I just found out my gf cuts herself and has suicidal thoughts.
what should I do, I try to help, I try to tell her there are other ways of dealing with her problems but she won't listen to me.
and part of me wants to leave her because it's becoming a burden but the other doesn't because I love and care about her and I want to help.
can somebody give me a light
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do you live w her?
Gtfo please user. She will ruin u
no, would be easier if I did, She lives with her mom, who constantly beats her and treats her like crap.
Take her to therapy. She needs to figure out why she wants to cut in the first place. Then she has to find a resolution to the problem.
its entrieley an online relationship?
her parents have been abusing her since she was a kid, she showed me the bruises, its not just physical, her mom calls her a rotten barbie, etc.... all her exes cheated on her and treated her like crap too, she's too submissive.
I told her that she's still a minor and she could go to the cops but she doesnt want to because then she won't go to the college of her choice
no, I know her in real life, we see each other almost every day, but its a bit tough with the quarantine thing
Well if she's getting beaten by her mom, then you need to report it. You're gonna need evidence first, like bruises on her body or something.
Also suicidal people are very annoying to deal with sometimes, coz they're so caught up in their emotions that they just won't listen to anyone coz "no one knows how I feel". I recommend you just listen to her, and leave the actual therapy to the professionals
are you also a minor? be honest user
user my guy Ive been in your exact situation and what happened with me was 3 years of keeping her alive / being blamed for 2 suicide attempts my guy you have to end it here no matter how much you think you love her you shouldn't be responsible for anyone's happiness nor life
Bro, let me tell you. Cuts for attention. People who really want to die don't cut that lightly and not that direction.
I hate to say this but Anons are possibly right. If you already support her and she still does her shit you can't help her.
I had an ex who would stress for the slightest reason. I thought I am part of the problem and I suffered for years because I loved her and love harmony.
Now I have the sweetest ass gf that has her shit together and only makes a fuss if it's really important.
I'm 18 she's 17
you shouldn't come to Yas Forums to find way to kill your gf, user
Have her watch this streamable.com
will make her feel better
Break up with that trash cutter. Tell her you can both do better
I want to report it.
but the thing is she's turning 18 next month so she won't even be able to go to a foster home.
and without her parents money she won't go to the university she wants to.
I keep telling her its just a bit more time until she leaves home but she won't listen
kek
>her parents have been abusing her since she was a kid, she showed me the bruises, its not just physical, her mom calls her a rotten barbie, etc.... all her exes cheated on her and treated her like crap too, she's too submissive.
>I told her that she's still a minor and she could go to the cops but she doesnt want to because then she won't go to the college of her choice
She needs removed from the home. So long as they abuse her she will abuse herself.
Exploit it. Make her a sexual slave. Pussy is pussy user it doesn't matter how much you white knight now, shes gonna take fat frat cock the moment she leaves. Might as well fuck her as many times as possible then crush her self worth
yeah, Idk if I should just not do anything, she's leaving her house in a couple of months
Not sure I guess the whole thing is messed up. If she is under age you can report to cps pretty easy.
I say do that one. I wouldn't give a child too much authority here.
I mean I'm not even sure cps can do anything at this point. she's turning 18 in 1 month
You can also try the cops. I bet if they see the bruises they will act, but its possible to BS them.
This whole scenario is messed up
shes damaged goods. if youre below the age of 25 get out and find a stable one.
user, she is being abused, she needs help and the abusive party needs to go to jail. Don't just stand by and enable the abuse you retard. Would you just watch a guy get stabbed and not call an ambulance because "well, he's gonna bleed out anyway, nothing I can do".
Let me stress this.
Act.
Get police and Child Protection involved.
bruh, those are legit cat scratches. didnnt even cut past the skin. and its on her arm. shes just doing that for attention being an attention whore. just leave her and find someone. trust me,
Tie her to a railway track. She will be chuffed to bits.
RUN
NOW!!
the unstable will only drag you down.
Nudes?
Mine does the same, idk what to do.
why's syria grayed out