Do you have a daughter? And did you ever want to fuck her?
Don't cheat, no matter what the situation is. It cuts way deeper than you realize. Just psa...
Why wouldn't you be able to do it? You don't like no strings attached sex? But no we talk about what we are ok with and what we aren't ok with and neither one of us has ever violated any boundaries. Well except one time we were partying with a girl I didn't want us to fuck and then when I came back from the bathroom they were already going at it. But to that I just said fuck it and joined. Otherwise no, no jealousy.
Honestly no string attached makes me cringe inside, its always been something that my friends couldn't relate to. But it seems fairly close to a "standard" relationship. Are either of you bi and does it help to be bi?
My girly is. I'm not. We know ppl who are only straight and people who are both bi. This is just a great way for us to go and do something fun together. But honestly my dude sex does not equal love. That's prolly why you are feeling hit so hard by this. Do understand it doesn't mean she doesn't care about you. It does mean she has zero respect for your boundaries and feelings.
I never fucked another girl while I was dating someone, but I did let a few girls suck my cock while I was dating someone. It's really not that bad.
I'm 28 now but this shit was back when i was 26. It wasn't technically cheating because my gf and i weren't together yet but we were pretty intimate only with each other, that is until I got lured in by the prospect of potentially landing myself an extremely cute, submissive 17yo German girl. At one point she and I skyped and I showed her my cock and she showed me her titties and a quick pussy flash. it was kinda awkward afterwards, i assume she regretted it, makes sense, i don't blame her for feeling that way, and yeah it was very hot at the time but now when i think about it i just get filled with deep regret myself. things eventually got weird between us, I got pretty protective and possessive while she moved on to some other dude for attention. I assumed this was a habit of hers and it was causing me lots of stress worrying about her well being and how acting this slutty would end up fucking her up in the long run, so I decided to cut her out of my life. I've mostly moved forward but occasionally I'm wracked with guilt whenever I have those random shower thoughts about her or how she might be doing. my gf didn't and still doesn't know the extent of my relationship with her, she thought I was just being like a protective older brother worrying about her, which is pretty spot on except for the fact we saw each other naked. I'm never going to tell her because that would guarantee end the relationship and I genuinely love this girl. I obviously now realize i made a massive mistake doing what I did, but I was a stupid idiot at the time who had never been in a situation where I "had options", but that's no excuse for it and I wish it didn't happen. God.. I just hope she didn't become a massive slut and got her life together.. :(
You have a kik?
If you weren't exclusive it wasn't cheating. Let go of the guilt dude you did nothing wrong. And yeah you don't need to tell her because it isn't any of her business. She's not your wife and she wasn't your GF. So chill.
Huh. Ima save this for when im not blasted.
It might not have been official yet but we were exclusive to each other. it was like the prelude to the eventual relationship and if I put myself in her shoes I know I'd be utterly destroyed finding out the person I love was being an e-thot only a few months before we became official. I also left out that during the whole pre relationship build up I was teasing her by telling her "I'm already your boyfriend and you're already my girlfriend" which she never dismissed and actually seemed to enjoy so idk, it was but also wasn't official? I know it isn't her business and i intend to keep it that way but it's easier said than done letting go of that guilt.
idk man, I guess I'm just venting and in time ill learn to fully let go. who knows?