How do you console your emotionally damaged gf?

How do you console your emotionally damaged gf?

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Simple. Don’t date them.

Smoking pot helps. But also just dump her so she can go gag on the big black cocks shes always dreams of.

cringe

Just use her, she knows what she's for at this point in life.

If you want a serious answer I'm dating someone who is real damaged and I just let her tell me all of the things that really upset her that day or just in general. Let her use you as a source of venting (Idk fam I'm not a therapist)

Fuck her good then let her know that she doesn't suck ass as a person then sometimes do it without fucking her.

Realize thats its a false cry for help and if they wanted to be fixed they would actively try changing lifestyles and habits rather then posting or dragging every conversation down with there self deprecating ploy to round up sympathy.

DUDE DON'T FACE REALITY JUST USE DRUGS LMAO

btw I have PTSD and bipolar and depression lol

And schizophrenia And lymphoma And multi person And dissociative And ADD And Low blood sugar And I have a bad back And ADHD And autism And im legally color blind in one eye

Don't give any attention to them and only date women that don't auto diagnose with every mental illnesses that make them "unique and quirky"

post the thread. Lets see if we can get it to kill itself and join the 40%

Avoid these bitches like the plague. They throw out rape accusations like it’s nothing.

Their is no such thing, just weak.

Dump the loser

>40%
That person is not even a tranny, smoothbrain nigger

She's not emotionally damaged. She's fishing for attention. Avoid them annon

This is me She's been through unspeakable trauma but is surprisingly positive and well-balanced. She has a few quirks that are direct result of her being abused by her father, such as

>stuttering (when she's away from her father, this gets less and less the longer she stays away)
>recovering anorexic (all I can do is be supportive & non-judgmental)
>hugging is difficult (I still reach for her & embrace her, she's getting better about this since the rape)
>kissing is damn near impossible (I don't push this, I just put my face near hers when we're intimate; she's made efforts to kiss me and I can tell it's really difficult for her, so I recognize the effort she puts in and thank her for pushing through)
>doesn't like to be observed dressing/undressing (I just close my eyes, easy fix, but I believe in time this will go away)
>doesn't like to be observed bathing (will cross that bridge when I come to it)

Basically being as supportive, understanding and non-judgmental for how her trauma has manifested itself. Because, considering what she's been through, there are SO many ways she could have been affected that are way worse than these. I consider myself lucky that this is all I have to deal with.

Then again, we have so much in common, I'm so crazy about her & we excite one another so much, I'm just lucky to have her, period. And, I'd like to think, smart enough to realize it.

>inb4 roastie, "damaged goods", "she's a whore" bullshit.

Pic related.

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Smoking pot just traps u cuz she starts feeling tolerable, but after a while u realise shes still the same unworthy hobit

Kys

This

Get her ass to a real therapist, its not your job to fix her.

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No such thing as "unspeakable trauma" humans can cope with and get used too everything.

Just 500 years ago we had, child slavery, public killings, mass torture, horrible poverty, mass disease, war, starvation

We also had no psychologists, no psychiatrists, no anti depressants, no "mental illness" too blame shit on.

She sounds like a typical girl, weak, soft and only good for three things:

> keeping house
> fucking
> beating

positive writing on a salve? what's the source/story of this art?

i used to date a few unstable girls, then i stopped, and theres no more negativity and constant pressure to fix someone elses problems :^)

Saw it on a thread in /d/. Didn't last long, there were only two other pics. It is pretty rare, but I wish there was more wholesome bondage/BDSM out there

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Honestly if you aren’t ready to deal with it for life then just end things now before you’re way too emotionally/financially involved. This isn’t some movie where she’ll suddenly be happy one day. It may happen but the odds are that she’ll end up bringing you down emotionally also. Not the same way as she feels but itll take its toll on you. She needs a good man to be with her but overall she needs professional help.

Compliment her, when she swallows - it works

That is not how mental illness works.

People with borderline can only fix themselves.

Fucking scum, don't waste time on them.

I've tried to do this same thing before but it just doesn't get better, try to get her to a professional

Mental illness is a joke, buddy.

I don't.
If anything I use logic.

And this is why mental will always be an issue here in the states.

Liberals want to help everyone and in the process nobody gets helped, especially people with extreme issues.

Conservatives want to bring back nut houses and sweep the problem under the rug.

break up with her, affirming all the bad things she thinks about herself: she's no good, no one can love her, etc.

You can't fix the other things, but at least now she'll know she's right.

It's literally a fuck hole. It's what it's for. What's so traumatic about it?
Trying to make her feel like it was some horrible shit, is just gonna make her feel worse.
Just tell her to be more accepting of it, and she'll cope eventually.

Honestly, these days anyone who's a bit stressed or depressed can claim they have a mental illness. Mental illness has become a laughable joke at this point.

This is why lots of people actually enjoy being mistreated and have rough sex or be taken out on random adventures.

They like it when someone comes along and throws them out of their self destructive mental loops for a second.

If their brain can be excited to the point thought processes get deactivated they will enjoy the temporary holiday from their own minds.

You ever get sick of listening to someone because of all the bullshit they can't stop saying?

Consider, and pity for a moment, that this person has to hear herself talk in her own head all day long and can never escape from it, that's why they end up like OPs gf.

That's why you need to fuck your gf in the ass, slap her shit up a a little, and then take her out for a movie and dinner somewhere she hasn't been before.