My girlfriend of a year just revealed she was dating someone for like the last 5 months, dumped me, and continued dating them, my arm now has a few extra cuts, and I'm drinking again. Please Yas Forums make me laugh. Please. Or just talk to me, one of yall.
Fuck it, YLYL thread.
- For reference, 18 M, she's 18F, he's 17 M. It was a semi long distance relationship for both (he's not allowed to leave the state coz care system, and nor is she til she's 19), and they haven't met irl, so it's nothing cucky. -
Sucks but idk if b is the best place to pander for people to make you feel better. I feel for you but i dont know if alot of people will here. A bitch aint worth it, live life for you, become successful, and then YOU can choose who is right. Use that pain youre feeling and make it goe towards something worthwhile. Dont wallow, adapt my friend.
Ayden Peterson
First, stop browsing this site. Your immediate shame of cuckery is a sign of a fragile ego caused by 2 much Yas Forums. You don’t need any more bad shit flowing into your head
Now, nothing else to do, except get over it. Life’s tough. Relationships are tough. You gotta be tougher
Sebastian Bell
>long distance relationship >cutting yourself like a faggot >butthurt over a grill
>Other guy lives far away >haven't met irl yet >Likely unable to meet for a while
Do not take her back when she inevitably comes crawling back. In the grand scheme of things, nothing really happened, they're just cyber pen pals at this point. She'll realize this, or miss you, or find out he's not as good as you, happens all the time. Don't let her back into your life.
Drop the bottle and hit the gym, you're young so you'll make good gains. She's not the last girl you'll date/fuck so don't even give her much thought anymore. Not worth it.
Noah Young
I do, man. I go out for like hours of walking simply coz of how toxic everywhere is. She was one of the few non-toxic ppl in my life. I helped her get over drugs and alcoholism and a misdiagnosis that she had for 3 months that only gave her like 0.5-1 year to live. And she had this other person on the side. Like half the relationship is a lie, it seems.
Thomas Bailey
Fuck, man, I'm also in a different state to her - and him - not very far but coz of work we havent been able to move in together.
Bentley Peterson
ur 18 stop cutting urself retard
Carson Clark
I've been cutting for years man. Stopped because she convinced me not to.
Thomas Brooks
Been there before man, dated a chick who basically just got distant so i tried to win her back by getting her a bunch of gifts and did a whole bunch of stuff for her and then a friend of mine showed me her facebook with pictures of her and some midget mexican...
This I feel you OP, I had a relationship of 3 years rekt by some bitch who I thought would be the one, then I was redpilled by her obsessive behaviour over vapid and jovial interests like k-pop with hypernormie happenings. She was also cheating on me, got mad since I didn't apologise for not giving her enough attention so that she wouldn't have cheated in the first place. Didn't apologise since I had no shame of being in the right, and if she cheated it was her shitty values that made her do so. 18M too, work out and don't be ashamed of your cuts. It happens, and you have to accept that what you're going through is the worst moment of your life, you can never run away from it, even in the future. Stare your insecurities in the face and tell it to fuck off and leave, know that you can always be better than what you are now, know that you can always improve.
Not yet, I've got people who depend on me kinda. Gotta help em out or make em hate me first my guy
Anthony Harris
Keep cutting until you see the other side
Nicholas Edwards
Never gonna see the other side of your mother's rolls
Benjamin Taylor
>18 >already started drinking, stopped and started again >cutting >over a girl youre a dumbass emo bitch move on
Oliver Scott
Dude its impossible you genuinely did all those things over long distance she was just playing along cos she liked the attention, long distance relationships arent real relationships Dont fut yourself over someone you where basically just role playing with and you need to work on seperating the online world with real life
Gavin Butler
So she left you for someone shes never met? Sounds like you where never actually with her in the first place. Sounds like you have a tenuous grip on reality man
Carson Parker
Bruh. Take a deep breath, and realize that this is nothing in the grand scheme of things.
There will be: more opportunities, more women, money, etc. Nothing in this life is worth causing self harm.
Take this as an opportunity to better yourself, and meet other people that will not cheat on you :)
Noah Smith
dox her, we'll take care of the rest
Jonathan Cook
Sounds like it was just an excuse you cant leave someone for someone you have never met . I think this guy just convinced himself she was his gf and she played along with it cos she liked the attention then when she felt bad she tried to get away from him by making him angry at her cos she didnt want to keep stringing this retarded guy along
Jeremiah Johnson
Kill yourself
Dominic Reyes
What are you, a faggot?
Connor Diaz
Faggot
Ryder Gutierrez
She asked me out She catches feelings fast
Ethan White
Fuck that bitch, man You're way too good for her I know it hurts, but this won't last forever, i swear
Dude what are you 12? A relationship dosent start when someone asks you out a relationship starts when you form a solid stable bond with someone after getting to know them and falling in love. Is this like the first girl you have had anything like this with or something and are you autistic (not an insult, im autistic. It just seems like you are having trouble understanding how human interaction usually works)
Connor Kelly
It sounds like she just wanted attention and was stringing you along. She probably does this to multiple naive gullable guys constantly. and when she started to realise she had actually got attached to her she freaked out and told you this to make you hate her because she didnt want to admit she was just stringing you along. Did you even sleep with her? Your understanding of how relationships work sounds like that of a virgin. Im sorry this happened to you and hope u feel better soon but also this is a learning expirence and u need to learn to not get attached to someone untill you form a stable bond, get to know each other very Well and have good communication with them.
Dude you didnt have a stable bond if she started talking to another guy just a few months after you met, I dont consider a relationship a possibility untill I have been sleeping with and getting to know a girl for at least 4 or 5 months. I dont think this girl was actually your girlfreind I think she was stringing you along. And im trying to help you avoid having that happen to you again
Aiden Bell
Is it legal or ethical to rape a chicken? Because I've already raped about a dozen and I need to know if I should be worried about the jewish negroid squad breaking down my door and shoving their cocks in my dog using it as a condom while they fuck my chicken fuckin asshole. Also Squidward is a gay nigger.
Jack Baker
Sounds like your first maturing experience, I'm proud of you kid. Don't expect anything good to come from this site, or that you'll get affirmation to keep pursuing her here, but definitely take in the advice because some of us retards actually do have wisdom. That's for you to filter through and find what works though. Keep your heart guarded and learn to let go and move on when it comes to relationships, especially romantic ones.
Kayden Cox
Like you cant just meet someone and decide to have a relationship you have to take it slowly and see if you are right for each other, this girl was obviously just wanting attention and had no feelings for you. Something you would of been able to see if you had not been so naive. You should talk to some older freinds or your family about how to avoid shitty situations like this one and about how to find suitable partners and form long lasting healthy relationships
Jacob Collins
I can confirm a stable bond is made once you roofie her and chain her up to the radiator in your basement. It's true love. The screams are the best part! That's how you know she's happy and loves you.
Parker Walker
They're lying op don't listen to them. There is only one solution. The final solution. Go out and find Ben Shapiros sister Abigail and fart a big ol chocolate zyclon b gas cloud into her mouth!
Landon Young
Fuck you beta faggot hope you die soon
Isaac Brooks
OP HERE AND I JUST WANT TO SAY IM A GAY FAGGOT WHO RAPED 5 LITTLE BOY BUTTS BECAUSE IM SO FUCKING GAYYYYYY. I BELIEVE RAPE SHOULD BE LEGAL AND THE AGE OF CONSENT BE LOWERED TO 1. LOVE IS LOVE BIGOT
Juan Martin
Hey, man, the other guy - who didnt know I existed either til yesterday - is still fuckin dating her. Pretty sure that's worse
Jaxson Thomas
Gottem
Charles Williams
Hey op is it true you want to fuck little boy assholes? And you want the age of consent to be lowered to 1 years old?
Levi Price
Lmao cutting yourself over a bitch when you’re 18 hahahahaha literally no one prepared you for life in any way did they you complete fucking waste of life. I swear if my kids this much of a pussy I will literally fucking throw them off a cliff like the Spartans
Jason Edwards
What do you fuckin think? I mean, 1 is pretty high tho
Lincoln Smith
then try to find boyfrend now
Kevin Wilson
Ah yes you do fuck little boy butts and I bet you make them pee pee on eggs so you can suck on them. What a faggot.
Luis Turner
Show your dick or gtfo
Dylan Wright
Sorry user-kun you're just too much of a faggot for me to date you. Sorry.
I broke it off the second I found out, she hasnt met them irl yet. Only cucky thing is the other guy who found out at the same time as me who stayed with her because even tho he was being cheated on, it "made her happy" so it was ok. Honestly kinda feel bad for him.
Juan Nguyen
sounds shitty, but at the end of the day you're 18, you're so early into your life it's laughable, just brush it off and keep on running
"Bitches ain't shit." They really aren't. Try to understand how deep this saying really is and move along. Listen to good music, vibe the days away, don't give her anything, just fully block her, and don't look back.
Sebastian James
Such a slutty ass
Evan Martin
She probably lost her virginity to long before you. And even if you did she still left your ass. She's probably sucking and fucking dozens of guys now
