>Reunited with some girl I had a crush on 2 years back
>get her snap
>start chatting, shooting the shit, standard stuff
>she's single
>5 days go by we chat on and off every day
>we should get together sometime
>You're sweet but... (I've had this or something similar said to me 4 times in my life and I fucking HATE it if a woman says this to you, you're in the cuck zone)
>I actually have plans with someone else
>find out later from mutual woman friend that she didn't go out at all
what do I do?
know your self worth, don't let some woman effect that. Their is plenty of pussy out there, you just gotta keep at it and you'll eventually get some.
She doesn't owe you anything. You should have been more clear if you wanted more.
Dont ask "to get together sometime" like a beta cuck. Ask for a date. She'll say no and you'll move on all the more powerful.
It's a numbers game. Suck it up and move on. Be clear with your intentions and be honest with your actions. You'll get rejected more than you get accepted and that is life.
I asked her if she wanted to get coffee and lunch.
don't waste anymore time on her.
It's kind of like with dogs, if a dog runs away from you and you chase it, you will never catch it. If you start a running away from it, it will start chasing you.
So if that bitch won't chase you forget about it.
But if she does, there's a point when the chase turns into something else.
That sucks, but there is nothing you can do I guess. I would confront her about lying if I was you.
You have two options other than that, you either stay friends with her while looking somewhere else for a relationship, or you tell her you can't be friends with someone you have feelings for.
send that bitch a dick pic
bitches love dick pics
I really want to confront her just for my own sake, but then she'll know that our mutual friend told me.
I don't wanna be friends. it's all or nothing. I've told this to women before.
I made that mistake years ago about being friends with women. I hated it. If I am gonna listen to some woman go on about her problems I want to atleast be able to stick my penis into her, plus the non-stop asking for favors is annoying too.
my dick is 5 inches long man
Lol I wonder why she avoids you
this is when you stop talking to her at all
You are doing it wrong if you are aiming for hookups. Always be honest and I'd use dating apps like Tinder for that.
But Jesus if she is your crush, then why do you see her as a mere sex object?
I'm glad you found out, that being friends with someone just to have sex with her is dishonest and not worth anyone's time. Not yours, not hers.
Lol maybe I was a little harsh, but legit when you ask a woman out and she says no there's no going back to being friends. IDK why, it just doesn't work.
I wouldn't mind especially, after seeing you being over it.
Just ghost her. No sense starting something you don't need to, she's not worth a second more of your time.
are you a woman?
I don't really. I am being extermely brash and crude right now because I've had a few but I legit like her personality more than anything, she's just really cool. We have a lot of the same interests and she's really easy to talk to.
Confront about lying is a bad call, will make you look even more like a crying wimp.
>You hurt my feelings, etc
I wouldn't be outright about it, I'd just ask her how her date went, where the went, etc.
>are you a woman?
Yes, why does it matter?
>I don't really. I am being extermely brash and crude right now because I've had a few but I legit like her personality more than anything, she's just really cool. We have a lot of the same interests and she's really easy to talk to.
Hey, if you really like her personality-wise I'd tell you what I said before. Think about, if you value her as a friend and are able to handle such a friendship. There is no shame in telling her, that you can't be friends with someone you for whom you have feelings.
This is not about getting her into the bed tho. It's about mutual understanding and honesty.
cause I value your opinion more idk, lol
I think I could handle being her friend, but the last girl I did that to eventually found a man, then always bitched about her boyfriend, and she'd invite me over to help her and then take pics of me at her house and send them to him. It really put me off of being friends with women.
Thanks. I guess.
Yeah, don't do that, friendships should be about you and the other person feeling comfortable around each other. You always have the option to say no.
As I said earlier to someone else honesty and mutual respect are super important
Different guys?
If it's all or nothing, understanding and honesty flies out the window.
If it's about friendship the whole thing is just weird.
Especially her reply. Because friends can go to lunch. Friends don't say "you're cute and all..."
Honesty, I mean the idea is good and all but.. frankly you have no right to know what she was doing instead of meeting you, noneofyabizniz.. as far as understanding, I'd like to quote Oscar Wilde "Women were made to be loved, misunderstood."
ffs, "Women were made to be loved, not understood."
Women weren't made to be just loved.
Women are human and should be treated as such.
And as I said earlier, if you really can't be friends, then don't. No one is forcing you. The honesty I mentioned goes towards yourself too.
And friends do say, that they are cute. I used to say it all the time to my friends.
And you are right he has no right to know what she was doing, but she was obviously lying to him and that's what I think is super icky of her.
so what she is not interested.
>breaking news: There are over 7 Billion people on Earth
Get a grip, if you got your hopes up early for no reason, not her fault.
Just forget about her, dont text her back so she knows she dropped the ball on you. Chances are she'll get interested since you are not chasing her.
>yes women are fuking wierd
>confront her
nigga u have no game at all, hm?
if you confront her you are acting like she owes you shit, like u are in a position to hold her accountable.
>proving her point to stay the fuck away from you
of course there is a way back, if you stop caring
>how about you stop being a bitch
tits or gtfo
How about no to both?
This, regarding mating in any way, shape, form or sense. Since you have mutual friends, forget it and carry on as if you never asked. If you talk, you talk. Not gonna happen though. Don't even imply interest.
Also, stop asking for dumbass advice that is super obvious, ya sensitive baby. You got shot down. Find a girl you can't stalk through mutual friends and try again, weirdo.
Been in a similar position before OP, she only wanted an emotional tampon.
"I'm sad OP, cheer me up so I can fuck Chad!"
The trick is to not give her any attention without something in return. Don't chat with her unless it's at her place over drinks, and don't comfort or praise her for anything until after you've fucked.
Well if she doesn't want to date me and I don't really want to be her friend who cares? I've told women off on tinder before and never really cared at all later.
Yeah that isn't me.
show mosquito bites of gtfo
What a horrible people objectifying and mischaracterization of what a friendship is about.
Lol fair enough.
OP, would you take hunting advice from a deer?
that's a retarded analogy.
Go annoy someone else, please.
When she said but, that was your cue to ghost her and find someone else. Just like what was said above it's all about a numbers game. Just move tf on and stop being so beta
I agree treat women just like every other human, competition.
No special treatment.
Humans are trash, and I'll treat them accordingly.
Are you implying men are sexual predators?
Look at you lying to yourself.
here talking about how you are into her "personality"
now saying if she does not want to date you, you don't want to be her friend.
you are a bullshitter, and she knows it. you are pretending to liker her for her sake, while you just want to dick her.
bitches evolved for 200k years to smell that bullshit from 5 meiles away
get over it. move on. find someone else.
5 bucks plz
Because tinder is not real life, and I can already tell your a little bitch from your post and I don't blame her for saying no
rules are rules, I dont make them
You should also read the moral philosophy of Kant. Living after the categorical imperative or at least the golden rule is kinda a good way to structure a society on a moral level.
It's the opposite of objectification. She wants something, he wants something. It's a trade of goods and services.
Also I'm not talking about friendship. This chick doesn't want to be OPs friend. I can tell because she hasn't contacted him for years until she needed something.
that's not me man... someone is fucking impersonating me
Your temper tantrum, just to express your misogynistic views is kinda hilarious, if I am honest with you.