How do I get over heatbreak Yas Forumsros? She left me for her ex and now I'm nothing...

How do I get over heatbreak Yas Forumsros? She left me for her ex and now I'm nothing. I've drank more than most peoples livers see in a lifetime. Help me.

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idk, get a new chick? move somewhere new? do shrooms?

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Keep distracted. You probably will get over it but it will take time. Keep distracted and do things. That's all.

She was my first girlfriend. That's why she was special, and I was nothing to her. I do like the drugs idea though.

I have no idea how to distract myslef during this quarantine bullshit. I'm indoors and even when I'm doing a job I can only think of her.

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What the fuck. Why did it upload some random picture?

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wish i knew.
>havent seen this one chick for 6 years.
>we didnt extacly close things properly.
>our mutual friend was getting married.
>met her at wedding.
>was awkward as fuck, we talked a little though.
>shortly after droped out of year long programming course (full stack dev) cause i just stoped going.
>stoped doing anything.
>got fat, body turned to shit (was fit and strong b4 because dumb physical labor worker all my life and did alot of sports).
>ff year
>fat, social phobia full throttle.
>only things i do is watch animu/netflix.
>dont even play games anymore.
>mfw running out of savings.
yeah, living a dream baby!

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I'm in the same boat. Used to do bodybuilding. Hit 500lbs deadlift. Now I'm fat again and don't even have the strength to get out of bed. Every say is shit. I don't want to play games any more, they feel like more work than pleasure. And anything that I watch is for background noise to feel like I'm not so alone.

mah nigga. im starting to worry that if i dont get my shit together soon ill never bounce back.

I don't think that I can at this stage.

Nigga, no.

Man nothings going ur way huh user. Maybe you should kys

Freal i was jk. I’m a drunk so i worry someone in a drunken state might actually take generated numbers on this shit as a sign to kill themselves. I’m in a similar position as you except i wasn’t even with her though i wasn’t exactly led on. She wasn’t over her ex who she’s pretty much been in love with since middleschool and she was my oneitis of 5 years, the only girl i’ve liked in 8 after emotionally numbing myself. Basically, this particular situation mattered in a way beyond surface level for me - regrets and lonely schizoid shit. I was nothing to her and i understand that. It’s logical. I keep thinking what if because i’m pretty good looking and there have been a shit ton of opportunities over the years for me to have her that i just let pass by or froze up. But maybe not, maybe it would’ve ended this way because i’m me. It was failure on my part to act properly but you live and learn. You can’t think of what ifs or what went wrong - you can only focus on what’s real and what’s present. At least you haven’t gotten anyone pregnant or you’re not getting sent to prison, we’ve still a lot of life ahead of us. Ended up writing a bit cuz i’ve been meaning to let this out all year actually and i usually just ended up deleting the post. Chin up brother

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Splits are always rough. Find something positive to do to make yourself better. You would be amazed at how much something like helping someone else with something will help you. I wouldn't recommend drinking a whole lot... That's how I slid into serious alcoholism after splitting up with my son's mom after ten years. That's a dangerous game... It won't feel like it now, but do things you know are good for you mentally and emotionally. You got this, dude.

I'll try, but clearing mu mind is hard

I've alwats been a loser. She just made bne feel better than i am.

Thank tyou, fren. I'm also a disgusting alcoholic but numbing life is the only waty i can stumble trough it.

OP, are you drunk right now?

Honestly stop drinking, the only time I was ever depressed was when I was drinking all the fucking time. It's playing with your head more than you think. Sobriety as much as possible would be a step one for you. When your brains healthier do shrooms or lsd like the other guy said. It'll hell you get over this girl and make your life better.

Haha.
Hahaha.
Haha.
Dating in 2020.
Hahahahaha.
Ah... Nope.

not OP but nice words and nice cat. bless you

well when you go around obsessing over females you make the rest of us look bad

Beyond belief. A half a nottle and i can type better than the average pajeet.

I just want to forget who and whattt i am

too right. some of us are sipposed to be alone i guess

tbh, you're all kinda sad...
Thread after thread every day: "WHO IS SHE????" "POST [body part theme] HERE"

simp

Is wanrng to fall in love and be wiht someon e for the rest of your life so bad?

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>too right. some of us are sipposed to be alone i guess
Oh, I didn't mean it like that. It's just pretty hard these days. Girls got Twitter and Dating Apps and crap. They're all aiming for a type of cHaD.

Then, you had the feminists emasculating men and pushing them out of school and work, taking up space that WOULD allow more of them to cHaD uP.

Alimony.
Child support.
Narcissism.

Everything's retarded. Relax. Work on yourself. Have fun. Stroll along. Get financially buff.

Keep busy. Exercise. Get up early, establish a routine. Power through it all. Think of anything other than your ex -- don't torture yourself. Move forward. Yes, it hurts like a MF and it always will. You need to seal that shit up like Chernobyl in a fucking concrete sarcophagus and NEVER REVISIT THOSE THOUGHTS. Good luck, pal. I wish I had an easy answer.

Yes. Love yourself, idiot.

>bUt, ShE mAdE mE lOvE mYsElF

it is if them saying no destroys the man

Stop.

Thw world is weird. i dont get it.

I used to. just for myself. i was the best i could be and it wasnt' enough.

No, ive always hated myself. she just made me question why.

i feel what u feel right now op.
im doing what ur doing for a long time. it will not get better. prepare to die.

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No. This isn't a safe space.
I'm not going to coddle his feefees. The problem is that he's a lil biatch, in the first place.
YOU stop.

>No, ive always hated myself. she just made me question why.
So, what I said, but inverted.
Why do you need other people to define you?
Do you know how pathetic that is?

Okay man you're obviously not looking for real advice then just wallowing in your misery, tried to give you legit advice but instead you're just being a vagina about all of it. Good luck dying of extremely painful cancers related to alcoholism. That's how they all die many as young as 30 or 40

>No, ive always hated myself. she just made me question why.

Then by all means, continue seeking validation from external sources, relationships are nothing more than a bandaid for your self worth until you learn to love yourself first.

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Thats what i was scared of.

I'm pathetuc. I know this.

it's more of a "jhow to stop hurting" question lul

How thw fuck can I love this mess? I'ev never achieved anythign. I was smart in school and fucked it up. I 'm designed to fucke verything yp.

Bro fuck that shit. Move on. There’s so much more to live for and whatever the reason for the breakup it doesn’t matter, it’s done. There are other women out there, and you still have a life to live. Find a new interest, use this corona time wisely and learn something new and useful. There’s better things to be doing than crying over something that didn’t work. In the end u gotta realize the only way to move on is to move on. Stay safe and go live life! >>Coming from someone with experience with this sort of thing.

dude the face mask

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>I'm pathetuc. I know this.
No. Not "YOU'RE pathetic."
THAT'S pathetic.
Stop internalizing everything, dude. Christ.
You're flawed, yeah. Flaws don't define you. Success doesn't define you.
Just fix the flaw and keep it separate from you and who you are. Stop making everything personal. This is why you're suffering. You're being an over emotional simp about your own screw ups. She didn't want you. Okay. Screw her. Work on being less of a cuck and recognize where you went wrong. Fix it. Git Gud. Then, prove she made a mistake. Right now? You're proving her right.
Congratulations.

I've done all this and it hasn't fixed shit.

Change your perspective, society's view of achievement doesn't have to equate to your own. Follow your passions, shed the labels that have boxed you into self-hatred. You are worth as much as any other human to walk the planet, the brainwashing of society is the issue, not you.

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don't drink like a fucking retard. Smoke some weed to calm your mind. Drinking only makes things worse

It's been 18 years since she left. It never gets any easier, you just don't think about it as often. Or you'll think about her every day, like I do.

>There’s better things to be doing than crying
More shit advice. Mommy tell u it's not ok to cry?
Every woman out there has cried thru a breakup. Prolly why they move on so easily

Sorry

I went wropn by caring so much. I listened to all of her problems and didn;t dare tell her any of my own.

this scaresme

thank you frens. i feel weak. i havent been sober in a long time. i don't even knwo what ill be liuke

Ur weird

I’m not saying I haven’t. I’m saying there’s better things to be doing. Don’t get it confused.

There isn't better things to be doing. Op needs to mourn the loss of the fucking relationship until there's no more mourning to do

have a wank

Haha. Nice

And I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with it either, just again there’s better things to be doing. I’ve cried over stuff other than girls, that’s the least of my worries in life. PTSD makes it pretty hard not to cry every few months. It’s mandatory like a release or some shit. But there’s better shit to be doing. I used to cry every other day and get flashbacks but then I realized that that wasn’t going to help me. I already cried more than enough times about the same thing, so there wasn’t any point. I’d already figured everything out, and there wasn’t a need to cry anymore. Flashbacks and stuff made it hard but in the end I made it through.

I fell like Ill nevene stop.

dick is ground beef at this stage lku

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yeah there literally isn't anything else to do OP. you need to let time slide. time will decide if you kill yourself because ur just a faggot who fell for XX chromosomes or a chad turned trap rapist global sensation.

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I'm right.
If that's weird, ok. Don't care. It's helping him.
>I went wropn by caring so much. I listened to all of her problems and didn;t dare tell her any of my own.
Exactly. Why would you just omit yourself out of the relationship like that? You deserve her attention just as she deserved yours. That wasn't an equal relationship at all. You were just her attention slave. When she got bored of you? Welp!

You have to reclaim your independence and self-worth. You need to find things you like and take enjoyment in them. Don't try to escape with drugs or partying or recklessness. That's not gonna do a thing but keep you stunted. You'll just end up like these pathetic fools here in Yas Forums. Trust me. They're just as lost as you, bro. We all are lost. But, some of us have some direction. I'm still figuring crap out, too. But, the progress I've made gives me enough confidence to tell you that you're better than being some selfish cunt's emotional slave.

You're not a catch, but you don't need to assume you're garbage, either. You can find someone worth your time, that'll appreciate you, but you have to appreciate yourself, first.

of course you can , you only to push through just for 1 day , then repeat until it becomes a routine and mechanical