Have you ever spent a substantial amount of time talking to a Tranny? What did you learn?

Have you ever spent a substantial amount of time talking to a Tranny? What did you learn?

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She really had balls.

A anus can't handle a big dick very easely without prior practice.

Strong opinions on things and will attack you for thinking differently but constantly play the victim.

Over-emotional and will freak out over nothing. Again, everybody is at fault except them.

Will frequently cry "muh anxiety" when called out on their shitty behaviour.

Several. Learned that, by and large, they're relatively normal people trying to make themselves feel comfortable in life and their own bodies. They're also a great microcosm of the medical side of "if you spent money and effort now, you'd use less of both than neglecting [the subject]", RE: medical procedure on transitioning.
I've also learned that, though they tend to be sex positive and more sexual than non-trannies, they're mostly not pushy, and though they're found in mostly liberal areas in larger numbers, their primary real estate is in the minds of terrified Yas Forums users.

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am i to take this metaphorically as well?
and you learned this through discussion?
>Strong opinions on things and will attack you for thinking differently but constantly play the victim.
Care to give one example?
>Will frequently cry "muh anxiety" when called out on their shitty behaviour.
What happens if you call them out on using anxiety as a scapegoat or declare you won't give them sympathy for something they should seek to control (if only for their own benefit)?

What does 'sex positive' mean? Does that mean "not prudes" or does that mean "slutty and that's okay"?
>their primary real estate is in the minds of terrified Yas Forums users.
Made me kek!

>Care to give one example?

It's mostly about politics. Anything LGBT related naturally, such as highly sexualised drag queens are totally appropriate for a children's reading group and if you disagree you're an evil nazi fascist cunt.

Sex positive varies in definition on a spectrum from not-prudes to slutty-and-that's-okay. The trannies I've encountered tend to be somewhere in the middle.

for 5 years,"she" is just self centered and constantly fishes for any sort of attention, will send pics of self harm because,"hahahah attention now please"

I don't know many trannies but every single last one of them has an Onlyfans account. They'll whore themselves out to tranny fetishists and then complain about having their trans status fetishised.

Interesting. So have you ever actually heard to their counterarguments to the dragqueen child reading group thing?
Good to know, thanks for the response.
Part of me wants to make a joke like
>maybe "she" really is a woman
But that feels like low hanging fruit

Smells like bullshit user

That they are dudes destined for a shitty life of never being seen as anything but a hon after their teens

Met my first in 2001, long before it was trendy and exciting and mostly just made life miserable.

He/she was a complete mental case and a mass of compartmentalized contradictions.

Basically LGBTQ+ is Modernist category violence being self imposed rather than as a colonizing violence by The Other which is freely chosen because short term positive attention within a small local community is deemed preferable to complete isolation despite the cost of long term negative attention from more remote community levels.

It’s sad.

I have had a few friends who are trans/came out as trans. They're like most people, by which I mean their personalities and opinions aren't all the same. I've learned that it's absolutely possible to live your life as the opposite gender and function in society just fine. The only real thing you lose is the ability to reproduce, and that's not really all that important if it's such a small percentage of the population

>So have you ever actually heard to their counterarguments to the dragqueen child reading group thing?

They don't really have any other than if you disagree you're clearly a nazi. This is all on social media so maybe it would be different discussing it in person with them, but once they have an opinion on something there's no changing it. They'll mainly counteract with whataboutisms.

Urm...it's not. Which part even remotely sounds like bullshit?

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I'm an androgynous male
(kinda like tranny ultralight - I'm both vaguely fem and masc)
>Wubba lubba dub dub

>Which part even remotely sounds like bullshit?

The fact that it's basically just a Tumblr stereotype. Most reasonable people will agree that anything highly sexualized is not appropriate for children in general. As a person who has been a part of the "LGBTQ community" it's easy to smell bullshit. The real issues that a majority of people will not change their mind on are equality issues like gay marriage, adoption, etc.

>They'll mainly counteract with whataboutisms.
That's got to be incredibly frustrating. Although I think there's a tendency on social media to assume the worst of people so like you say, maybe they'd be more forthcoming face to face.

The trannies where I am are mostly fine, except for some ongoing mental issues which get them down - anxiety, depression, that sort of thing. From what I can gather, it comes with the territory, and we've got little medical support around here, which is what sets it off.
That said, the general attitude here is that nobody gives a shit, by and large, so I'm guessing that the fewer roadblocks they encounter, the healthier and less crazy they are. I know it's not directly comparable, but I'm basing this off something else in this area - we have a big black/middle eastern/asian population, but the vast majority of crime etc., including in proportion to race, is from white sources, which runs counter to the narrative I hear elsewhere, and I can't help but think it's because, generally speaking, my country hasn't had anti-whatever measures for decades upon decades (and some of those populations started over a century ago).
tl;dr - our trannies have some mental problems, but are mostly fine, probably because we don't give much of a shit to stop them from being mostly fine.

That trannies are fucking insane

Yes, and I didn't really learn anything.

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I'm going to ask a really loaded question: why is there so much comorbidity between mental illness and trans people? Is it, as you say, about roadblocks, or is there something more mutually causal?

She wanted to be a guy because in progressive circles tomboys apparently dont exist.
Also she thought that men had it easier and wanted to benefit from ' the patriarchy'.
Lost contact some months before the first major OP and only met him twice after that.
They did an excellent job on the jawline and somehow got a decent beard stubble going.
Apparently he had exclusively gay relationships in wich he was the bottom. So there was no point in the whole transitioning thing.
I heard from a mutual friend that his mother died and that tipped him into depression from wich he recovered after getting another gender reassignment so she is a woman now. Again.
Didnt see her after that though.
Nice person overall though, hope she doesnt get into the 40%

yeah they are insane and manipulated

tough shit

>Also she thought that men had it easier and wanted to benefit from ' the patriarchy'.
It's amazing that people have such comic book versions of the world. Also very sad, that personal tragedy can cause someone to feel physically incomplete or wrong like that.

>manipulated
By who? Others in the community?

Surely, as the person who needs to make it happen, you can sort out the answer.

Insane skitzo from being rape

>The only real thing you lose is the ability to reproduce, and that's not really all that important if it's such a small percentage of the population

it isn't important at all period. nobody should be reproducing. life is nowhere near good enough to justify reproduction.

Your entire community is a Tumblr stereotype you sperg

>Nobody should be reproducing

Especially not if it's possible for them to pass-on their mental disorder to their kids

Hard to say. I'm not a health professional - I only have what people tell me to work on - but from what I got from a few conversations with people, being unhappy and confused with your body to the degree of dysmorphia comes with anxiety as a package deal as naturally as anxiety does other kinds of stress. And then depression tends to set in in response to the slow-ass procedures (friend of mine came out 3 1/2 years ago, applied for procedures during that timeframe, is still in the early stages of talking about medical shit, not long since got hormones). And then there's societal pressure, which exascerbates both.
That 40% number floats around, and I'd be interested to see how it delineates between countries, states (if american), pre-and-post transition, and so on. Doesn't help that there's a bunch of misinformation mixed in.
And yeah, there's manipulation on both ends. Tranny community works well for mutual support, but there's a tendency to push towards transition where it's not necessarily the right thing - like that other user said, some people see a tomboy and think that they have to be a trans man, and there's well-meaning but flawed pressure from some people. On the other side, you know the kind of people you get - every flavor of "god hates fags".

because being trans is really really fucked up and not nice and you have to live with it 24/7 plus it's still taboo pretty much anywhere so doing anything to live as yourself is hella stressful

>nobody should be reproducing
Tru.dat
Fuck, man, if that was a problem limited to trannies we wouldn't be in this mess, not by a long shot.

that 40% drops to 1% if you have support from your friends and family

Used to be real accepting person, but as I’ve got older I realise they’re just suffering from a severe mental illness. Of course they deserve to be looked after, but we shouldn’t be encouraging and normalising a condition that causes obsessive delusions of “I’m not living in the correct body, my body is wrong”

It isn’t just a coincidence 40% of them an hero. We should still be respectful towards them, after all if a schizophrenic man were to hop on the bus you’d still be respectful towards him and not intentionally push his buttons. But we can’t just disregard the fact that there is something seriously wrong about their mental state.

I just want to feel at home in my own flesh and it makes me so sad that it's so complicated and expensive but I have to do it cause otherwise I'll never have any chance of being happy

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I explained to her that if there was something like a patriarchy i would have benefited from it by that point, wich i hadnt. And the personal tragedy hit him after transitioning the first time. Probably reevaluated his life and came to the conclusion that being oneself is not really connected to whats in your pants. I think a different enviroment during puberty would have helped to not create this obviously deeply confused individual.
Maybe she is an outlier, but that whole thing made me think that transitioning is pointless.
And the ' society thinks...' is just what you think society should ideally be but for some reasons you yourself dont conform to.
The same thing is with gender roles' if i cant grow a beard and am not big hairy and burly then im not a man but a woman' is a logic i have gotten out of some aquaintances who were defending transgenderism.

That's what I'm thinking. Maybe not that low, but definitely an improvement. I think there's this idea that all trannies are susceptible to random suicide at a rate of 40%, and some people have really latched onto the idea, but more functional ones don't do nearly that.

I'm not familiar with your Tumblr stereotypes, could you elaborate?

But I'm afraid your bullshit detector is on the wonk.

Stop thinking your genitals have to define who you are.
The grass is always greener on the other side

Yes I have. They all have psychological problems.

You know how homos are constantly creating drama, are sex pests, melodramatic, bitchy and unstable at times. Times all this by 100 with trannies.

If there was therapy for this sort of thing that was sufficiently advanced and available, I don't think it'd be nearly as much of a problem as it is. But where the money lies, it's common wisdom to pay nothing now and pay even more later, for some reason. To some degree, trannies are ironically made by anti-trannies.

She (but really he) worked at a fast food restaurant, demanded socialism, constantly stepped out back to vape a juul pod, was in an abusive relationship, and on top of it all... drank the whole bottle of wine I brought to the party.

Delusional

>All these stories of trannies with mental problems
Do you all live in third-world shitholes where your trannies aren't being cared for?

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I live in the UK, known UK and US trannies irl and on the internet for years. I stand by everything I’ve said.

The fact that you intrinsically cannot feel happy in your own flesh is an indicator of a major psychological problem. There’s not liking a crooked nose, and then there’s having delusions of being literally trapped inside the wrong body.

Your problems aren’t going to leave you after the surgery user. A very large majority realise after transitioning that nothing has truly changed, and an hero.

Mental problems are part of being a tranny. If mental problems didn’t exist, neither would trannies.

my pp doesn't define who I am
But it feels super out of place and alien and not natural and like it should be there and it makes masturbation, sex or relationship a super distressing experience and I wish I could enjoy myself

like it shouldn't* sorry no coffee yet

Think you're approaching the point.

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>It isn’t just a coincidence 40% of them an hero
You're right.
(PS, it's 40% self-reported suicide attempts. Meaning all the statistics come from people who are still alive)
Anyway, the number one thing when added to the equation that returns the attempt stats almost to normal population levels is having parental support. That's what causes it, having parents disown them amongst all the weirdness instead of just supporting them like a decent human should

>But we can’t just disregard the fact that there is something seriously wrong about their mental state.
People don't. It's very important for trans people to get professional medical and psychological treatment. It just turns out the best treatment is transitioning. Fuckos like you just don't like that fact. Sorry I guess. You don't get to say what other people do with their bodies

That’s your body. It should be there. The fact that you think it shouldn’t doesn’t mean somethings wrong with your body, it means somethings wrong with your head