Was in a 4 year relationship, whore cheated on me

5 month ago listened to sad music cried for a couple weeks then stopped being a bitch pulled my shit together and began moving on. Started dating a new girl just before corona. Got a big test right away as she got quarantined with me. It's going quite well thanks for asking

yeah nah, she is with the guy she cheated on me with and when I tried to just talk she basically told me to fuck off.

happened last week for me, I cried at first then I got really pissed. I'm trying to pull my shit together but the emotions keep fucking with me. never got to tell the bitch to go fuck her self and I hope she'd burn in hell.

As long as you hold on to that she owns you. Women like that aren't worth it. She'll end up unhappy with some douche they always do. Check up on her in a couple years and you'll be asking how you ever let her make you feel like that. We can't control what happens only how we respond. So do you want to wallow in misery or take that pain and put it towards something productive. Those are your choices. Everything from here is up to you

I've been there before my guy. Best thing to do is just cope with it for now then move on by re-building yourself and getting over it. It's not the end of the world, though it may feel like it. She is a total bitch/slut for it and even though you can't let it out on her, you should just move on. Though considering the reason why she cheated on you and if your story is true, her current relationship is doomed to fail considering how fragile she seems to the idea of "not being loved".

What I'm saying is that if you actually play things out right and do you, over time you will move on and come out just fine. It's usually the long term solution that wins you a better life. Though, if you ever find anything lewd to post, feel free to cause fuck that bitch and you really have nothing to lose.

Mmmm.
Reminds me of an ex.
She was doing an internship about 6hrs away, and I'd been driving to see her every weekend.
She remarked one night how I only saw her when it was convenient for me.

Kill her

Hey user
Here is what you want to do. Start going out for drinks and build up a social network. Try to find some sort of community. Then in time you will find someone with the same values as you. The 4 years you spent on her proberly made you forget to spend time on your social life with other people. Ensure you don't forget this.

If the whore comes back when you succeed in a new social environment you can fuck her once and after you are done tell her what she is and that's it.
Or you can be graceful and smile back
Tl Dr : get new friends

thanks, I've been trying to be positive. and been making plans for myself. most i can do is try my best.

Ok.In which case,at least you know where you stand/your position.
Give yourself some ‘time’,pick yourself back up,and get back out there.Best of luck to you

should i ask people to go out for drinks or should i find friends when i go out to drink. Finding real friends is pretty hard.