Be me

Be me
>31yrs old. GF 30. Been together for 12 years.
>Has let me have threesomes throughout with females
>Has never strayed (I have stuff on her phone and track her)
>Start neglecting her sexually pass couple yrs
>She cheats on me. I catch her. Read messages, turns out she just wants sex and felt neglected. I missed the signs.
>She wants to break up and be free, said she can't help herself now and just wants to the thrill.

What do I do? I love her. She's given me everything and is a good woman who I drove to this.

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Talk about your feelings? Fuck her? One of those..

She cheated. Her fault. Shut the fuck up.

Have been. She still doesn't trust herself

I would have agreed 5yrs ago. I cheated on her with her sister. I did it to hurt her

Break up. It's over. Time to go to next chapter

Trust has been broken. This will never heal right.

You gotta say that type of shit in the OP if you want realistic advice. That’s kind of an important point.

I'm trying to fix it. She's been a good chick for 12yrs. Advice sensei?

Youre an idiot

You're right, my bad

I'm hurt. But I liked that I see how it all went down, from the messages and comparing.

just passing by to call you a dumbass

Thanks is homeslice

But been a bad chic lately by cheating.. can't blame yourself for that. Plus now, wants the thrill?

Two options:
1) put up with it and work it out together. Lay it all out on the table about what bothers you about the situation and what you exoect, and talk about her expectations moving forward. Communication will be key

2) break up. Like a bandaid. Right off. Difficult to do. But the person willing to walk away always has more power. And who knows, you may find someone 10x better.

Unless there is more to the story

What stuff did you use to catch her on her phone, was thinking of monitoring my cheating hoe too

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You're lucky you saw those. Imagine ppl who don't are left in the dark to wonder..

>I drove to this

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There's tons more, I posted a couple weeks ago when it 1st happened. Don't wanna bore y'all with it again until crunch time comes later this month. We have ourselves to the beginning of next month to work things out. All my fellow b/ros really helped. Have been working on it for 2 weeks. She said she wasn't in love with me anymore. I knew she was just hurt. Now the feelings come and go in just 2 weeks. But she is afraid that she will cheat again because she likes the thrill of it. I honestly can't blame her for it. I been the only dick for 12 years, yet I've been getting 3-5 new pussy a year for the past 5yrs, thanks to her.

I have access to her phone. I requested the snapchat data after I saw suspicious stuff. Also monitor the texts from phone provider, and track her whereabouts using Google maps. She's never given me a reason to suspect, but I've always liked knowing. Obviously it paid off eventually

Yeah, that must be fucking brutal man...

>Don't wanna bore y'all
just a little late for that one
>I knew she was just hurt
cope
>she likes the thrill of it
nope you just arent man enough to satisfy her
>I honestly can't blame her for it.
you couldnt if you had to
>I been the only dick for 12 years
yeah sure bud

Did she have dick pics from other dudes?

The pathetic whinging of not even being a cuck, but wanting to be a cuck and failing says everything about why she left.
If you think she just started cheating, and you just now caught her proves only that you missed a lot of signs not just one.
You got used, stop being a bitch. Dont let it happen again. Stop whining.

Just the one
Again, I track her efficiently

ITT: OP cant get cucked

really nigga

Y'all need to pay attention to this part.
OP cheated on her years ago with her fucking sister.lol

You’re seeing some sort of introspective approval from her through validation. You’d be best of working on yourself and building up your own self worth.

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Lmao dude let her go you're a fucking menace to society.
She doesn't want to have this non monogamous relationship where you neglect her and track her every move.
You clearly had a fucked relationship from the start given you had cheated before her.
You're a controlling shithead, let her go.

You’re not supposed to give him GOOD advice user you clutz!

I guess I know how shit we both are sometimes, but how amazing we are as well. Idk. I'm pretty devastated in general user. 12 years is a 1/3 of my life.

>i track her
>gets cheated on

LOL

She doesn't know she's being monitored moron.lol

How I became suspicious in the 1st place.

Youre almost 40 and having this problem? HAHAHAHAHA. How does it feel being an absolute failure

you're a cheating piece of shit. let her go if you really care about her, someone as toxic and fucked up as you doesn't deserve her. go get your life together. get a degree. find your passion without the narcissistic feeding on others. honestly how do you live with yourself

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There’s two potential outcomes here:

1. How you’re feeling coincides with the situation and the emotions you currently have are telling you what to do.

2. How you’re feeling does not coincide with the situation because you are suffering from emotional dysregulation and you might need therapy / medication.

Your scenario is very tell-tale of someone with Borderline Personality Disorder.

OP get kinky. Threesomes etc Eat her. do it all. Good luck.

when you put it that way.. he does seem like a loser...

more like piece-of-shit disorder.

I already (reluctantly) eat her out almost 2 times a month.

>Threesomes
Absolutely not. I don't want her getting any ideas.

So the white knights have appeared?
b/ros are supposed to tell you how it is, followed by advaice to still get what you want anyway. C'mon people....

Ask her what you can do. Communicate. Let the hoe know you don't want her to go.

Not OPI'm down to swing, and have been giving her dick multiple times a day since

Were bummed out when you saw it? I think I would be okay if it was smaller than mine, but if it was a big cock I’d be crushed.

I've tried it already. We were already doing that before this happened.

>I already (reluctantly) eat her out almost 2 times a month

wow i wonder why shes cheating on you

>Absolutely not. I don't want her getting any ideas.

shes already had threesomes though according to your original post

my advice was for him to start a new chapter by getting a degree and doing something with his shitty existence to not make it so shitty.

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It was the average, same as mine

That sucks for real man. You are both with sin, though. Break up, move on

>she doesnt know shes being controlled so it's okay
I hope this is bait.
The INSTANT you looked through her phone, she assumed you will ALWAYS look through her phone.
She knows at the very least you are controlling enough to look without asking.
If you had ASKED, you'd be in the right.
Fuck off stupid cunt and kill yourself.

Someone pretending to be me (OP)
I'm down to swing

My advice was to lawyer up and hit the gym... are you me?

stop pretending to be OP faggot

A chapter with what friend? I'm truly asking. With this girl I've gone through everything with. From not having a job for a full year, getting our house, getting into our fields. Everything. I'll never be able to replicate it. Even if we broke up now, she'd still be my best friend. I know, I sound like a bitch.

She had been saying her phone was acting shitty, I fix stuff.

he only needs to hit the gym if he has no intellectual potential... but then again he probably doesn't so your advice is better

She wants to. I don't.

Not me

I don't want to break up with her. I want to fix this. But I dont want to be a cuck, if I can help it.

Thanks for the advice anyways Yas Forumsros. Heading to bed

I was in one for 6 years. I was cheated on. Granted, I never cheated on her, but ONCE CHEATING HAPPENS AT ALL, YOU YOURSELF KNOW it's never the same after. The best thing would've been to break up after the first cheating incident from either side. It sucks after being together for 6 years and then not having them. you'll miss the time in bed, and the time watching things, and eating together, etc. BUT. Honestly listen here, I started school at 26, and holy fuck you are never too old to make new friends and find new women. Once that FIRST relationship happens, you'll be too clingy for her and it wont work, but after that second break-up, you'll start feeling better and better.

Not me (OP). But has a point.

sounds like you're a fucking dipshit, dawg

Stop pretending to be OP you faggot

Site looks like its hacked or something. somebody keeps posting as me (OP)

You had ALREADY put a tracker on her phone.
You know I'm not wrong for calling you out, you're only trying to argue what she knows; you should let her leave your ass.
Furthermore; again, you skimmed her messages when she trusted you to fix her phone, if I'm understanding this right.
The absolute truth is that this relationship is a lost cause.
You need to stop being a fucking controlling asshole, because it indicates that you have really low confidence.

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I believe you man. But don't you think maybe that's due to the fact you start being more jaded to every relationship after?

stfu nobody cares about you, you aren't his fucking daddy

No I dont! I WAS TRYING TO MAKE SURE WHAT HAPPENED JUST NOW DIDNT HAPPEN

This isn't Redditt amigo

Amiga, get it right