Guys... did I fuck up?

Guys... did I fuck up?
>with gf for 3 years and it was mostly amazing
>we have our typical relationship fights
>she turns into CIA agent going through everything on my phone finding shit I didn't even know about
>finds pics of my ex gfs I had forgotten about
>next few months are met with "why are you cheating" "you're always checking other girls out"
>never did either of those things but she doesn't believe me
>hear her yell for months telling me to "just fucking leave. Just go"
>tired of hearing it so I leave and it has been 1.5 years today that I left her
>constantly blows me up telling me that she fucked up and wants me back

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Either get back with her or give her one hell of a last fuck then move on

>tell her no because I need to work on myself so I can make her happy
>she wants me to come over
>go through each others phone and find that she agreed to go with some random guy to casino over the weekend
>also find that he had been sending dick pics
>she gets lonely and goes to my bestfriend while they lie to me about it
>find out she had been hanging out with him getting drunk and staying the night there
>both drunk and sleep in the same bed but she claimed nothing happened
>"bestfriend" won't talk to me
>me and ex still talk and I am falling back in love

Did I fuck up by continuing to message her? Am I wrong to accuse her of lying to me about them supposedly not hooking up?

i think you made a p good decision. sounds absolutely crazy, i think any reasonable person could understand someone forgetting to delete old ass pics of an ex. and any reasonable person wouldn't say shit like "why are you cheating" and "you're always checking other girls out" i guess it wouldnt hurt to go back and see if she actually changed herself (i mean 3 years is a long ass time, hope ur ok) but i wouldnt blame you for just wanting to stay away.

She's fucking you friend. She misses the stability you brought her, but she's certifiably insane. Tell her you'll come back if she changes to be what you want. Fuck her a few times, tell her nothing has changed and bounce.

lmao wtf is this actually OP? ghost this bitch and your best friend if this isn't bait. these are shitty people that you should not involve yourself with. if you and your ex still talk, what is stopping you two from getting back together? what broke you guys up?

Yeah, first of all, how old are you?
Also, she sounds really suspicious to me (Oldfag here that's been with crazies AND goodies)- in my experience, when a girl's acting that suspicious & crazy, it's either because she IS crazy, or she 'projecting' shit onto you because She cheated

If you're happier with her then you should be together!

Yes this is op. I am stopping us from getting back together because I dont think I can trust her anymore. If she will loe to me about hanging out with him of course she'd lie to me about fucking him. She swears on everything that she didnt touch him and he didn't touch her. But I know how she is when shes drunk. She gets absolutely cock hungry

"I dated a psycho and dodged a bullet. Now she's a whore and I want her back. I'm OP ama" shut up weak bait fag

she fucked him. he is not your friend. your relationshipt wont get better after this clusterfuck. she is insecure and always will. been there done that.

I am 24 I'll be 25 next month. She is currently 22. See I feel like shes being suspicious too.

Ain't no bait faggot. Just because you're a failure to society and will end up a depressed lonely old man and die alone, doesn't mean everyone on this site will too.

>she turns into CIA agent going through everything on my phone finding shit I didn't even know about
>next few months are met with "why are you cheating" "you're always checking other girls out"
dump her, find another one.
/thread

I just want her to tell me so I have 100% confirmation but since you're pretty much telling me what I already thought that's what I'll do. I just need to drop her.
This was her

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Heard loud and clear. Thank you

>Did I fuck up by continuing to message her?
yes
>Am I wrong to accuse her of lying to me about them supposedly not hooking up?
no

You can only take it as a compliment that she sees that much potential in you.

This is how this site used to be. A place you could actually come to for legit advice. Now it has become a monstrosity but I am happy for the people who act like oldfags still. Thanks guys. For real.

idk the board is called 'random' i think its fair to expect anything and everything, but ya good luck dude

She was a virgin before me and in our 3 years we did a lot of experiments. I took her virginity twice. Front door and back door. Once she knew how dick felt she wanted it all the time and my sex drive was crazy at the time so whenever and wherever she wanted it, she had it. I think that's where I fucked up too. I gave it to her too much.

I am remembering a time from 10 years ago when I was 14 and things on here were actually pretty interesting most of the time. There was the start of kek and then zozzle tried taking over. Kek was victorious though.

she never tell and even if, she will never feel truely sorry. I can give you all the good advices but you have to realize it by yourself. sooner or later you will. I dated a psycho and a cheating whore, took me a while to realize it. also cut that friend out of your life. someone who risks 5 minutes of fun for a friendship is worthless.

if you are interested in a good laugh:
>date a cheater
>always drama, fights atleast every 2-3 days
>always suspects me on cheating on her
>we split
>she fucks one of my "friends" where it was not even clear that we are separated
>then suddenly she wants to get back
>get suspicious and hack her messenger
>she cheated from the start and was always projecting
>tried to guild trip me
>at some point stops to eat
>calls me constantly and tells how miserable she feels
>at some point I feel bad and worthless, but because of other reasons
>no sympathy from the whore, realize, she was never sorry, only attention seeking
>at some point finally cut her off from my life

You're a fucking moron. Stop all contact, erase her number and your "friends'" number. Never look back. All you faggots who keep talking to exes and get sucked back into their abuse cycle deserve what you get. Smarten the fuck up man.

shut the fuck up dyel faggot white nigger kys

She cheated in you. In order to cope with the guilt she wanted to prove youre just as bad.

Never take her back.

Here's a situation I was in a few years back, hope it helps
>be me
>dating someone from my friend group
>have huge fight
>she says we should take a break
>we take a break
>cute girl at copy store
>wegonnasmash.jpg
>wind up sleeping with her
>she tells her co-worker
>co-worker tells gf
>gf gets super mad and we get into it
>tell her we were on a break

You're absolutely right man. I need to smarten the fuck up. I have been depressed and in regret this whole year and a half but I'm tired of it. I need to get back out there and move on already

Oh my lord you guys look exactly like how I thought you would. God bless.

This sounds familiar. Was it in your F.R.I.E.N.D.S. group?

Yeah just work on yourself homey. It's rough living with yourself after dating for so long but it's completely worth it man.
Sometimes I'll just spend a weekend completely by myself taking shrooms. Really helps you reset

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Holy shit that's midwest as fuck. Mind if I ask which state you live in?

Fucking kek. Exactly what I was imagining while reading that comment. Thank you

Block her number and move on. If you didn't cheat but someone repeatedly accuses you of it you're better off without them.

I will tell you but I want you to guess which state. Guess right or wrong I'll still tell you

Well I've seen honestly seen that sweatshirt a lot around where I live.
Iowa
Wisconsin
Illinois

Or you're a little more south east usa, give me some hints if I'm close

Honestly seen*

You can't fix her insecurity. This will ALWAYS be an issue. It's toxic (even if I hate using that word these days). You did well ending it.

I'm from Texas.

Shoulda fucking guessed. God bless user. If you need dating tips I got em

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Just cut all ties with this chick, she’s trouble, and will always be it. Keep exes as exes not friends.

Appreciated but not necessary. I need to find my confidence again. I have been in such a reclusive state I find it difficult to maintain a conversation in person anymore so that makes it difficult to talk to girls.

Oops you got cucked. Never trust a friend lol.

Good luck man!

Thank you. Have a great day man.

that kind of girls doenst get you anything good, even the others things she had to give you

This. If she's insecure enough to pull this shit once she'll do it again. Best to just move on.

SHE is cheating on you.

Such betrayal cannot be forgiven. You know what must be done. She must become a part of you. She'll make a fine roast.

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>This was her
Good use of the past tense. Good for you.

So... I need to cook and eat her?

It has been hard. This past year has been the worst year of my life. But I think this is a new start. Things have to get worse before they get better and this is the low. It can only get better from here.

>gave it to her too much
That's bullshit. The total amount of sex isn't at all the same thing as wanting it from more than one person.
Young people always feel like they can do better. The more emotionally mature ones might think that, but also realize that it's depth of relationship, not to perfect person to have that with, that really matter. tl;dr Don't get serious with most people before they're 27.

she's toxic, "bestfriend" too, let go off them, cut contact with her and him, it'll be better for your sanity and your life. gonna hurt on shortterm, but worth it on longterm, don't waste your life on her, she accused you of cheating on her whilst doing it to you, at this point she's just manipulating you.

Give her the boot, OP. I can guarantee that getting back with her after this is a bad move. True love perseveres. It's likely that she felt guilty about wanting to cheat, so tried to find dirt on your phone to justify the breakup, only to go on and fuck other guys including most likely your best friend, and then try to get back with you.

It's just not worth it, Yas Forumsro.

Look at her picture. Once she is a part of you, she will be forever, and the deed is done!

Damn you're hot. More?

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nope, she's just a psycho.
you'll never have a peaceful life with her like,

try again and find someone who knows how to respect you.

fuuuuck. hot body. Bet you're packing down lower too. She's missing out