Relationship Advice
Relationship Advice
don't fornicate
Why?
This girl I have a lot of interest in keeps telling me she's busy with work and that's why she doesnt respond to my messages. The thing is that I know she isnt a slag because she has only ever had one relationship and doesnt go out often. She wished me a happy birthday and gave me a nice message but then ignored my reply.
What does this sound like to you guys? Is she just messing me about or is there a slight chance she genuinely is just that busy?
I asked my crush out recently and she said "maybe after quarantine is over". Did I just get soft rejected?
Yes
Why do you think this?
Because you're not just gay, you're turbo gay.
Okay thanks for the advice it will be disregarded now
you has to be super busy to regularly ignore messages from someone you genuinely interested
that does not mean there no chance she ever gets interested
yes, and you know it
Good chance she is just busy but I recently was in a long term relationship with this girl and for about 4 months everything was going great. Eventually she started talking to me less, responding slowly or no at all to my messages, and finding excuses not to hangout. She finally admitted she met someone else and was seeing them. So just try to talk to her and ask the uncomfortable questions.
im a 32 yo khv
wat do?
she's busy doing something else than spending time caring about you, do the math and guess what it means.
yet, you do not repulse her, though.
yes, you were.
uncomfortable questions to someone who never was in relationship wth you? yeah right
Try to get into seminary school and become a priest. Happy Easter!
can you cast a fireball?
He can only cast magic missile, directly into a paper towel, which he then flushes down the toilet.
because yes is yes, all the rest is no.
props to you for asking though, now move on. If someday she changes her mind, she'll let you know, but your part is done.
but... what is magic about it?
It possesses the ability to smell like mushrooms, and dries into a hard crust-like shell. Gives +10 to his ability to disgust other humans.
How do I get a girl to understand that I want our motives to be out in the open?
How do I get her to understand that I understand manipulation but would rather do it to further express who I am?
How do I tell a girl that I just want to find someone to experience life with? That i'm not interested in just getting a quick nut.
How do I do all of that without sounding like i'm running game?
Either way it's probably better to move on.
The best thing to do is play it cool. The "bad boys" get the girls because they possess the ability to be direct. DO NOT talk about lovey dovey shit with her. DO NOT act like a fucking weak willed romantic sissy. Be cool, be direct, be aloof. You must behave like you could take sex or leave it. If the girl thinks you're above it all, you're better than her, and you don't care either way if you hook up, then she will be yours forever. Women can't help themselves. They want what they can't have.
Hear me out tho... I want a woman that can understand who I am as a person. I don't want to pretend to be anyone else but me. I'm awesome. Why act like a "bad boy"? If a woman can't enjoy me for who I am at the beginning then she's not going to ease into it after a while. If anything she's going to be upset when my facade fades.
Why
She's not giving you any attention. If a girl was interested she would give you attention. There are women out there that would be happy to spend time with you. Busy slut is missing out.
Kek, that’s not a long term relationship. Seems like you barely knew her you fucking larper
Girls want to be desired. It isn't about sex for them. Sex is easy for them. They compete not with us, they compete with each other. If a girl thinks you possess the ability to get with any girl you want, and can take or leave her no big deal, they will move the earth to try and seduce you. You must ignore all your instincts to profess your undying love for her, how you'll treat her right, how you'll never leave her. That disgusts them on a prehistoric level. You must act like you don't care either way. Be aloof. That's the gist of it.
Yes bitches like spontaneous shit not to mention its like day 60 of quarantine bitches are craving dick she'd risk her life right now if she really liked you.
Yeah I guess
I don't want to profess my undyling love for a woman. I just want to let her know that I want to be honest. Which is a bad generalization of what I want to do but whatever... Maybe I should just do it and let her figure it out?
MAYBE! I can't control another person and I have to see who she is! I can be myself and see how she reacts to it! If she fucks with it then cool but if not then fuck it...
Are you a female? Not trying to hit on you, just filtering your advice through the appropriate lenses.