Bar is open, come in and have a drink user

Sometimes I resent Yas Forums because w/o internet then the system would've broken a long time ago, but then I think of vidya and it seems like it could be worth it.

I'd like Dickles barrel select if you have it, if not a good Tennessee sour mash will do. Two finger please, straight.

Im under a lot of stress and I worked really hard so I just want my hard work to pay off

yep

All i want to do is help people and putting my own wellbeing on the bottom of my list. Is there something wrong with me?

I wish I wasn't such a pussy with some women. Some great shit could've been had if I wasn't so passive in my youth.

Don't we all.

Got any Paulaner or Furstenberg?

Man I need a good beer and an unwind

I'm calling the police. Bars are supposed to be closed right now.

Man look, young children don't know any better. They have a general gist of what's going on but they don't truly understand social situations. Children are the Leroy Jenkins of social interactions. I still get sad at the shit I said to my mother when I was younger. He teeth had been stained and I just happened to notice and comment. It really hurt her feelings and she tried to teach me empathy. Another time I thought she looked angry so I got scared and asked what was wrong. The sun was in her eyes.
Don't feel bad about it. We all have things we're all self-conscious about. We all get insecure. But trust me, people can get used to you. That's one of my problems. I grew up in a house where my mother was deaf, my sister was half-korean, and my father was very light skinned. My other sister was black. I'm black... Anyways, the point i'm trying to make is that I accept people a lot faster for who they are. It's their insecurities and my desire not to make them uncomfortable that makes me act awkward.

don’t think you alone in this fucked up world

Shut up and sit down and have a drink

>is there something wrong with me
there's something wrong with everyone. so i'll quote Reese Witherspoon and say "probably.."
But you should look after yourself with the same intensity that you want to look after someone else. Helping people is difficult because you don't know what's going on in their heads. But you know what's in your head. You can help and love yourself in the ways that you need. You should.

Fuck, i need a drink. Ok.
I recetnly became literally INCEL. Not that iam ugly or cannot score with chicks. But I got some autoimune disease that creates scars on my fucking foreskin. So in order to ever fuck again, I first need succesful expensive imunological treatment and then having my foreskin cut, and then start dating again a hope it helped.

Also, i had to shut down my bussiness (thanks corona), have no income, and government dont give a fuck about us.. probably homeless in few months if this shit does not stop.

That means, triple whiskey sir. Thanks.

It'll be 3 years with my girlfriend in 3 days. I love her dearly, but I just feel like I haven't fooled around enough in my life. I'm 22, and she's only the second girl I've been with. I don't want to lose her, she's a great person, friend and lover, but I also want to go out and put my dick in other holes. She wants to get married, but this has me on the fence (fear of putting myself in a tight spot in the future). What's your perspective, bartender?

I’ll drink to that cheers

Look man, those women aren't worth it. Take advice from a cheater, your girlfriend is the best pussy you could ever ask for.

Maaaaannn, fuck that noise. I could have fucked this Puerto Rican thick bootied woman a while ago. But I was nervous. I was nervous because I couldn't communicate with her. She didn't speak english. I already don't have "game". I can't talk a woman into fucking me but add a language barrier into that? It was a stressful situation for me. But i'm not the only one in the "relationship". If she wants to fuck she could have tried too. I did what felt right to me. I'm not going to pretend to be smooth. I will only stay true to myself and reap the consequences. If I don't then I'll always wonder what if. This way I can just be like "shit just didn't add up".

You need to listen to some Leykis 101. Will save you some pain.

I was exactly where you were, then I said "Fuck it I'll just cheat and see how it goes." Somehow, I'm still with the love of my life, but I wish every day I could go back to before I did it. The new/fresh pussy wasn't worth it

Honestly i find it easier to help others because i know I'm fucked up. I guess I'd rather fix other people's problems than try to deal with my own issues.

Wanna escape. Go off-grid and get away from it all. But I don't know enough to survive and thrive.

I would switch with you without hesitation. Iam 30 now, fucked about 15 girls, and it become harder and harder to ever fall in love again. I got colder and colder. I dotn want to settle with somebody I dont even love that much but i just get used to. But not much other options now. Value what you have you moron.

Just start with a small garden and a few chickens

try some escapism, and stay away from the news if you can, it's rough times out there

Never been a bartender but I'm quite experienced in giving out unwarranted advice. My advice is talk to your girlfriend and tell you want to fuck other women. Of course, communicate everything that comes along with that. If she's too judgmental and breaks up with you then you dodged a bullet. The one thing I've learned in relationships is that problems don't go away. If you get married your desire to fuck other women won't go away. You'll still want it but you won't want to hurt her. Then you'll cheat and lie and etc.
One of my 4 year long distance relationship truly ended because she didn't want to send nudes. Now I have an aversion to long distance relationships. Makes me think of cognitive dissonance towards my sexual desires and that's part of the reason I stopped being a christian. Masturbation.. if you didn't get that.
Cognitive dissonance means the state of having inconsistent thoughts, beliefs, or attitudes, especially as relating to behavioral decisions and attitude change.

Turning 53 soon .. nothing but shit has happened the last eight years, so contemplating getting my gun out of the safe and eat a bullet

You shouldn't run from yourself. You should realize that you need time to work on your issues. Nothing gets fixed overnight. This whole fucking instant result perspective is so toxic. We tackle things with intensity because we believe the harder we stress on it the faster things will get better. We work 40 hours or more a week because hard work means you're fit for survival. I'm getting on a tangent...
Uh, yeah. Self love is important. Understanding your weaknesses and where they come from and accepting yourself in spite of is a really good thing.

I wanna get shit face by the store won’t open till moring rip oh well beer it is that’s left

Oh, and a large Bushmills, please

Appreciate the straight shooting anons. It's definitely the hardest part about my relationship. The feeling of not being able to commit to someone who is so committed to me is really shitty. I can't look at myself in the mirror some days.

Why is the ice brown here? I ordered a gin & tonic. The ice shouldn’t be brown. Smells off too. The fuck OP?

My brother died at 23 or 24. In my neighborhood the life expectancy for our youths is 25 maybe 30. So I would say you've lived at least 2 lifetimes. I don't recommend suicide ever. But I would say maybe it's time you let go of the things that are stressing you? If you're ready to die then why not just change up your whole lifestyle? Hell, you've lived long enough. I think you earned it.

FUCK YOU ALL!
WHISKEY IS THE DEVILS URINE!

Looks like we fount a sociopath here...

i felt the same way. you'll regret leaving her.

Embrace today rather than putting off joy for hope of delayed gratification.

Why do you think I'm a sociopath? I assume it's a hyperbole.

To be honest I've been a real bastard in only 30 years and it's costed me my whole life. I guess I'd rather suffer to help others to atone for my mistakes and my sins but i know deep down I'm already damned.

Need a smoke

Where the fuck do you live?

hey i want some hard whiskey

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I’m guessing Detroit city

I’m pissed lag bots are destroying all of tf2 servers

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I miss her Yas Forumsro's ..

I grew up in Crenshaw. Among other unsavory places you don't know about.

It's great to help others but you have to love yourself too. I appreciate you wanting to help others. Just know that you matter too.

Im outta booze, im outta weed, im about to be out of smokes, and im stuck in a stay at home order.

im tired.

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Fuck me I’m waiting till the store opens

Kinda hard to love yourself when you were an opiod addict, an alcoholic, a liar, and a cheater. At least helping others helps keep me from remembering I'm a piece of shit

Obviously, Iam user from the internet diagnosing you base on one post with no extra information. The chance of being wrong is big. BUT:

>Tell your gf you want to fuck another girls and if she is judgamental about it, shes the problem.

That is exactly the line of thinking typical to actuall sociopaths. And if iam correct, you wont even think about possibility that it might be true, but just call it bullshit and start finding issues with me or just ignore me. Dont know why i bother then. I had quite a lot to do with similar types in recent years, and that post is full of other small red flags too.

Only 5 hours till the store opens

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I'm recovering from a breakup (quite well) I'm fine alone somehow it's better not to have anyone around right now. I'm finishing the reconstruction of the apartment. And I try to put my stuff in my life in order before I start looking for someone again.

And the only negative thing is an unnecessary loan that I had to take because of my ex. She wanted to pay the money invested in our shared housing for two years. With regard to the future development of the economy I'm a little worried.

I'm home for the second week, combination of 60% salary and days off. At least I have time to work on housing.

ast week my ex-wife wrote me that she is sorry for everything and would like to talk over the coffee somewhere. Obviously, she had failed to pursue a career in one big company and now she's moving back from the big city after a few months here...

Fortunately all facilities are closed because of government orders. So technically Corona virus protects you from making a big mistake...

I recently met seemingly decent twink online, with which I could imagine the passage of my gay-curiosity. Unfortunately, it turned out to be an anxious freak full of phobias on xanax with mental problems...

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No? That's a lot of jumping to conclusions there. You could have just asked me why I said that. I wouldn't say that she's the problem for not wanting him to have sex with other women. I would say that if their sexual desires don't line up and she doesn't feel comfortable enough talking about it and shuts him down for it then the relationship probably isn't the best. No relationship is perfect. Fucking other women is taboo. I understand the context of everything. I just think you should know the sexual desires of your spouse. At least this way he gives her the information before they're married for 30+ years and he cheats.

So I 've been with this girl for 3 years, she went to another country then we kinda went cold in ways, she wanted to break it off cause we're far apart. She ghosted me then posted pics of different guys on socials. Recently she's been getting in touch, like she wanted to make a comeback or something. She said it was all fake love and I was the one she loves. This spetember we're gonna see each other again. What to do? I'm kinda down in the dumps

Continue?

Fuck her I won’t want the birch back

I’ll take a bourbon on a go cup so I can get away from here before the police shut you down

It is definitely hard to love yourself after being addicted to substances. The things you do to get your fix and the lies you tell are hard to stomach. But you have to understand why you did the things you did. You have to embrace your wrongdoings. You have to realize that you're either not that person anymore or that you want to change. Understand who you are right now and gradually try to do better. We all make mistakes.

Ok, that sounds reasonable. Sort of.

Yeah but I can't seem to get over her, she's been sending cute pictures saying that she loves me.