Is getting fucked in the ass so bad? I got no luck with the ladies, so I'm thinking of switching over to dudes. I got no problem with sucking dick, since that has always appealed to me. But I'm cautious about the assfucking.
Is getting fucked in the ass so bad? I got no luck with the ladies, so I'm thinking of switching over to dudes...
Carson Brown
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Colton Edwards
Definitely not for everyone but you can learn to get used to it to where it’s kinda enjoyable.
Adrian Thomas
go on /d/ and look for the 'anal general' thread
Jason Bailey
Always use a condom and you will be fine. Never bareback.
Noah Adams
Yes OP, getting fucked in the ass is AMAZING.
The thing about it is that most people have a huge psychological block which prevents them from enjoying it. You'll need to practice solo for at LEAST a few months before you try the real thing. Start out with small objects or a single finger then work your way up. Explore and try to go deeper as you progress. Psychologically, you have to completely welcome it or else your body will reject it and that's when it hurts. So the more used to it you get the less it hurts and the more pleasure you feel.
Getting fucked in the ass brings sexual pleasure in exactly the same way as putting your dick in something. And a prostate orgasm is like a regular orgasm but doubled. It's really, really good. Just gotta practice first.
Oliver Rodriguez
Post asshole and i'll tell you what you're in for.
Ian Bell
Bull shit. I'm a femanon and I tried anal for the first time four years ago. It was tough at first, but I got used to it and enjoyed it. Never used toys before either.
Wyatt Myers
bottoms to tops is like 10:1
Being a bottom is like being a hetero dude all over again.
Brody Allen
Bi top here: why would you think you had to get fucked if you're straight? There are lots of gay venues where there are few tops and lots of bottoms so you can have your pick. I've never been fucked and only sucked a few out of curiosity.
Matthew Baker
It is important to do it right with slowly taking the dildo slowly in order to get the asshole open without fissuring. You'll soon want something big, like 9" insertable with 7" circumference. I like to start out with cleaning, then applying lidocaine to my ass. THe sex stuff is expensive, but aspercreme is cheap! Apply light, allow the mint to aggravate, and the lidocaine will slowly make it go away over a period of 60 seconds. Then apply generously! Fill that hole! In 7 minutes you are good to go. Remember to "push" like shitting when taking it to open the ass, relax, and take the cock slowly over the period of 90 seconds in order to slowly open and avoid fissures. Once that is done, start playing around.
Don't do it with someone else. they will fucking RUIN anal for you. Just don't do it. Get a dildo, warm it in a bucket of hot water. Use lube also. Silicone feels gritty, use ky ultragel.
Jaxson Foster
It's almost as if experience is subjective. Just because you had a good first time doesn't mean everybody will. Most girls I've fucked in the ass, my GF included, cannot get used to it no matter how slow I go or how many times we try. The advice I'm giving OP is the safe, practical, sensible approach.
Camden Carter
fuck off. do you know how many women and gay men have been fucked in the ass and haven't used toys? the majority.
when my boyfriend took my virginity the only thing i did was the occasional finger up, nothing more. if anything, having him ease into it made it more enjoyable for me, helped me orgasm but also made it more passionate.
why not just fuck guys then?
Nolan Wilson
It's pretty great if you're into it. I don't think you even need to be gay to be into it. If you like playing with your ass at all you have the potential to enjoy anal but if you're one of those guys who won't even accept a finger up there then you'll hate it. You have to WANT to like anal or you never will. Going into it assuming that it will hurt or feel bad or that you won't enjoy it is a guarantee that all three of those things will come true.
Matthew Hernandez
Ok FREDO calm the fuck down. And stay inside like you are supposed to you clown.
Gavin Johnson
Show tits
Jaxson Nguyen
I really don't know why you're getting so mad. Your experience is subjective. My advice was the sensible and practical advice, especially for a man who is not used to having things enter his body.
Jesus christ, fuck off cunt
Brandon Lopez
It's different if you want it and are mentally interested in the idea. It's great that your boyfriend took your virginity without hurting you and made it a good experience, but chances are you were interested in it. The women who go around talking about how much it hurts or how much they didn't like it are the ones who got talked into trying it but didn't really have any interest in doing it except to please or shut their partner up.
For gay guys who lean bottom this is fairly self explanatory. They want to be a bottom so the chances they'll enjoy it are higher. A guy who is straight or curious and apprehensive about it? He's way more likely to need practice ahead of time.
Leo Morales
OP, have you ever put stuff up your ass on your own? It takes a lot of getting used to, don't just start by having someone else shove shit up there
Michael Kelly
You're fine as long as the balls never touch.
Beyond that do what ever you enjoy.
Hunter Garcia
No wonder you're not having luck with women if you're so beta you automatically assume you'll be the one getting fucked in a gay relationship
Luis Kelly
>friendly reminder that being a top is gayer than being a bottom because it means you are able to get aroused and maintain an erection long enough to have sex with another man while the bottom just has to lie there and tolerate it
Angel Morgan
>friendly reminder that involuntary arousal is a thing and that getting an erection while being raped or getting a prostate exam doesn't mean you enjoy it in the least
Luke Thomas
I feel the same way user, sort of. I got lucky once, I'm married to a wonderful chubby women. I love her but still want to feel like I can be attractive to someone other than my wife. So far only dudes have expressed being attracted to me. Before I met her I was thinking about going for dudes because I struggled so hard with women. My wife is Slavic, since I met her I've learned average Slavic dudes are fucking ugly as shit but score the hottest women because that's just the culture. They find different traits to be attractive. I look like Mr Bean (no joke) but Slavic women find British guys attractive. I don't know, but don't loose hope user. Maybe try to meet a European or Slavic women. On the DL, I did end up trying gay sex once. I loved it but love pussy so I'm sort of in a conundrum.
Luke Price
You don't have a prostate you stupid cunt
Austin Brown
this post almost made me want to try it. well written and thorough.
Ian Lee
bottom is the one who gets fugged?
Christian Allen
And yet women have an easier time orgasming from anal than men
Easton Hernandez
That depends on how gay the fag is
Jonathan Perez
What if you jerk off to the memories afterward? Asking for a friend...
Carter Collins
This, bifag here. not out, secretly fuck dudes once in awhile.
There are 18921982721 bottoms for every top. It's insane. I'm not even cute and i get a ton of attention and can pick whichever kind of guy i feel like fucking or being sucked off by.
Adam Davis