I'm in deep shit. I'm together with my gf for 2 months. Everything is perfect, except recently I started to worry for not being hard enough, then this totally turned to a mental ED. Almost everytime she touches me I get hard. Then when sexytime comes, I focus on my erection and can't get my limp dick up. She is patient, but I see on her she is stressed as well. I told her nothing is wrong with her and she knows this.
Have any of you guys overcame this? I really don't want to lose her. And please no Kamagra/Viagra advice.
I have this problem as well but my gf is chubby these days so that's why.
Carter Lee
Googled it. Basically it forces your erection back? You wear it every time? Did this hel you?
Btw I'm so stressed nowadays that even porn won't get it up most of the time, because I focus on the problem
Kayden Ortiz
It wont let you get hard but you feel the weight of it, and it bumping and rubbing against you. Plus you have an excuse why youre not hard yet. I dont wear it all the time. Its more of a kink for me.
Grayson Parker
masturbate less stop watching porn and instead of thinking about your dick think about your girlfriend. also fimd something that turns you on and get her to do it. for me its my balls everytime she grabs my balls in whatever position or just in general i get rock hard and want to sploog
Austin Davis
Maybe you should dump her for being a cum-addicted cunt and actually get a decent human being of a woman.
Adam Hernandez
just get drunk next time you fuck her. it’ll ease the stress and also make you last forever. try not to get whiskey dick tho
Hudson Torres
She's a cunt to you it kills your dick mental ED is her fault if you can't connect move on
Zachary James
She is one of the most normal girls I've ever met. The problem is in my brain.
Jace Robinson
No it doesn't
Brody Richardson
Make approximately 10 quarter inch cuts along the shaft of your penis. It will increase the sensitivity for about 1 to 2 weeks. Works everytime.
Nathan Sullivan
What?
Michael Brown
Try reverse psychology. Insert dick limp in girlfriend. (Yes you can). Object is not to do any effort to get erection. If erection happens you do not encourage nor discourage. Don't 'use' it. Repeat couple of times / days. This breaks the mental anxiety conditioning.
Charles Wilson
OP its all mental
all you have to do is accept your penis for how it is, even if its small, thats your penis and you must embrace it
you keep focusing on your penis size instead of the hot pussy infront of you, which ultimately is making your dick not even get hard at all
stop thinking about your dick, your gf likes you for who you are, and go give her that D
Gavin Fisher
We're talking about a man's dick, not grilling a fish.
Sebastian Anderson
Somke Weed, dont giv a fuk
Easton Gray
you are just stressed out man, don't jack off for a week and you shouldn't have too much trouble, the average man should only jazz once ever 4-5 days
Colton Lewis
How old are you? this sort of things happens with age. Can you pop boners and fap normally otherwise? It might be worth going to see a doc and having your prostate checked if this persists as well.
Owen Davis
I'm sure you have the whole don't masturbate sort of thing already done. In my case, get more iron in your system, more vitamin B and B12, and eat more red meat.
Combine that with psychological shit like mixing things up and such and you should be fine.
Angel Cox
OP I had a similar issue - try cialis for a bit until you break through the nerves, eventually you won't need it. Although I always pack a few for weekends away
Andrew Nelson
get a cock ring
Colton Diaz
I'd say I'm average when hard, but I have a blood dick, not a flesh dick. Also, my gf LOVES sex with me, after 5-10 mins she cums, then she cums repeatedly every minute/half-minute after that. An absolute treasure of a girl. Another reason I don't want to lose her.
Wyatt Morris
I'm 35. Yes, it gets hard when I'm watching porn all the time, probably not always as instantly as when I was 20, but I still have firm erections.
Luis Perez
Just stop drinking coffee, user. It's bad for you!
Jordan Thompson
maybe shes too old forU aleredy..try some young fresh meat and you will be hard and horny permanently
Ian Sanders
I'm 35 she is 28. Also she's quite fresh with firm skin and a great body.
Luke Ross
This might just be the cause of my problem currently.
Earlier in my life it happened with a lot of girls in the beginning of the relationships.
1st gf - I couldn't fuck her in the first 2 months. Then we took each other's virginity and I was half-limp due to stress. A week later when we met next time I wanted to show her how good I can be and fucked her brains out. The problem went away.
2nd gf - When she first came up I also had anxiety, couldn't get it up. Then next weekend I travelled to her city and on the bus I constantly thought about how viciously I will fuck her. When the moment came to penetrate her missionary, I went limp. Then I moved her into doggystyle and fucked her hard. No problems after that.
And now...
We were out on a concert with my current gf. I had a huge boner through the entire concert as we made out all the time. She took me home and I started to worry in the taxi, and failed of course. The next morning we had the first sex, it was all great.
Then she traveled abroad for 9 days for vacation. I had a chat with a friend and told him I failed. He gave me a pack of Kamagra oral jelly. When she arrived home I traveled to her, took the jelly on the train and we had great sex 3-4 times in 2 days. The next time I went to her I didn't take Kamagra. At first I was a bit worried and limp, but then it came to life and we had even better sex encounters this time. When she first came over to my place, I also took Kamagra not to worry about my apartment being small or anything. And then I didn't take it. We had wonderful sex all the damn time. And a few weeks ago I started to realize I wasn't all that rock hard when having sex (even though she enjoyed this encounter as well) and I started making a mental problem out of this. To counter it, I took Kamagra and even with it I had some trouble getting it up, I was so stressed out over the week before it. But I don't want to become a psychological addict so I'm not planning to take any more.
Easton Garcia
>I focus on my erection You'd better focus on her pussy, smell and moaning...
Nathan Morris
Yas Forumsro this has happend to me and I've lost a few girls dude to it. I'm pretty degenerate btw. Like I watch porn constantly, I use to fuck hoes, I'd find rando girls to try to fuck, etc Well anyway for me it started after I had sex with this 17yr old I was talking to long story short we drank I got a bit of whisky dick and it was her "first time" but she just stopped talking to me after that. And deep inside I knew it was because I didn't fuck her brains out. I wasn't really a sex god even though I'm a massive pervert. So after that I had trouble getting it up even with hoes which I use to have noo problem at all even very drunk. I meet a new girl 5/10 6/10 naked but chubby. I had the same problem with her but recently it's gotten better. >Morale of the story: try to be in a comfy state of mind, like relaxed. Don't think about what you or her thinks only remember how good it feels when you have a pussy around your penis, and using it to masturbate.
Ian Johnson
Oh gods, I had a gf who was multiple-orgasmic too. To this day I could kick myself in the balls over and over for not marrying her. Actually, considering what I married, I guess I sort of AM doing that.
Lincoln Johnson
Have er keep sucking on it, even when it turtles in. Just keep going Your dick will realize it's not going to win this one, and come out.
Easton Ortiz
myfriend has the same problem and the diference between them is 10years but hes fat and lazy...but rich
Angel Wright
I love getting blowjobs but with her it's a different story. Even though she gives me like the best ever oral, I feel like I don't give her anything in return and that she wants my dick to get hard so it won't get hard. The same happened last time in 69 position.