Come in and have a drink user

Mostly my close friends and random women off tinder.

Holding them at Bay will increase the mess. One of my favorite Tibetan proverbs:

"When Anger comes to visit, allow him inside your home - but do not serve him tea."

What I understand from this is that we should feel each and every emotion, but we should not seek to become the emotion - to befriend it, to latch on. Anger must visit, and leave - not dwell. Same goes for all emotion

If you can't make a fool out of yourself to your friends then when can you? Also don't worry so much. I'm sure they're not obsessing over your actions like you are. They're likely obsessing over their own actions.

Am I secretly Tibetian? I feel like the more I learn about them the more I agree with them. Well besides that vehicle thing.

I made a rule recently, if I want someone to respect me I do not contact them while drunk. I let off the steam by totally making a fool of myself to people who aren't on that list.

Remember what Batman says. It's not who you are underneath, but what you DO that defines you.

Placing all of our happiness in the hands of others will always end this way, user. You feel empty because you gave her the power to make you whole. Only you can make yourself whole.

we are more than the sum of our actions

Yeah my friends usually don’t mind. And thanks what you said actually made me feel better.

is weed really that bad for you long term? I smoke it for crohn's disease and i've been smoking daily for 3 years and I dont really plan to stop. ive read stories of people saying it fucks with your dopamine and you end up slowly losing interest in everything and kinda just becoming a shell, and getting off weed reopened them. i feel like i can already see this happening, but i also feel like i can just push through and rigorously realize what motivates me and pushes me to do shit? i think its pretty retarded to say "weed ruined my life" when clearly your attitude has an effect, no? im curious because i cant stop smoking weed because crohns, and i dont wanna end up becoming a useless stoner-fag. any long-term weed smokers wanna chime in?

Not to anyone but us, friend.