I really have no idea why i'm asking Yas Forums for serious advice...

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>you come to Yas Forums for advice, obviously.

Yas Forums has saved me thousands on therapy bills and hundreds on porn.

i have a neighbor who's wife left him. he blew up her phone 20x a day for two weeks. she blocked him.
be prepared to move on. you can try and talk about it and maybe work on it but don't be that guy that looks desperate and pathetic.

>find a younger 2nd wife.
your fucking retarded. you don't "find" a wife. it either happens or it doesn't. if you're explicitly looking for a wife, your gonna get fucked.and not in the good way.

ikr? I wish i had found this place sooner.

divorce and then find some whores to fuck

Hide assets, gather dirt on her. Don’t use it unless it’s absolutely necessary. Use a divorce mediator, far cheaper than litigation

Im going to give you some advice.
Leave with your dignity. (Easier said then done). Do not beg or barter. And for gods sake dont forgive any infidelity.
It isnt easy. And my advice comes from years after my divorce.
However, if you are pennyless and broke . The one thing they cannot take from you is your ability to be a man. And lift your head up. Dont become a cuck. Women are psychopaths by nature.
Like I said. Leave with your dignity

Cum in her conditioner bottle.

Thank GOD you got a way out. Start realizing there are thousands of young beautiful woman around the world that would love to fuck you regardless of your looks. Like Latins? Columbia, Venezuela, Costa Rica, Dominican Republic. Like Asians? Thai Land, Philippines, Cambodia, Vietnam. Want white women? Ukraine, Belarus, Romania.

Trust me, you are in a much better place. Learn your value, it's low in US but high around the world. Travel, learn, fuck beautiful young women! Welcome to your future!

lol I came on in my ex's shoes that she would wear with no socks and inside some of her sweaters. Oh, and on her tooth brush.

My gods, I'd be so relieved.
We'd work out a divorce.

this.
go be like this guy,
youtube.com/watch?v=T4zCtDMlTns

Try to talk about it? If you're a religious, you know whats the deal. Marriage is something that IDEALLY should be unbroken. Even if you have a divorce, you'll be linked by something.

If you arent religious, I guess it goes the same. Talk about it.

Move on, or dwell in suffering, probably

Try to get her to try an open relationship. Set up cameras around the house, catch her fucking other dudes, get a divorce claiming she cheated.

This guy gets it. They have no qualms about destroying your life if they feel even slightly wronged. My ex had me thrown in jail and moved out of state with my son.

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>Hide all your assets. Wait a year and a day, file divorce papers.
divorcefag here. this is very good advice. in fact, there's a lot of good advice ITT. any assets you try to move immediately prior to filing will be discovered and the judge will see you as being a dirtbag and give her everything. if you do it a year before, you're in pretty good shape. better yet, pay an attorney for an hour to discuss this and make your plans.

honestly, dont dick around waiting for her to "come around." leave now. pack your shit, stay at a cheap motel, start the fuck over

I guess the question for starters is, do you still love her?

My first advice, at any rate, is not to panic. I went through something similar with my wife. We're going stronger than ever now, for however much 6 years of marriage is worth.

The correct advice depends on who she is, and who you are. What do you want? What kind of person is she?

For instance, my wife would honor her vows and stay in an unhappy marriage unless I broke my vows to her (cheated, violence, abandonment, etc). Near as I can tell this doesn't exist as much outside of traditional communities, but it is a thing. If its a thing for you, then its much more likely this is salvageable.

If you're a modern couple, then you're probably hedonist utilitarians who hold nothing above their own happiness, and there's probably not much you can do to save this- in which case I suppose weaponizing the divorce tactically (buying time if necessary) and fucking off to Thailand is your best bet.

Game theoretically, the correct answer to defection is defection. If you can't restore cooperative equilibrium, then I'd argue you have a moral duty to defect. Because if this works out too well for her, she'll just do it again to someone else. It needs to be mutually costly, not just you forfeiting everything for her convenience.

I despise hedonic utilitarian society. But game theoretically, there is a correct answer in how to respond.

got any rough sex fantasies? perfect time to try em. best case, she digs it, it helps you, worst case, relationship ends anyway

establish some ground rules:
She doesn't love you. Will she still fuck you?
Divorce can be expensive, so maybe live together as FWB or Roommates with Benefits
Establish Open relationship rules
If she's already cheating, ignore all this advice and divorce her. Also, tell her to get the fuck out of your house. Find somewhere else to live during the coronavirus problem

Do you have kids?

If you have kids, just fuck other women on the side until the kids are grown.

If you don’t, slowly start putting all of your possessions in your parents’ name & if things don’t get better over the next few months divorce her.

How does this happen?

divorce or move on and get a hobby

You ask your wife why she doesn’t value her word, or her declaration to you of love and devotion through good AND bad.

Nigga this, I won't marry anyone without a prenup

How long were you together before you got married?

When my my told me that, I found out after the divorce she was fucking another guy at the time.

Good luck finding a woman who won’t be insulted by offering a prenup. Unless your fiancé makes a lot more money than you do that conversation doesn’t go over well with any woman.

The only women who would even consider this are ones that have already been divorced & have seen how messy it can get. Also, a prenup doesn’t mean you are going to just going to keep absolutely everything, no one in their right mind would agree to that. You have to have some sort of concessions in it so the other party doesn’t get totally fucked.

Find out if the marriage is worth salvaging for both of you.

Find out what caused the love to fizzle out, and re-ignite it.

If it cannot be repaired, then you need to make arrangements and move the fuck on. This is going to be hard and shitty, but you'll get through it.

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See a lawyer first and start hiding assets aswell as getting the divorce first

So my dad is a piece of shit so he didn't give me any advice or anything prior to my wedding, but I often think about what my uncle told my cousin prior to his wedding. He said that you are going to fall in and out of love for the rest of your lives, but marriage is the commitment not to give up on each other, forever. That has always stuck with me, and I am happy to report that 13 years in, we are still in love. Don't get me wrong, there are YEARS that I couldn't stand her, and those years I bet she hated me for cheating. But we are so happy now and we wouldn't have been if we'd have given up.

your wife can say anything, it doesn't necessarily mean it's true. Often the relationship cools a little and she loses that "flame". But, that doesn't mean that love is over. Only that the relationship is not as intense as it was before. STAY IN YOUR LANE, don't run after her, but talk to her little by little about other subjects, little by little get back in touch and with time everything will be resolved. Passion ends, love does not.
Win her love every day. STOP seeing her as your friend, and see her as your wife. DO NOT lose your composure, stay calm, in control, and don't let anything affect you. Don't fight, don't chase, just talk. She will come back to you, but if you are too insistent (calling several times, asking the reason several times) you will only take her away from you. If you love her, go after her in a smart way, not a desperate way.

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You could always bring another woman into the bedroom. She may say yes because she thinks she doesn't love you, but seeing your balls bouncing against another woman's butthole tends to be enough for a woman to decide how she feels about you. She may be super jealous and confirm that she loves you, or she could be indifferent, in which case it might be best to split

Quit being a pussy and man up. She doesn’t love you because she doesn’t respect you. Get her respect back by being a man. Masculinity is attractive to women, no matter what they say. No woman wants a beta. Sack up, and show her the man you used to be. She’ll come around

She's cheating user.

This

"Go into this commitment im really not ready to make ok?"

People who plan for their marriage to end are the people who have devorces.

Marriage is work. She isnt your lover shes ypur buisness partner in life you occsionally fuck.

Either work with your partner or terminate the buisness.

Nah

Is this a question? Murder suicide.

Divorce karen and make sure she gets nothing she didn’t work for

Cough in her face

introduce her to anal sex, then dump her for a younger gal.

Get a new one, sounds like your one is broken anyway and repairs don't stand up to the price.

See buddy, sex you will get anywhere.
All that you wanted from your wife is love. And if she doesn't like you then what's the point of staying with a person who for starters doesn't even like you. I say take a divorce and get someone who can like you for who you are. I know it's hard to accept this but that's the best thing for can do for yourself.

Strangle her, dump the body in a dumpster. It’s all perfectly legal if you’re married

This is why you never marry, bitches are fickle and will shit all over you. if you must invest emotionally in them, at least dont marry them. They will destroy you.

Candidly fuck her up the ass

>Stop wearing the cuckring
>Purposely become an unattentive absent husband
>purposely and dutifully be unsupportive except for bare basics
>do not love, do not sex, do not coddle
>support kids (if any) with all the love you have left

What we are going for here is an emotionless husk of a husband who is still faithful to the marriage but a completely shit husband. This will drive the self centered bitch to do one of two things, divorce you or cheat... which will play out much better in court when the judge decides who gets what. Also the kids will resent her and not you for why their parents split when the true story comes out.

Use her uncaring as fuel to play the long game. play your cards right and you'll come out on top

godspeed OP

Go get laid.