Is getting fetlife worth it?

>Is getting fetlife worth it?
Yep but it takes work, more work than a dating site. It's not that technically, it's more a social network so should be used accordingly.
I've met two couples and two older women into the mom/son roleplay thing through it. Also "online friends" with a few others that do not live close.
It's also a pretty good place for random hookups with people near you but again it takes more work than a usual dating site so I wouldn't say it's worth it JUST for that.
If you were into dude/dude stuff you'd have better/faster luck somewhere else like doublelist (newer craigslist) which is basically all dude on dude downlow stuff.
There is a swinging community in my town that uses fetlife, I am unsure how neato that is or whatever but i know at least it's a thing. My general impression is that they are a step above a sex club but nothing like eyes wide shut type stuff. Who knows.
a TON of dom/sub shit on there.

Agree full heartedly. The meet ups are generally pretty out there. Either veterans looking to prey on newcomers, or people walking in with blinders on, wanting to be there for their specific need.

In my experience it's been work to get someone to bite, but once they have bit, it's just like a dating site, the real trouble is finding those to bite.
Likewise, there is a group function, kik, cucks, cream pies, whatever it I you're into, there are people actively participating and discussing said topics.

bump

any advice for starters?

So 4ch

I'm obviously going to the wrong grocery stores.

Don't be a blank slate. Have a personality behind your profile. Be adventurous and not jut stick to your thing, you may like more than you think you do.

Once you've selected where you are, on your profile, select that area to search for local individuals. It is not a system that is made to set you up with people, let alone those around you, so if thats your planned use for it, take some time to discover it's features
-Location
-Groups
-Interests/kinks

My biggest and most successful point of advice, tailor your account to those you're praying on. Be active, when searching regions, the more active you are the closer to the front of the list you become, the more eyes that see your profile Pic, maybe even check out your profile.

No.

Depends what you're looking for. Its terrible for straight single men. You basically get shamed by the community unless you're a cuck or a diaper fag they don't take kindly to normal people. And the community alot older. Women get worshipped like crazy they are the only ones who get any attention on that site.overall it's shit. Its good if you're looking for a slut or a dick to suck thats about it

Its tied heavily to LGBT community. Being a white male supporter is fine, and even then, if you have gains then it's not a bad place either

Everytime you go to explore it's always pictures of women and bbc. There's like 5 men on fetlife who get attention the rest get none

How fucked am I as young bi dude?

I haven't experienced that at all.
What you're describing is the reality for any site focused on meeting people simply because there will always be 10 straight dicks relative to anyone else. Especially for the women worshipping thing - the fattest grossest hambeast that you skip over on AFF gets more messages than you'd ever believe from thirsty dudes who have low standards.
I'm single and straight and have had fun luck using fetlife. I feel like you get what you put into it. Treating it like a hookup site is bound to disappoint you.

Isn't that normal? Women and interracial bullshit getting the spotlight? Doesn't mean that sensible kinky women don't look for other sensible kinky men. Less complaining, more searching. Remember, if you're not getting it now, try again in a week, just don't harass, take your time, plot your trophy and wait.

This.

It's less of a hookup site, and more of a watering hole. If you're there to fuck, people will see it, if you're there to have people see you, you'll be seen

this.
Nothing gets you blocked faster than whining to a woman about how hard it is for you to hook up. NO ONE like that.
Just shoot your shot and move on like a normal human being, in my shitty opinion that no one asked for. just like real life, women go for the confident guy who doesn't suck their dick way before they go for the dude who messages them twice a day calling them pretty and asking how they are feeling.

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No it's more like if you have a pussy you'll meet people and ifmyoure a guy nobody cares. 95% of that site traffic is just dudes commenting on girls pics calling them beautiful and shit

Can you be any more of an incel cuck?

I hate to be mean or assume too much, user, but it sounds like you haven't put a lot of effort into it if that's your impression.
Again you get what you put into it. If you're just going to be a sour faggot that is upset there are 100 dudes to every female then of course you're never going to find anything.
People here have given you some good advice but i think you only want to whine. Like I said above, girls won't be into that and won't think it's sexy to read about.

Why are you making these attacks at my character I'm just telling you how the site works. Its not 100 thirst dudes and one women it's almost 50/50 male to female.

As a gay guy into wearing diapers I found finding other guys with the same kink really easy on there

no, It's the Facebook of kinky porn.

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I've fucked girls off of there a few times. I've found it best to have a real profile up and even be willing to go to meetings. If you just message a few girls randomly, you'll find few to message and most will go nowhere.

I've also found it useful to ask women that seem to be into Kink on other sites like Tinder/Bumble if they have a Fetlife profile, and many do and it opens up a whole new avenue that you might not have otherwise.

People that are into that sort of bdsm and bondage stuff are often REALLY into it and thus you can sometimes get really good quality women because they can't find what they want from the average guy they'll meet in a bar or club.

Most people on there are fat, and most of the women will be listed as "taken, married, etc", so its really just something you setup don't go on everyday hoping to message someone. Single women that are somewhat attractive on Fetlife get hundreds of friend requests and messages a day, a little bit worse than your average dating site.

I'd say its been worth it for me, overall.

95% of it is lesbian and bi women browsing other lesbians and bi women, commenting on each other's photos... The men praising goddesses is just the other 5% wishing and begging for attention, much like the sluts' photos

Depends if you're a girl it just a post a couple pics and get infinite attention. If you're a guy dont bother

How fucked am I if I don't have the slightest experience whatsoever?
It just kind of feels like one of those place where unless you got some previous experience else where you are pretty much fucked.

I guess it depends.
I can relate my personal experience in that i had no experience at all and went in blind and still found fun people to fuck around with.
I have no idea what your particular fetish or kink is so maybe its different.
I participated a lot tho and made myself active.

Nah like 40% of users identify as straight

Of you use it as intended, then yes. It's great for local scene, making irl friends and going to local parties. The interface is awful, but there is a lot of potential there. If you're looking for online sluts, less so. If you are into the lifestyle, and make the most of what fetlife has, it's a great place.

We don't like broke single fuckbois on fetlife. If you're ugly and have no personality, you have to pay up.

I have a beard, I'm a big guy, I like cream pies. There was about 30 different tags for those things alone. "women who like beards, bearded men who fuck sluts" shit like that.
If you want to remain inexperienced, then don't worry about it. If however you're wanting to change, evolve, and explore new things, go for something/someone who is almost an opposite of you and try something new!

It's not a site to swipe on. I hooked up with some chick and found out later that she practically stalked me.. Waited for me to message her... Sorta creepy, but it was hot af because that's the shit that gets me off, being wanted. Remember, it's a sellers world, and pussy is the market. As a buyer you have to propose to a seller to get something, they won't just spam the masses hoping (knowing) that they will get responses in the hundreds

What do we get?

On their profile, they may claim that.. But to be honest with you, the numbers lie.. The users lie... I was with a lesbian for 6 months... Her profile read straight, as I said, they lie..

Average fetlife users ^

As a lurker it's been awesome. I've found several girls I know or knew of on there.

The best was finding my wife's bookworm friend on it using a variation of her twitter name. Face is blurred but the name and house confirmed it for me.

Seeing her sucking dick and taking it in the ass was life changing.

I've had success with Fet. Put some work into your profile, don't be a weirdo, and be honest with what you want.

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Just like any other walk of life, there are the money grabbing whore who think a twat makes you desirable. Sure, I'd stuff you, but waste my money, good luck. You'll get off on me telling you to pay for supper, have your holes filled, and then blame men for treating you so poorly.

not anymore :(

A Lesbian defending fetlife why am I not surprised.

Not wrong

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Did you fuck her?

I've had good luck with meeting chicks on Fetlife. I fisted a girl for the first time from there. Not my cup of tea but it was worth experiencing once.

No sir, she was the lesbian, taking my pipe for 6 months, she lied to fetlife, to herself, about being straight.

Yeah a simp with a beard who probably spends all day calling girls beautiful lol

Anyone know or recognize Dianna?

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That makes no sense if you're a guy then she isnt a lesbian retard

My wife is a sub and ended up making pretty good friends with a big titty goth chick on there. Had many threesomes over a year, so under that pretense I would say it is worth it. It takes some effort to get into, in my experience submissive guys and those not into kink have hardly any luck.

Omg, almost like all these fags on 4ch that say they are straight but love traps?

Finding local meetups on it can be beneficial, I used to have a lot of luck with it.
However, lately my area has been super cliquey so you have to already be a part of the "in group"
Also most of the people that show up are white trash ham planets.

Well you first said "her profile read straight". I feel like you were trying to larp and lost track of what you were saying