I need some quick, not bullshit advice, my girl hasnt paid rent since she moved in, and she has slowly refused to clean under the guise the we have stopped pulling our weight (one other roommate). When it is her that has doven into deep alocoholism, the refusal to sleep right, blaming it on this virus shit. I just cant see a future with her, but I love her, or she is too familiar. But I really can see this continuing on and both of us prospering.It seems like a waste of my time. And further more she is only making it harder. Like a pure dependa. Pic Related. Also wait my cat is twice that size now and she sent me that yesterday....... Dude am fucking done.
I need some quick, not bullshit advice, my girl hasnt paid rent since she moved in...
Even taking a step back I honestly think we are horrible for each other. But I dont want ot end up alone. I am 30 now.
Make her feel like shes im danger of you leaving her, if she really cares and strives for a good future not only for herself but you also, she will change for the better.
Honestly, talking it out with her directly and open would be best, if you feel like you cant do that just pay less attention to her and make her know that you dont depend on her and have other options at hand.
Also, you probably should seek advice from your friends, parents or some professional not this site lmao good luck
Bleh I knew all of b was bots now. Rip bros.
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I need some quick, not bullshit advice, my girl hasnt paid rent since she moved in, and she has slowly refused to clean under the guise the we have stopped pulling our weight (one other roommate). When it is her that has doven into deep alocoholism, the refusal to sleep right
Tell her exactly that. Be so blunt about it all but dont unnessecarily burn bridges.
Sec I am replying to you.
Yeah this one seems right
If you actually care for her, sit down and have a serious talk about your issues and concerns. Then you can decide where to go from there, pog. A real 14 - 10 + 7 bang bang would have fucking handled this shit already. Otherwise, just dump her ass.
Terrible reason to stay with someone. Prepare for absolute misery
No bullshit be honest by telling her everything you are telling us and tell her she needs to get her act together because otherwise you are going to dump her. Also, dont let her guilt trip you into getting things her way.
This , if you are scared to man up because you're afraid she'll leave you then she will always have the power and continue to walk over you
I’ll bite this, bait or not.
The fact of the matter is, no matter how you try to sugar coat this shit, she isn’t going to like being told the truth. Women have superiority issues a lot of the time, and they don’t like being told when their flaws are showing. No matter how you lay this out to her, she’s going to get angry. She’s being lazy, greedy, and completely useless. Tell her exactly what you just told us. She’s becoming an alcoholic, she’s refusing to pay rent, and she’s not pulling ‘HER’ weight. You’re only 30. If you’re not a complete beta, and she leaves your arse, you won’t end up alone. Worst case scenario, life moves on, she breaks up with you, you get a replacement that actually acts like a human. Best case, she pulls her shit together when she realized you aren’t gonna deal with her bull shit.
This OP. You shouldn’t be dealing with stupid shit like this.
You need to state in no uncertain terms that if she doesn’t pull her shit together she’s gonna be out on her ass dealing with her bullshit “coronavirus anxiety” but wherever the hell she came from instead of your shared habitat. I feel like this cunt is playing off of your biological clock and insecurity about ending up alone. She just feels like she’s got you locked in and you’re too scared to ditch her and look for someone new. Even if this is the case user do everything to convince her it isn’t and scare her straight. She needs to feel like she is in immediate danger of losing you because clearly she doesn’t see the ground rushing up at her stupid ass.
tough love time bro, look at this way, shes comfortable...
...she has reached a point in the relationship where conflict regarding life choices are now moot because you allowed her to feel far too comfortable with you.
you are a cozy sweater, a well worn hoodie, you are there when she gets home to simply be a thing for her to no effort into to simply be "easy"
she no longer fees a need to try, no longer has a will to adapt or see you as a person with wants and needs. you are comfortable...
...and who the fuck wants to fuck a hoodie?
I don’t get it ? Is her vagina so good looking that you pussy slave after her?
Some really genuine advices here OP, dont let others walk over you, confront her.
> Also wait my cat is twice that size now and she sent me that yesterday.....
Dude, get out while you still can. Your cat is growing at an Exponential growth rate probably due to the Virus.
The cat will be larger than the apartment building within the next few weeks.
Ok bros, so -
I am sorry user. She came back out to soke for a bit and stare off into the distance. Immediately recognized her nude though. Fun ensured. I am just to chicken shit to end what is by all purposes a bad relationship.
Shut your fucking mouth you weak faggot scum, make her do what she should dont make room for her shitty behaviour. Cunts like you deserve a beating
Take her out
To the cabin
Tie her up
Fuck her over days
Keep fucking her
Clean her after each use.
Then bury her deep...
No expert.. But..
Hey dont prematurely end something because you feel it has turned bad. You might be right, only someone in your and her position can really know as far as I know. But you should make her face the problems and let ultimately her decide what she chooses by the responses you get. Dont sperg out and ruin what could still be salvageable. If you had a good run so far (you had a few good years, right?) this might just be a speedbump.
If you are just videochatting and havent really met yet you are a fucking faggot for making this thread
>Staying with someone who makes you unhappy
Or
>Go alone with a chance for dream cutie
Option 1 comes with a lifetime of regret.
You mean clean the kitchen and make a sandwich? Elaborate
Fucking this
I am more worried that I am going to leave her with the worst of habits if we do split. Its so fucked.
No matter the age of both and your other,
Know when to call it quits. You cant help someone that doesn't want help and it hurts to be attached to them only to walk away when that person is at their weakest.
Being alone feels terrible because we are a social species, but we are also able to bear it a lot better than the other monkeys and apes. You'll find someone else in time.
I am the sole trash remover in the house. Sometimes she gose buckwild and cleans stuff with bleach.
What the fuck are you talking about? Im saying others are giving good advices so far and im encouraging him to confront her about her problems. If you believe that primitive kind of aggression of yours is going to work at all, youre probably a fucking incel or just an enormous douchebag
Frankly man. I want help. I just cant help myself and help her. I am as deep into the bottle as she is. I just see the worst for her and myself going down this road together when we both want a different future and reality.
Op here, dont pay attention to that shit on Yas Forums, its literally a bot that responds to keywords.
Having a relationship is not only about enjoying her ups, when shes down, like rn, lost her way, if you really love her and feel like theres potential, bring her back into the right direction. If she loves you truely shed do the same, having each others backs when one is at the low
Same goes for friendship, would you end a friendship just cus the other developed some bad habits that are fixable? No, you take responsibility and help them recover
And thats why you are a right winger on the internet?
>Op here, dont pay attention to that shit on Yas Forums, its literally a bot that responds to keywords.
Or if u pay attention to Yas Forums and try to search for "sapphism" it just says there are no results.
Anonymous 05/09/15 (Fri) 11:47:16 PM No. 100684 Is that you?
It's on tumblr/twitter/instagram. I don't even remember where it was taken.
And that was and is a totally blown hoax. But u seem to have no idea. You tried making it up yourself now? Is that you?It's on tumblr/twitter/instagram. I don't even remember where
I want to, but I have carried this, with my own faults eating at me. I have passed on he issues to her. Neither of us can accomplish what we want right now, especially with out the fresh reality that we are in charge of our own lives.
You a bot too? Bernie 2016 and 2020.
That isnt even coherent, but just confusing enough to make someone click the link. You all have evolved since 2008. Went from trolling games to trolling elections. gg,.
>You a bot too? Bernie 2016 and 2020.
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Gavin McInnes, right, rejects the idea that capitalism cannot be reformed, and says that capitalism is good for everyone (Rex Features)
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>pretty advanced isnt it user