Be me >31yrs old. GF 30. Been together for 12 years. >Has let me have threesomes throughout with females >Has never strayed (I have stuff on her phone and track her) >Start neglecting her sexually pass couple yrs >She cheats on me. I catch her. Read messages, turns out she just wants sex and felt neglected. I missed the signs. >She wants to break up and be free, said she can't help herself now and just wants to the thrill.
What do I do? I love her. She's given me everything and is a good woman who I drove to this.
Talk about your feelings? Fuck her? One of those..
Jason Stewart
She cheated. Her fault. Shut the fuck up.
Nicholas Young
Have been. She still doesn't trust herself
I would have agreed 5yrs ago. I cheated on her with her sister. I did it to hurt her
Hunter Cooper
Break up. It's over. Time to go to next chapter
Noah Martinez
Trust has been broken. This will never heal right.
Leo Gomez
You gotta say that type of shit in the OP if you want realistic advice. That’s kind of an important point.
Jordan Powell
I'm trying to fix it. She's been a good chick for 12yrs. Advice sensei?
Anthony Howard
Youre an idiot
Luke Myers
You're right, my bad
Liam Foster
I'm hurt. But I liked that I see how it all went down, from the messages and comparing.
Gabriel Ramirez
just passing by to call you a dumbass
Jaxson Nelson
Thanks is homeslice
Connor Collins
But been a bad chic lately by cheating.. can't blame yourself for that. Plus now, wants the thrill?
Two options: 1) put up with it and work it out together. Lay it all out on the table about what bothers you about the situation and what you exoect, and talk about her expectations moving forward. Communication will be key
2) break up. Like a bandaid. Right off. Difficult to do. But the person willing to walk away always has more power. And who knows, you may find someone 10x better.
Unless there is more to the story
Elijah Powell
What stuff did you use to catch her on her phone, was thinking of monitoring my cheating hoe too
There's tons more, I posted a couple weeks ago when it 1st happened. Don't wanna bore y'all with it again until crunch time comes later this month. We have ourselves to the beginning of next month to work things out. All my fellow b/ros really helped. Have been working on it for 2 weeks. She said she wasn't in love with me anymore. I knew she was just hurt. Now the feelings come and go in just 2 weeks. But she is afraid that she will cheat again because she likes the thrill of it. I honestly can't blame her for it. I been the only dick for 12 years, yet I've been getting 3-5 new pussy a year for the past 5yrs, thanks to her.
Owen Wood
I have access to her phone. I requested the snapchat data after I saw suspicious stuff. Also monitor the texts from phone provider, and track her whereabouts using Google maps. She's never given me a reason to suspect, but I've always liked knowing. Obviously it paid off eventually
Levi White
Yeah, that must be fucking brutal man...
Adam Wright
>Don't wanna bore y'all just a little late for that one >I knew she was just hurt cope >she likes the thrill of it nope you just arent man enough to satisfy her >I honestly can't blame her for it. you couldnt if you had to >I been the only dick for 12 years yeah sure bud
Julian Cox
Did she have dick pics from other dudes?
Eli Martinez
The pathetic whinging of not even being a cuck, but wanting to be a cuck and failing says everything about why she left. If you think she just started cheating, and you just now caught her proves only that you missed a lot of signs not just one. You got used, stop being a bitch. Dont let it happen again. Stop whining.
Zachary Robinson
Just the one Again, I track her efficiently
Kayden Johnson
ITT: OP cant get cucked
Anthony James
really nigga
Brayden Myers
Y'all need to pay attention to this part. OP cheated on her years ago with her fucking sister.lol
Owen Turner
You’re seeing some sort of introspective approval from her through validation. You’d be best of working on yourself and building up your own self worth.
Kevin Johnson
...
Easton Rogers
Lmao dude let her go you're a fucking menace to society. She doesn't want to have this non monogamous relationship where you neglect her and track her every move. You clearly had a fucked relationship from the start given you had cheated before her. You're a controlling shithead, let her go.
Nolan Bennett
You’re not supposed to give him GOOD advice user you clutz!
Sebastian Brooks
I guess I know how shit we both are sometimes, but how amazing we are as well. Idk. I'm pretty devastated in general user. 12 years is a 1/3 of my life.
Aiden Allen
>i track her >gets cheated on
LOL
Evan Smith
She doesn't know she's being monitored moron.lol
Justin Roberts
How I became suspicious in the 1st place.
Benjamin Gutierrez
Youre almost 40 and having this problem? HAHAHAHAHA. How does it feel being an absolute failure
Jayden Martinez
you're a cheating piece of shit. let her go if you really care about her, someone as toxic and fucked up as you doesn't deserve her. go get your life together. get a degree. find your passion without the narcissistic feeding on others. honestly how do you live with yourself
1. How you’re feeling coincides with the situation and the emotions you currently have are telling you what to do.
2. How you’re feeling does not coincide with the situation because you are suffering from emotional dysregulation and you might need therapy / medication.
Your scenario is very tell-tale of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.
Charles Reed
OP get kinky. Threesomes etc Eat her. do it all. Good luck.
Hunter Thomas
when you put it that way.. he does seem like a loser...
Joshua Roberts
more like piece-of-shit disorder.
Liam Fisher
I already (reluctantly) eat her out almost 2 times a month.
>Threesomes Absolutely not. I don't want her getting any ideas.
Carson Morgan
So the white knights have appeared? b/ros are supposed to tell you how it is, followed by advaice to still get what you want anyway. C'mon people....
Ayden Morales
Ask her what you can do. Communicate. Let the hoe know you don't want her to go.
Luis Williams
Not OPI'm down to swing, and have been giving her dick multiple times a day since
Gabriel Butler
Were bummed out when you saw it? I think I would be okay if it was smaller than mine, but if it was a big cock I’d be crushed.
James Robinson
I've tried it already. We were already doing that before this happened.
Juan Long
>I already (reluctantly) eat her out almost 2 times a month
wow i wonder why shes cheating on you
>Absolutely not. I don't want her getting any ideas.
shes already had threesomes though according to your original post
David Gonzalez
my advice was for him to start a new chapter by getting a degree and doing something with his shitty existence to not make it so shitty.
That sucks for real man. You are both with sin, though. Break up, move on
John Allen
>she doesnt know shes being controlled so it's okay I hope this is bait. The INSTANT you looked through her phone, she assumed you will ALWAYS look through her phone. She knows at the very least you are controlling enough to look without asking. If you had ASKED, you'd be in the right. Fuck off stupid cunt and kill yourself.
Dominic Reed
Someone pretending to be me (OP) I'm down to swing
Hudson Diaz
My advice was to lawyer up and hit the gym... are you me?
Thomas Wright
stop pretending to be OP faggot
Connor Clark
A chapter with what friend? I'm truly asking. With this girl I've gone through everything with. From not having a job for a full year, getting our house, getting into our fields. Everything. I'll never be able to replicate it. Even if we broke up now, she'd still be my best friend. I know, I sound like a bitch.
Asher White
She had been saying her phone was acting shitty, I fix stuff.
Jaxon Rogers
he only needs to hit the gym if he has no intellectual potential... but then again he probably doesn't so your advice is better
Tyler Ramirez
She wants to. I don't.
Lucas Perez
Not me
Jackson Powell
I don't want to break up with her. I want to fix this. But I dont want to be a cuck, if I can help it.
Alexander Garcia
Thanks for the advice anyways Yas Forumsros. Heading to bed
Isaac Miller
I was in one for 6 years. I was cheated on. Granted, I never cheated on her, but ONCE CHEATING HAPPENS AT ALL, YOU YOURSELF KNOW it's never the same after. The best thing would've been to break up after the first cheating incident from either side. It sucks after being together for 6 years and then not having them. you'll miss the time in bed, and the time watching things, and eating together, etc. BUT. Honestly listen here, I started school at 26, and holy fuck you are never too old to make new friends and find new women. Once that FIRST relationship happens, you'll be too clingy for her and it wont work, but after that second break-up, you'll start feeling better and better.
Austin Moore
Not me (OP). But has a point.
Austin Green
sounds like you're a fucking dipshit, dawg
John King
Stop pretending to be OP you faggot
Luis Kelly
Site looks like its hacked or something. somebody keeps posting as me (OP)
Hunter Murphy
You had ALREADY put a tracker on her phone. You know I'm not wrong for calling you out, you're only trying to argue what she knows; you should let her leave your ass. Furthermore; again, you skimmed her messages when she trusted you to fix her phone, if I'm understanding this right. The absolute truth is that this relationship is a lost cause. You need to stop being a fucking controlling asshole, because it indicates that you have really low confidence.
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Charles Moore
I believe you man. But don't you think maybe that's due to the fact you start being more jaded to every relationship after?
Noah Torres
stfu nobody cares about you, you aren't his fucking daddy
Adam Kelly
No I dont! I WAS TRYING TO MAKE SURE WHAT HAPPENED JUST NOW DIDNT HAPPEN