I've been in a relationship with a trans person for a while now. He is more feminine than most women in every way except the obvious.
I got into this relationship because of (probably) all the porn that I've watched, and that created the fantasy within me that I want to be fucked by a t-girl. So it happened many times... And I can't bring myself to like it.
In my mind, I get hard just thinking about it but when it happens, the actual feeling is pure discomfort and "when is it gonna end". He tried many times going really fucking slow for me, sometimes going at it for hours without even normal speed thrusting, but I just can't seem to enjoy it.
What the fucking shit is wrong with me Yas Forums? Should I just end the relationship and go back to a biogirl?
just stop being the one fucked until you're really confortable to do it
Anthony Reyes
Well then do that you natural top you.
Connor Sanders
It's not that I'm not comfortable doing it, I don't think I have any mental blocks.
The actual feeling of being penetrated is discomforting. And it's been going on for a while, if it was a physical thing, I believe my body would be accustomed to it by now. Oh I feel great when I'm the one fucking. I'm just wondering why getting fucked is so hot in my mind, but I can't get it right in reality.
also, it seem like you see that transgirl as a boy, which most likely make you seem bad and stuff like that when she is about to fuck you, if you clear that off your mind, it will most likely be 10 times better
Luke Johnson
I've thought about that, but it's just not a big problem for me. I know I'm not straight, I'm *at least* bisexual. I'm ok with this so I don't think that's where the problem lies.
Logan Wright
how big is her cock? if it is really big, the disconfort could be because you don't have the training for it
Jonathan Torres
When in doubt rusty trombones are the best way to ease yourself into butt stuff.
Elijah Allen
Fully erect it's about 4,5-5 inches, and pretty average in girth. Nothing that could be considered "too much" excuse me what
Charles Thompson
well, either you're really not meant for bottoming or some mental block because you're fantasy about all that is too strong so your body react badly to it
Well if you're not comfortable with them fucking your ass right away, dip your toes in by receiving analingus while getting jerked off and slowly work your way up to butt fucking instead of just jumping in head first.
Henry Cox
You're suggesting idealization? Never thought about it that way... but I also don't see any solution to such problem.
Sorry, it was probably not clear from my writing. This has already happened, and happens almost everytime we have sex. He knew I was a first timer so he took everything really fucking slow with me.
Sebastian Thomas
Oh then it's a mental road block and you're probably not fit for bottoming, it's probably best to speak to a professional about these issues in your relationship.
Joseph Robinson
yeah i've heard guys having that mental block in the past, can take a lot of time to get throught, just work slowly on it with the girl(maybe she's really bad at it and that's why it isn't that great so maybe you both need some training)
Jayden Ward
Plus two for mental block. Guess I'll try speaking to a psychologist about it.
Carson Fisher
the 2 only ways to know if the problem is from her(aka she's really bad at fucking) is doing it a lot more and telling her how you want to do it like she's some slave or try another dick but that one is kinda bad for a relationship
Anthony Taylor
even when he just stays still inside me, it feels the same, so i dont think he's that bad at it
Thomas Thompson
>biogirl
You're too far gone faggot.
Elijah Scott
oh no, you called me a faggot, how will i ever recover, my life is done, awwww
Tyler Peterson
did you talk about it with the girl?(and does she know you talk like that's a guy? lol)
Justin Butler
oh yeah, he doesnt really care. and we've talked about it, he's been really patient considering we're still together.
Chase Rivera
porn messed up your mind son.
Ian Brown
sounds about right
Matthew Lee
try fingers first for like a half hour to loosen ur gay ass, maybe get a butt plug in different sizes and wear them all day. use lots of lube and quit being a bitch. good luck bottom boy
