I threatened to hurt someone today if they didnt relent to my wish and they accepted

Then yeah, u should probably chill

I've just had a similar situation.

You shouldn't feel depressed over this. You shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable where you live. It's not like she'll feel uncomfortable without him there. End of story.

I know its the least relevant but its there

no he is an asshole to everyone
this dude was in our apartment for two weeks without us noticing because he would not leave her room and she would cook all his meals.
He only went to the bathroom at night to not be revealed

thanks

I am very upset cause of the isolation and this situation is not helping me one bit
I just cant understand why she could not take no for a no and had to try and bullshit me into accepting him living here
ffs

I think he should be allowed to come over, as your roomate pays rent, too. However, he shouldn't be able to stay the night and you have every right to tell him to "GTFO" if he starts his bullshit, again.

we are also 4 people in the apartment, not just her and me but the others are gone during pandemic so it will be just me and her

I feel its pretty childish but she would not listen to me so I felt I had no choice.
What he cares I could not give less of a shit about, he is pathetic and deserves no 1000 chance.
I tried talking to him, I tried engaging him...
He listens to my every move in this apartment, he laughs spitefully when I say something even close to being taken as detrimental from the other side of the apartment behind closed doors.
He is the definition of toxic and I can't abide him staying here.
I still feel awful though cause I despise senseless conflict and I am worried that if we fight I might kill him cause I have history of losing myself in violence

legally, theres probably something in your lease about it only allowing you and her to live there. if it happens anyway you can talk to your landlord about it and theyll definitely kick them out one way or another.

If she pays half the rent, then she has a say in who can or can't be there, betaboy.

I'm guessing she felt guilty a while back, fucked you a couple times, and now you're acting like a jealous little cunt because she found a man she's actually happy with.

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I will say that since she pays her share of the rent, she should be allowed to bring him.

Make it crystal clear that you won't stand for him being a fucking asshole though. Standing up for yourself is perfectly fine, but do remember to try and be mature and reasonable about it, OP.

>I have a history of losing myself in violence

Yeah, you're a jealous little cunt who thinks he's Bruce fucking Lee. I hope invaderChad beats the shit out of you and rapes you in front of the roommate you so clearly desire a relationship with.

I think you need to use the guest vs roommate thing here. he is a guest, an unwelcomed one at that. she can't just go around having anyone live there for days on end. thats very selfish and unfair to you and both your living spaces. honestly you need to do something to get rid of the anxiety you are having. perhaps drink it off and just have fun. don't need to get all worked up over the fact that you did something you should have done from the get go with this useless cunt.

moral of the lesson. dont let people get away with shit. especially if they know they can't get away with it and try to be manipulative. that shit also looks like you prob need to move out after this whole virus shit blows over. living with toxic females and toxic people is not the way to go in this life. instead of making shit smooth they add to the bullshit and even burn bridges over small amounts of time. that is actually hard to do but these people exist.

Na I respect your decision and you should too. Swap her and her partner's gender and it would just be a normal request by you, she is the one who decided to escalate the situation by being weasily and not respecting your opinion.

Hello OP, I’m the one that told you to rape him a few days back but you said you didn’t wanna be gay. You feeling depressed is much gayer. I hope he ends up kicking your ass instead.

Your room mate is looking for a new place to live and will probably leave you to cover the full rent until you get someone else.

I have tried talking to him.
He legit wont answer me, face to face.
He stands in my living room, looking at me like a deer in headlights shaking and scared. Then she runs in and answers for him.

I dont know how much more I can do tbh.

No actually she wanted to be a in relationship with me, and told me about the guy after we had fucked once, telling me he had been trying to get in a relationship with her for awhile while we were fucking.
I told her ofc I would back off, I was not going to be her boyfriend and that she should go for it with this dude if it would make her happy. I just asked her to make it an easy transition for me, you know let me have a few beers with him and just get a vibe going so I could get over instinctual animosity for letting a man coming into my home and fucking a woman I had been fucking for a few months.
She said ofc
then he came over and was retarded.
I kicked him out once already
then he came back without me knowing, cause he hides.

They try to negotiate first (and often succeed) for a reason.

I am already moving out, decided months ago.
Already found a place but Pandemic fucked me over.

Fun little fact, when me and her started to fuck she was going to move out in one month, back in november.
So I only had sex with her cause she was leaving, then she decided to stay

Hell no. Threatening violence is a very effective way to make a point. Especially against dumbass women who think they’ll get their way as long as they’re persistent enough in trying to force what they want. Tell them you’re about to start knocking teeth out and they start listening real quick

>No actually she wanted to be a in relationship with me

Keep telling yourself that, loser. It's become painfully apparent to me that you're an overbearing douchebag and she's only trying to placate you until she can get into a place without having to deal with your insecure bullshit.

I also have the sneaking suspicion that SHE pays the majority of the rent and you're stuck dealing with what SHE wants. Otherwise if this issue was as bothersome as you claim, you'd do the actually manly thing and just move somewhere else.

he very well might, appearantly he has many years of martial arts behind him, but he is a total pussy so I don't know how to read that.
only thing I have going for me is experience and rage

you're the guy living in sweden and you're from california? you're still complaining about this shit?

Some people don't know that they're being selfish. And that's ok; there are all sorts of odd people. It's good you've stood your ground.
You don't have to worry so much, all in the process of respecting yourself.

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>experience and rage

Translation: "I punched a wall once while playing Animal Crossing."

yeah I guess I am.
depressing when you put it like that

>Pandemic fucked me over

Yeah, you're 100 percent full of shit. She's the one with the power in the situation, and you're fecklessly complaining on Yas Forums like the betabitch you very much are.

Fucking beta assumption is suprisingly incorrect. Not every guy is an incel stop projecting

I beat a guy in the street once who robbed me and did so infront of the police, another time I got mugged by some turkish drug dealers and ended up grabbing one of their thugs and dragging him to their place and demanding my shit back

Fighters are taught to not fight unless absolutely necessary so I wouldn’t advise just assuming he’d avoid physical contact because he’s a pussy

what does this even mean?
yeah I am moving out June 1, how does she have any power over that?
Was suppoused to move out the first of this month but, yeah, pandemic

I never called you an incel, I called you a bitch.

Way to tip your hand though, bitch.

You're so full of shit I can smell you through the internet. You're entire thread can be summed up with a single sentence:

>"Bawwwww, why does she love someone who's NOT me!?!?!?!"

yeah I am a bit miffed about it
every fight in my life has been won cause I struck first and struck hard

omg
it's not like I didn't have sex with other women after I stopped fucking my roommate.
are you projecting?

No you did good user.
I once threatened to throw a dude off a balcony over an attempt at bullying me as an adult at college.
I was suicidal anyways so if I went over the balcony with him that would be that.
Never back down unless it's for like your mom or dad's sake.

Also you are retarded.
I'd hint at the fact that I fucked your roommate every time he comes over.
See you need to learn to get into his mind cause he's already threatened by your presence and this corona shit puts you and her in isolation for how long?
AHAHA
You got a fucking Trump card on that cuck ahahah

my dads a violent rapist and my mom was a hero junkie
lol but yeah, thanks user

Not op trog

I'm not that kind of guy tbh
just writing in this thread has me shaking with guilt, I'm a suicidal loser who hates himself cause no matter what I do I make people around me have a worse time
this feels like me just infringing on other people's happiness again

you should be nice to him, whenever he comes over treat him like your best buddy, make him some coffee, fetch his beer, put a birth control pill in it each time. After a couple of months that he'll have little titties and the girl will be comparing you and him and be like, wow he is a faggot.

Well parents or kids anybody you love who can be hurt by you going to jail or die or something.
It's one of the reasons I didn't kill myself.
Wouldnt be fair to my parents.
Imagine wastin 18 years of your life to raise some shitty kid who then just kills themselves.
I remember getting pokey man cards with my hard earned money and then a bully took them.
Feels bad man

you need a new room mate

>I'm not that kind of guy tbh
k

>just writing in this thread has me shaking with guilt,
Somebody raised you with guilt tripping dude.

>I'm a suicidal loser who hates himself cause no matter what I do I make people around me have a worse time
No that's bullshit, because everybody makes everybody feel bad all the time because people are genuinely pussies but stick with other people because being alone is worse ( psychology ) than being around a group.
Group = protection

>this feels like me just infringing on other people's happiness again
You aren't, because if you can't love yourself you aren't really doing anythign out of love.
Seems to me somebody instilled some bullshit self hatred in you.
I suggest you talk to a shrink about that.

How do you fuck with that much anxiety. Also you probably know this but that kind kf mindset just like every other mindset is just trained into you. Literally all you have to do is thought-stopping. Every time you feel like a dip-wad just contradict yourself as soon as you can and tell yourself that you are who you are, you deserve confidence, you are strong, you know shit like that, with just a couple weeks of that you can have a better life from permanent personality changes if you keep it up.