Late night advice thread because there are too many porn threads on Yas Forums

I'm enjoy military and medieval stuff, cooking and baking is also my thing.

I usually don't visit Yas Forums, but you Yas Forumsros aren't that bad, so I'll dump my feels here.
I was actively getting bettter at talking with and hanging out with people outside of my college during the semester. I'd joined a club, made friends with people at my church, even met a circa 2010 former Yas Forumstard IRL.
But this darn quarantine has gotten me down in the dumps, stuck at home with nobody but my family and myself. Last time I was at home alone for this long without anything to do I actively fell into a depressive spiral and nearly had a suicidal episode. Any ideas on how to keep myself sane?

Continue being social. Maybe call some friends you made (I am sure they are bored too). Also discord is always a good option to talk to people. Key is to keep being social in some form if it makes you happy

So of the popular anime, I would check out Code Geass. It is sci fi and giant robot themed on the surface but it is really a thriller that has military and political vibes to it.

I recommend that because it is a pretty easy watch. On the weirder side of things you have Girls Und Panzer which is about cute anime girls doing very detailed battles in tanks that are historically accurate. On the cooking side you have Shokugeki no Souma which is like a weird mix of cooking contests, drama, and porn

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Will check out, thanks for the help

I also tend to do this thing with her where I'll type out a message and sit on it for too long thinking of what their responses could be

Then either writing something different and repeat, or force myself to send it by counting down from 3

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Yeah this just sounds like relationship nerves. I take it you haven't had a girlfriend ever (or at least not a serious one)?

You pretty much just need to type whatever comes to mind first and send it unless it is super cringe.

One of my social experiments was with a girl and I just sent her the first messages that came to my head. We ended up going on a few dates and agreed that we were not each other's type so we shared our true thoughts on the lead up experience. Turns out that she didn't give two shits what I texted. She more cared about when I texted her and the themes of the texts

it's super obvious, but yeah been about 13 years and even then it was only for a couple months before they had to move

I'm not exactly talking to women very often, or at all

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Do you want to? Seriously the only way to learn how to get better at it is to actually talk to them.

I think a nice easy way to frame it to yourself is find some girls and talk to them knowing that they are your "tests". Try different things and see how it goes. Learn from your mistakes

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Yeah I want to, when I was in a relationship it was great and that's what I'd like

but I don't even know where to find em with similar interests or whatever

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I'm going into collage next year, and I can't decide if I want to go into computer hardware or software, or even a third option, If I keep thinking too long I'll get analysis paralysis and choose neither, keeping myself stuck in my grocery store job.
wat do?

Interests are overrated. The chances of finding someone exactly like you are slim to none. That is what causes you to go into depression and loneliness. You have a much better chance at finding someone who is not the exact same as you but loves you for who you are and accepts your differences so you can grow together

Instead of looking at which one you like more, go based off of which ones you hate less. Look at the projected course path and ask yourself if there are certain courses you are going to abolstuely hate. Don't do the one with the most courses you dislike. If all else fails, pick the one that makes the most money on average. Contrary to popular belief, money does buy happiness.

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>Contrary to popular belief, money does buy happiness
Unfortunately? Fortunately? either one really, I'm aware of this. I'll take a look at the course loads again, thanks.
One more thing, I've had a lack of desire to find relationships. My parents and extended family have been pushing me to find one (girlfriend) but I just have no interest in getting myself into one. Mostly because the relationships I've seen myself are anywhere from distaste at best to abusive at worst. Am I wrong for not wanting to get myself into a relationship now, if ever?

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I still don't really know where you find most single girls even to just talk to if not looking for a relationship

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>spent over $100 on her

if this is something that matters to you in this situation then kill yourself

You remind me a lot of my younger self user.

I grew up around awful relationships my entire life and my home life was pretty abusive. I still don't really feel emotions correctly and most people say I am rather "distant".

I ended up getting in my first long term relationship 3 years ago to see if I was just being stupid for not wanting one. Wanted to get it in before 30 because I felt like all the "good" women would be gone by then.

Long story short, I met a girl that I could tolerate well enough and we have been dating for 3 years and lived together for 2 of them. I wouldn't say its anything particularly life changing but it is kind of nice coming home to someone everyday and having someone that is in love with you.

I will caution you though, if you were as broken as me, a normal relationship may not be possible. I am still not able to really connect with her even after 3 years. I think she knows too because she will occasionally drop things like, "I can tell you don't actually love me" . However, I provide for her and we never fight so I think she is wiling to accept a one sided love from her end.

I am thinking about breaking up with her soon but I haven't made up my mind. I guess in the back of my head there is still a thought that there might be "true love" out there for me and I just need to look harder. Another part of me says I am throwing away a situation most people would kill for. Who knows

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Literally thousands on dating apps. I dunno how old you are though

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30, and I wanted to avoid dating apps cause I'm not exactly super attractive and it feels like ya have to be to get anywhere on those, but nowadays that might just be the only option

and there is more about the previous girl I started this thread with but I'll wait until you reply to the above before I go into it

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Sadly I have to go to bed now because I have work in like 3 hours. I would just go on dating apps as that is where everyone is these days. Just don't try to pick up girls on it. Talk to them like normal people and try to get them to get food or drinks with you. The app is so much better when you are not just trying to get your dick wet. That will come in due time if you just don't seem like a complete weirdo

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>You remind me a lot of my younger self user.
I'm sad to hear this, but less lonely, what a trade-off huh?
I'm still undecided. thanks for talking. I'll be saving the replys, if that says anything, thanks.

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Alrighty, thank ya for the talk

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Good night everyone who joined! It was a great talk. Just look for the snake poster and feel free to join in the future

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I’m in freshman year of high school and i’ve never even kissed a girl. I’ve had one relationship (fake AF) in my life and I’m worried I’m gonna end up an incel like some of you guys. It stems from me not wanting to or not being able to flirt with girls, there’s one girl in my class who knows i like her and is kinda into it, but we’ve never talked, not once, sadly I can’t find a reason to talk to her. It’s a programming class and she sits far from me. So Yas Forums what do? How should i talk to women more and what should i use as a reason to talk to this girl?

Learning to squat in a random home. Will I get arrested?

underage

Good observation

Cunt

Odds - fap
Evens - go to sleep

1 reroll only

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Bump

let me reroll for you

It was a bump not a roll, kek

WHY DO I KEEP SLEEPING LATE EVERY NIGHT I CAN'T CONTROL MYSELF

Go to a big university so you can hit on loads of women and not worry about it crashing and burning (because there are so many other people you can talk to)

Because there’s nothing to do and nowhere to go rn

It's been a problem even before the whole social distancing thing :/

When I sleep late and wake up late I end up spending less time being productive. (At night I just chill at the computer - during the day I'm more inclined to go "do things")

Me too, haven’t had school recently and I’ve been doing no work, feel pretty worthless

I've been talking to a therapist about it and we discuss strategies to try and overcome this issue, but I keep sleeping late still haha... Hopefully we'll get to the bottom of things though, eventually

I hope I see you soon OP.

We should both set alarms, not for crazy early times but around 8 - 8:30

Also i got nothing to wake up to, when i have a cart I’m up ripping it at like 5 - 8 AM

This again, get over it faggot. No one cares. Saw your thread. Pay a hooker at least you won't stay a virgin that way.

My girlfriend has what I'd call...4/10 tits. Should I dump her?

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Nah just get her padded bras kek

Op, I need some advice on what to watch on Netflix. I'm fucking bored.

Yeah, but it's still not as appealing as a chick with an authentic rack.

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Yes or convince her to get better tits

I watched Shaw Shank Redemption for the first time today on Netflix, it was pretty good.

Trips confirms. I gotta do it now.

Seen it. I legitimate hininive watched every thing decent.

And dubs reaffirm it

I meant have seen

If y'all are so smart, tell me how you break it to a woman that her tits suck, and she should get better ones?

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:'( I think this was the only thing that has worked historically. There was a several month period when I went to bed earlier and it was by having a forced wake up time.

However, those few months sucked! I felt like every night was stressful and I was rushing to get to bed to not feel like crap the next day from not sleeping enough. I ended up stopping because it just felt so bad (imo)

Then maybe just smoke a bunch of weed at night, i did it

When I smoke weed I feel super dull for like 1-2 days :/

I've tried melatonin before, and it would work in that I would get really sleepy, but then I would fight through it and stay up because I didn't want to leave the computer/stop what I was watching on Youtube etc.

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You ever heard of cowboy bebop it’s an anime that non weebs usually enjoy