No. This isn't a safe space.
I'm not going to coddle his feefees. The problem is that he's a lil biatch, in the first place.
YOU stop.
How do I get over heatbreak Yas Forumsros? She left me for her ex and now I'm nothing...
>No, ive always hated myself. she just made me question why.
So, what I said, but inverted.
Why do you need other people to define you?
Do you know how pathetic that is?
Okay man you're obviously not looking for real advice then just wallowing in your misery, tried to give you legit advice but instead you're just being a vagina about all of it. Good luck dying of extremely painful cancers related to alcoholism. That's how they all die many as young as 30 or 40
>No, ive always hated myself. she just made me question why.
Then by all means, continue seeking validation from external sources, relationships are nothing more than a bandaid for your self worth until you learn to love yourself first.
Thats what i was scared of.
I'm pathetuc. I know this.
it's more of a "jhow to stop hurting" question lul
How thw fuck can I love this mess? I'ev never achieved anythign. I was smart in school and fucked it up. I 'm designed to fucke verything yp.
Bro fuck that shit. Move on. There’s so much more to live for and whatever the reason for the breakup it doesn’t matter, it’s done. There are other women out there, and you still have a life to live. Find a new interest, use this corona time wisely and learn something new and useful. There’s better things to be doing than crying over something that didn’t work. In the end u gotta realize the only way to move on is to move on. Stay safe and go live life! >>Coming from someone with experience with this sort of thing.
dude the face mask
>I'm pathetuc. I know this.
No. Not "YOU'RE pathetic."
THAT'S pathetic.
Stop internalizing everything, dude. Christ.
You're flawed, yeah. Flaws don't define you. Success doesn't define you.
Just fix the flaw and keep it separate from you and who you are. Stop making everything personal. This is why you're suffering. You're being an over emotional simp about your own screw ups. She didn't want you. Okay. Screw her. Work on being less of a cuck and recognize where you went wrong. Fix it. Git Gud. Then, prove she made a mistake. Right now? You're proving her right.
Congratulations.
I've done all this and it hasn't fixed shit.
Change your perspective, society's view of achievement doesn't have to equate to your own. Follow your passions, shed the labels that have boxed you into self-hatred. You are worth as much as any other human to walk the planet, the brainwashing of society is the issue, not you.