Come in and have a drink user

Had this saved from a thread a while back. Was gunna green text it, but it'd take too long. My bad.

Dated my first girlfriend on and off for over 6 years. She was my first sexual/romanctic everything. She was controlling, manipulative, and did some pretty fucked up shit to me. But I was hard in love (still sort of am, almost 6 years after it officially ended). We broke up for the first time because she bounced on another boy's dick. When I started dating my new girl, I ended up taking her virginity pretty early on. She eventually became everything I wanted until the ex came back into the picture and I dropped the new girl after strong persistance. I never cheated, just ignored the ex until I couldn't. Dumb first love bullshit. It's important to note that she was over 3 years older than me, and we started being romantic when I was 15. We started the cycle of dating and breaking up for what felt like an eternity. Basically lived Groundhog Day but she'd fuck a different dude and i'd date a different rebound only to let the ex come crawling back because I was a pussy. The last time we broke up, it was because she fucked her cousin by marriage and waited over a week until the day before my senior prom to tell me. We went to prom because my mom paid a lot of money for the tuxedo and I felt bad. I fucked her one last time, then ended it immediately after. A week later we found out she was pregnant and she was a few weeks along. Just long enough to be me or someone else's unrelated to her cousin. Turns out she fucked a third guy and didn't mention it because he was married.

she got killed in a car crash into a skyscraper
she survived the impact to get eaten by gaots

Im a sad ducky... my buddy for 30 years died and im having trouble dealing with this shit... and now im drinking. Also, fuck cancer

Don't let it get to you. Woman are crazy like that sometimes. Shits over, stop thinking about her because there is nothing you can do. Don't respond to her or better yet block her, otherwise you will keep thinking about her. Just keep living user.

Is your buddy a male?

She's crazy, leave her

you deserve it

Why is that, user? I was just a kid.

My current girlfriend is flaking out really hard on me. I got a job offer with the government working with banks back in December with a June start date. The job itself is fucking amazing for somebody right out of college (graduating in May) with my yearly being 60k with 30k worth of benes.

I grew up poor as fuck with shitty parents who tried their best but ended up being shit a lot of the time. This job will literally give me more money than I know what to do with, and I can actually see the lifestyle I've been wanting since I was a kid right there in front of me. When I got the interview I thought she would be excited, but she essentially told me it was her or the job, and left me standing alone at a friends new years party. We reconciled, and are dating again after she admitted it was a dick move.
The fucking problem now is that I've got to move to a city that's an hour away from our hometown, and she doesn't think she can survive that far away from her parents. She's also a real rich kid, literally had ponies as a kid, lives on top of a hill in the country with a full five car garage.

I'm literally leasing (just signed a few weeks ago) an apartment in a fucking gated community, but she still doesn't like the place because she thinks anything bigger than a hundred people is a metropolis and despises "townies".

She's the first girl I loved Yas Forumsros. I've fucked before but this was different. I actually cared about her, I waited for 2 years until she was ready to have sex. I'm her first everything, and I dread having to talk with her everytime I do. I don't know what I feel anymore, I don't know if I love her anymore and the thought of being alone terrifies me. What if she's as good as I'll ever get? What do I do if she's the only girl that I ever loved?

I love her. She knows how I feel. My mistake was asking for sex first when I assumed that we had a mutual understanding. Why would she say yes to me coming over, while being alone and single? Damn, miscue. I went over to her's early last December, got ghosted for Christmas and rejected when I asked to come over for NYE. She has my number, I don't have her's. She hasn't replied to a single thing I've sent her. Come quarantine time and I asked my mate to store my randomised password on fb for me. It's easier to go without than log in and watch her green light ignore me.

women are easily replaced. take the job. if she wont come leave her behind

Since you were a kid, you've wanted this way before you met her.

If you’re going to try, go all the way.
Otherwise, don’t even start.
This could mean losing girlfriends, wives, relatives and maybe even your mind.
It could mean not eating for three or four days.
It could mean freezing on a park bench.
It could mean jail.
It could mean derision.
It could mean mockery — isolation.
Isolation is the gift.
All the others are a test of your endurance, of how much you really want to do it.
And, you’ll do it, despite rejection and the worst odds.
And it will be better than anything else you can imagine.
If you’re going to try, go all the way.
There is no other feeling like that.
You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire.
You will ride life straight to perfect laughter.
It’s the only good fight there is.

Thanks anons, now that I've calmed down a bit a read my post again, I realized I'm already using past tense. I guess I already had my answer. I have a feeling I'm going to be pretty mopey post quarantine now.

Don't compromise this great opportunity because she's a spoiled brat. If she doesn't even want to try and give you the benifit of the doubt and give it a try, who's to say this won't ever stop in the future? Imagine having kids with a person like that, that doesn't have your back at all times and doesn't want you to succeed because of their selfish reasons?
Move, try it, and worst case is that it didn't work and she dumps you. You will love again, you have so much love and passion you want and need to share that you'll find a way to share it with someone else again.

Thanks man, you're 100% right, I've got a shit outlook on life. This is an amazing opportunity and the start of a grand adventure. Besides, I saw a passionless marriage everyday for years, why should I follow that path. I'd rather be alone and sad than with somebody and miserable.

youtube.com/watch?v=1cGoDns8wTA

She doesn't real

One is my ex I broke up with after 5 years, and I still feel for but will never return to. She's a little nuts, clingy, and will probably forever be incompatible with me and the way I want to live my life. Still sucks.

The next was a girl I met in class, we went on a date and it didn't go well and I got emotional/weird and vomited my feelings at her, had a panic attack, and now she wants nothing to do with me, I miss her friendship but knowing how she reacted to merely my expression of emotions means she's probably not worth it anyways.

The third was a really nice girl who I was grouped up with, and we got along well, but I fucked up and didn't completely finish my share of the project so I let her down and I think she's angry at me now. So that sucks too.

Killing myself would be easier tbh

Project girl probably isn't a lost cause tbh. Invite her out to coffee and tell her that you're sorry for not picking up your slack, and buy her a drink to make it up to her. Most likely she didn't even notice or doesn't actually feel that strongly about it.

Plus, imagine if that was how you met your wife.
"Mommy how did you meet daddy?"
"Well your dad was too busy posting on a Mongolian sock puppetry board and didn't do his part of the project..."

Currently in the thick of it mates.
>met when I was 19, her 18
>started dating going out 2 years after becoming friends
>get house, help each other go to school
>Flash forward 10yrs to now
>Has been a great loyal girlfriend throughout (I spy on her and her phone, i know. Creepy. But being honest)
>Gives me 3somes 5 yes into relationship.
>Mistakes that happened along the way.
>She wants to break up due to the way I'm handling her new career. We compromise on a few things. It works enough.
>I cheated on her with her sister 6 yrs in due to me being resentful of her alcoholism and the way she was changing due to her new job. This was after she wanted to break up with me. She wants to stick together.
>NOW.
>I want to break up because of her Job, too invested in it. She wants rose stick with me. Offers to quit. I decline it, but stick with her.
>2 months later after incident. I have been neglecting her sexually a bit for about a year. I see her more as a best friend. She turns 30. Literally begs me for sex, I treat it as a chore. I catch her cheating on me. See all the messages. Line them up with her actions and conversations with me. I failed her, she tried and tried. But I couldn't see it.

>Now I want her. I see what happened and how it was my fault. She wanted to include me in her career, but I just focused on my hate for it, instead of her wanting me by her side. I forgive her for cheating.
>She doesn't want to be with me.
She doesn't feel in love with me anymore. She feels broken by what she did and not only can she not forgive herself, she likes the newness, the wanting to be desired. Knows I'll never be able to give her that again. I tell her it's true. Even our best sex would still eventually get boring.

We've been taking trips and hanging out. Her 'in love' feeling goes in and out. Currently out. I'm fucked. We given ourselves to the 10th of may. Its been 3 weeks since, halfway there. She belongs to the streets now....

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no.

thanks bro, i'll try 4 u

Harsh, but you've got the house at least? Because it sounds like she definitely has a place to go. Pick up a hobby, learn to play drums or some shit. Write some songs and poems. Catharsis is a thing.
"THESE THINGS HAPPEN"

Yeah, I got the house and 2/3 cars. She has a nice paying job, so she will be fine. It's an amicable split despite it all. I just laugh to myself in between crying. I wanted to break up with her 2 months ago. Now after she's taken a dick, I'd do anything to keep her now that I see what she was going through. Insane.

Just say
>for a bit of small talk? I don’t like the guy but there is no way to completely avoid him or ignore him, since we are living in the same space as him. I will get my things and go home

She will call you immediately. Probably try to give you one of those I’m still mad and definitely wasn’t wrong or crazy stances but also tell you to come back. Definitely don’t apologize for talking to him. She sounds crazy and she sounds dramatic, pushing you out but she will soon realize you are the only one she has to keep her company there