Serious question.
What`s your overall opinion on spanking as a form of discipline. Are you for or against it ?
Is their any evidence that spanking younger people on their bare bottom actually produces better behaviour ? or is it a myth.
Serious question
Lincoln Fisher
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Caleb Murphy
i got a boner when my dad spanked me.
Gabriel Jones
With very few exceptions, I'm against any kind of hitting of a child, as it only teaches them to hit. Most studies indicate that spanking doesn't instill good judgement or respect for the parent, and moreover doesn't even do a good job of changing behavior.
The exceptions I grant for hitting is when a child does something very dangerous while being too young to understand an explanation for why that is very dangerous.
If a kid is running without looking where they're going, it's probably best to let them run into something and get hurt, get scared, and learn on their own that they need to look where they're going.
But if the same kid is reaching for a hot iron, or toward a pot on the stove, it's probably not best to let them burn themselves. Serious burns can happen surprisingly easily. Better to grab their hand, loudly say, "NO!" and hit their hand. It scares them, it hurts them (without injuring them), and hopefully they become wary of those things. But if I'm the parent in that situation, fuck me too for not doing a better job keeping them away from the most dangerous things while they're so young.
James Morales
Fpbp dont spank or you get fags
Camden Bennett
its probably better than having to sit in a chair all day with nothing like my mom did if anything happened
Parker Johnson
agreed, boredom is a better punishment, especially for an active kid like I was who'd just rather take a slap or two and continue the bad behavior
Samuel Brown
It's an effective way to humiliate your child, nothing beat getting your pants down and getting spanked in front of all your relatives after doing something retard.
Ethan Robinson
gay confirmed
Colton White
I don't think it makes children behave better but I also don't think it's abuse. Not something I'd do but I'm not gonna reee if you do
Zachary Anderson
Brilliantly put
Ian Gonzalez
Francis Bacon's father tried to cure his homosexuality by having him whipped by stable boys. Go figure.
Josiah Rogers
I havent talked to my mother in 17 years or so because of it so if you dont wanna see your child ever again go ahead and make them spend every day on a chair
Benjamin Torres
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Nathan Scott
post more pics of spanking so we can decide how we feel about it.
Bentley Jenkins
Pretty much this
I have 4 daughters and we tried and still try to raise them without any kind of corporal punishment. The idea is to be patient and educate them slowly by explaining instead of just punishing. The theory is that it's more complicated at the begining because it takes time but it's an investment as they grow more mature faster and stop doing stupid shit because they get why not doing it instead of a Pavlovian reflex that turns into being drawn to the forbidden later.
Can't say it was a 100% and I have lost my temper and yelled at them a couple time and even hit them lightly once or twice. Still feel guilty as fuck for it but nobody's perfect.
I was raised with spanking and slaps in the face and I truly believe that my girls got a better education and slightly less traumas even if I have nothing but respect and admiration for my parents who did their best with what I fo was available, how they were raised in the 50's and their own traumas.
A bit like vegetarianism, I'd say you shouldn't take it like a religion. Do your best and reduce violence as much as you can while not losing your sanity or feeling too guilty. Any kind of effort is better, it's not a black and white situation
Sebastian King
Every day sounds excessive, and going non-contact for that sounds justified. Excessive anything is bad, and after my parents learned beating the shit outta me didn't work, they switched methods to what did, and that for me were time-outs, and thankfully not full-day ones either. Just enough so I associated that "bad action= boredom and a sore butt from sitting on a hard bench"
Levi Barnes
It seems to work on misbehaving adults in Singapore
Jack Hill
Every study done on the topic seems to suggest that hitting kids causes more problems than it solves.
Search "spanking" on google scholar if you want to read more.
Here's the first result if you're interested.
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Cooper Clark
Only wives should be spanked.
Asher Hall
Very effective and beneficial when used on adult women.
Luke Wilson
I spanked my son (3yo) once, one buttslap, when he was making me chase him around for a long time to get him dressed. He bugged out, I could tell it hurt him, not physically really, he can run into a wall at full steam and shake it off, but he was shook up in a way I had not anticipated. Poor little dude was just goofing around. Not sure I would do it again, he would have to pull something rowdy.
Eli Cook
Bump
Juan Fisher
If you aren't able to raise a child properly without hitting them then you're a moron, a bad parent, and you shouldn't have had kids. You've also raised them wrong if they act so terribly that you have to strike them.
Liam King
what this painting tells me is people were as fat back then as they are today, look at those flabby ass arms
Dominic Hernandez
>Francis Bacon's father tried to cure his homosexuality by having him whipped by stable boys. Go figure.
lol, yeah he loved his S&M
John Johnson
Spanking is a punishment, not a discipline.
Eli Brown
Only niggers hit their kids. I would love to go to a Walmart one time without seeing some nigger beating their babies.
Thomas Hughes
This. Spankings are for wives, not children.
Camden Walker
Father of two smallish sons here. I am with the near-consensus among pediatricians and early childhood educators that it doesn’t work and there’s no defensible reason for it.
I have swatted my boys on a handful of occasions when they have been on the verge of something really dangerous and have not responded to verbal warnings—running into traffic, for example, or not stopping and looking before crossing streets on bikes. But it’s never been well received or effective and I have always regretted it.
I, like pretty much everyone who actually knows what they are talking about, am on team „no spanking ever,“ but it’s hard to control myself on thankfully rare freaking-out occasions.
Jack Jenkins
Eh, yes and no. When I was a kid I had the bright idea to run into oncoming traffic once. Mom had nothing to grab me by but my hair, but it was legitimately that or get run over.
Mason Rodriguez
Maybe it's due to personality deferences in families? In my family, or just for me, getting hit and being harshly scolded makes me pretty much stop that specific action (atleast for a limited time) and let's me know that something that I would really hate would happen to me if I did it again.