in writing that you get to keep the house. Don't you dare take her back once she crawls on all fours towards you. Good luck!
