I attract ugly girls on dating apps but fine girls in real life what gives ?

Most of the "good looking" ones on dating apps are literal whores or scammers/catfish

Have money and expensive shit in your profile pic. Tell them your dick tastes like chocolate.

Bitches love money, expensive stuff and chocolate.

Dating apps hyperbolate the natural hypergamy of women. Same here, dating a chick who I'd say is objectively as good look as me but gets so many more matches when I played with her tinder. She can literally only swipe the top 10% hot dudes and still get matches. Don't be fooled guys, unless you're very good looking, women won't consider you. They already have a plethora of choice among the best looking guys. Real life meeting women involves alot more than how good you look on pictures so you'll be more successful with charm etc.

I have a pic of my Range Rover. Doesn’t change anything

Don't do this. Same as explicit gym pics unless you look fucking amazing. You have to show value while acting as if you're not (e.g. beach pic if you have a nice body). Flaunting your range rover makes you look like a small dick-big car loser. I'm not judging you btw just know that women will.

I’m intrigued

This.. dating apps aren't for everyone. If what makes you attractive is the way you speak or flirt then forget tinder

I'm sure there's truth to this. I've always done remarkably well with women. It helps that I'm tall and fit, but I've girlfriends that are admittedly so out of my league so frequently that my friends and Dad even wondered how the fuck I did it.

Personality is key and it's very difficult to convey proper context and inflection via text. But there's undoubtedly a personal factor that allows some guys to thrive in person that's not present in digital interactions.

Sure m8

Ok, so my info may not apply to tinder. I met my wife via POF and had great success through OKC, ALT, POF and other online dating venues.

>Get the phone APP and use the PC version if available.
You're typically given more search filters and more real time info via PC Desktop versions than Apps. Use the PC version to write up first messages and send then out. Use the App to respond throughout the day.

>Write a lengthy first message.
After looking at my friends messages...Tons and TONS of "Hey", "Hi", "Whatsup baby?" Messages.
These girls are inundated with messages. Most of them are the same. Compose a solid lengthy, but not too verbose first introduction. ALWAYS ASK AT LEAST ONE QUESTION IN THE MESSAGE.
Girls love talking about themselves, ask something about them.

>Read their full profile.
Incorporate common ground or questions about info found in it into your first message.

>Do not wait too long.
Once you've got a bit of conversation flowing, take the next step. Typically if a conversation goes on throughout the day or extends into a 2nd day... Ask them out. Strike while hot.

>ONLY MESSAGE GIRLS WHEN THEY ARE ACTIVELY ONLINE
Critical step here. Your message will be lost in a flood of others if you hit them up when they're offline. Don't message them as soon as their light turns green, wait about 5 minutes for them to filter through some of theur accumulated inbox. Online/offline indicators are way more accurate via Desktop than App.

>Absolute Cheat Codes for 100% guaranteed replies and hookups....
Use desktop search filters
-No car - Chicks without a car are 10x more likley to meet up immediatley
-Has Kids - Single moms need the D too
-Type "Disabled" or "Disability" in manual search criteria - Yeah...I did it. Crippled chicks ftw

basically, this

At least you attract girls at all, way to flex

You're lying on both things

Dude I know I’m good looking I’ve had 8’ and 9’s hit on me but on tinder I get nothing

Then you might have shit pics. If you're saying that 8 and 9s hit on you without you making an effort then you must look like fucking Brad Pitt so you're either lying or having the shittiest pictures.

What site are you using where you can filter disabled people

Ugh guys.. come on

That’s how I know you’re a virg, thinking you need to look like brad Pitt to get girls to hit on you.

This doesn't work if you get no matches lol.

Also what is it like fucking a disabled person

He's right. Women do not make the first move unless the guy is the kind of guy nearly all women want. You sound like the virg.

Not at all. I'm medium looking and pull some pussy too but by no means 9s and 8s unless I approach them and you said they hit on you. You're therefore very good looking or display status in some way in person that you don't on tinder. That or what you call 8 and 9 are average chicks. I'm in the same boat as you nigga, as in a pull irl but not on tinder, just trying to explain why this might be happening

Or could be a guy that’s there type? Like seriously have you ever had any girls interact with you like cmon

I’m on POF and it doesn’t give me an option for disabled people

Types are bullshit and studies have shown this. Sure some girls prefer dark hair and some blonde. But some guys universally score higher on attractiveness tests. It's all pretty biological. If you really pull mad pussy irl and nothing on tinder the you're either super charming (aka you approach them) or some weird shit like pheromones that girl mentioned

POF & OKC... like I said iys been a while, but you could run manual search terms via desktop that would search profiles fir key words in their hand typed "About me" descriptions, not just the multiple choice selections.

You can also use Google to search for criteria and key words in hand typed description, but the likelihood of getting dead accounts is far greater.

Nigga I was saying come on as in don't be that desperate

You gotta pay for that shit

You sound like a child. Women still like to wait for the guy to make the first move. I guarantee I've been with more women than you. Sure they will flirt, but almost none will actually ask a guy out. They will send signals and wait for the guy to do it.

I really have to question the amount of experience you have. You sound very young.

Yeah I think this guy is super young and still into that "types" shit. Also claims to pull 9s so his standards are probably low. If pic related initiates flirting with you irl but you get no matches on tinder then she can can literally smell your bank account or some shit

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Also you can even put anything in the search bar on okc

chances are they just saw a 10,a 9 and a really good profile 40 times before they saw yours, so maybe youre an 8, but now.....in comparison to the guy they JUST saw, youre a 5 now.

i like moderate lifestyles. id rather have a smart girl than one covered in karsashian makeup and in a ferrari. so those photos turn me off, i DO NOT want to get a kid with a shallow girl like that. thatd ruin the REST of yourlife man, fun but risky. those photos tell me to stay away.
1. she values wealth and status. when most of the world isnt extremely wealthy or famous.

2. She likes expensive vacations and shit, expects them and wants other girls to SEE she has them onsocial media.

3. Its all another guys money. ANOTHER GUY. its not HER ferrari, HER boat, HER vacation to the bahamas, its on some guys dime and she'll expect the same of you.

4. stay away from moms. they fuck but youll be fucked for life, the courts will fuck you, forever. stay away from tats, nobody wants bumper stickers on a ferrari or gold rims on a hearse. stay away from fat ones, they will only get fatter and blame you for it.

-have a good smile, be happy, funny and witty. be somebody her DNA says to mate wtih and could be a good dad to her kids IF she gets preggo.

Ask a guy out? Dude I’m talking about a girl approaching me and giving me her number or asking me for my snap, not asking me on a date

Welp...sorry m8s. Worked a few years ago. I guess you're all fucked.

You're still either very good looking or full of shit. You're telling me women are 8s and 9s literally walk up to you and ask for you number? Post a pic of what you consider a 9

men have lower standards for flings than they do for relationships
women have higher standards for flings than they do for relationships

Exactly. Thanks redpill man

This. A woman can literally fuck super hot guys even if she's average, so why would she fuck average. However, she can't keep that Chad as he's unfaithful and generally unstable (character traits associated to high levels of test) so she settles for the nice guy once she rode the alpha cock carousel

>4. stay away from moms. they fuck but youll be fucked for life, the courts will fuck you, forever. stay away from tats, nobody wants bumper stickers on a ferrari or gold rims on a hearse. stay away from fat ones, they will only get fatter and blame you for it.

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>The men come to them.
This.
The fat and ugly ones gotta work it.
The attractive ones are so flooded with messages that this is all they deal with.
The irony may be that women wonder where all the "good men" are but never actually step away from the flood of losers in their inbox long enough to go looking on their own.

when i was 15, for the first time in my life, i asked a girl for her phone number, we slightly knew each other and were somewhat friendly so I assumed that's a start. she told me she would give it to me the next day (the last day of the school year before summer) the next day she did not come in, even though everyone always loved the last day of school

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Only a faggot with no confidence uses a dating app loser.

Hot girls on apps are Sluts looking for someone they can manipulate and use as a sugar daddy, otherwise they wouldn’t be on the app. Hot girls that you meet out in the world are just living their life and will show genuine interest if their gut (hormones) tell them to.

Dating apps are the shittiest way to meet women in every possible way.

When's the last time you got laid.

I work at a grocery store and it's been more or less a fucking feeding frenzy,

I work out and work in a place that deals in "health, beauty and vitamins" so it was already easy mode, but chicks are fucking horny right now. Everyone I talk to and tell what I've been through thinks I'm making it up lol.

to add to my post: watch this STOP CHASING HOT girls, and WHY you do it. and WHY you must stay away from a girl withkids, for you, and for the damn kids.

youtube.com/watch?v=iT73RGTaNMM

STOP CHASING HOT GIRLS! stefan molyneux call in show. if i can save a few of you guys this post is worth it.

invest in YOURSELF. the good woman will come a long in time. by the time youre 30, shell be 21-23 and ready and youll have resources to provide a good life.

I have no choice dumbass cause of this quarantine shit

Huh?

Nigger it was yesterday because I met my bitch in the flesh. Dating apps are for cowards and losers. A woman sees you there and knows it's because you're a loser who can't talk to women. Pathetic.

HUH?????

Your standards are much lower irl than online

In the flesh where? Everyone is in quarantine