I need some quick, not bullshit advice, my girl hasnt paid rent since she moved in, and she has slowly refused to clean under the guise the we have stopped pulling our weight (one other roommate). When it is her that has doven into deep alocoholism, the refusal to sleep right, blaming it on this virus shit. I just cant see a future with her, but I love her, or she is too familiar. But I really can see this continuing on and both of us prospering.It seems like a waste of my time. And further more she is only making it harder. Like a pure dependa. Pic Related. Also wait my cat is twice that size now and she sent me that yesterday....... Dude am fucking done.
I need some quick, not bullshit advice, my girl hasnt paid rent since she moved in...
Even taking a step back I honestly think we are horrible for each other. But I dont want ot end up alone. I am 30 now.
Make her feel like shes im danger of you leaving her, if she really cares and strives for a good future not only for herself but you also, she will change for the better.
Honestly, talking it out with her directly and open would be best, if you feel like you cant do that just pay less attention to her and make her know that you dont depend on her and have other options at hand.
Also, you probably should seek advice from your friends, parents or some professional not this site lmao good luck
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I need some quick, not bullshit advice, my girl hasnt paid rent since she moved in, and she has slowly refused to clean under the guise the we have stopped pulling our weight (one other roommate). When it is her that has doven into deep alocoholism, the refusal to sleep right
Tell her exactly that. Be so blunt about it all but dont unnessecarily burn bridges.
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Yeah this one seems right
If you actually care for her, sit down and have a serious talk about your issues and concerns. Then you can decide where to go from there, pog. A real 14 - 10 + 7 bang bang would have fucking handled this shit already. Otherwise, just dump her ass.
Terrible reason to stay with someone. Prepare for absolute misery
No bullshit be honest by telling her everything you are telling us and tell her she needs to get her act together because otherwise you are going to dump her. Also, dont let her guilt trip you into getting things her way.