What are some subtle indicators of female instability/immaturity that you've learned to pick up on during the first few...

What are some subtle indicators of female instability/immaturity that you've learned to pick up on during the first few weeks of getting to know a woman? One of the biggest red flags has to be with repetitive shit-talking about other people and specific mistakes or wrongings done to them, usually correlates with the inability to take any criticism and hyper-sensitive personality

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>Saying "like" too much
>nail biting
>talking about and ex or exes eerily often
>never lived alone or moves in in the first few weeks
Some may not be indicators and I have a million more. I'm not an "all girls do this" type of dude. Just pay attention to your ole lady. Like, the nail biting can be general anxiety or habit, but every nail biter I dated lied a lot.

great advice thank you, little cues like that do translate to something bigger. My ex would lie straight to my face about something with the truth in my hand and every time she lied it was accompanied by a hypothetical scenario.

finding that the quiet girls are usually the better personality wise. usually the same with anyone else for that matter. too quiet is just weird but anyone that talks too much is neurotic

Tattoos
Scars
Piercings

You can filter through most all her issues asking her the 200 questions. The sublty changed questions will help reveal her sincerity regarding her previous answers.

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Not having a sense of humor and taking offense to things quickly is a big red flag.

The 200 questions? what is that exactly? You don't have to copy paste them just link or refer to me where they'd be

- having no girl friends, or very few
- is extremely sticky, and controls everything you do and who you talk to
- is manipulative all the time - somtimes without knowing it herself
- sees everything black/white

--- yup she had borderline, thankfully got out of it after 1,5 years of mental torture.

This

applying your immature method of classification will lead you nowhere, boy.

the short answer is: if she is a compromise (when to know if one is a compromise?? if you find even one girl who is hotter), expect as many flaws a s possible.

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Just look up 200 questions to ask a girl... Some series of questions are better set up for casual conversations.

Won't shut up about male privilege, the patriarchy, etc. It's one thing to believe in feminist bullshit, but some girls just won't quit blaming stuff on it. It's a sign of low self-confidence and lack of accountability.

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Also
>"I always have had mostly guy friends"
Doesn't mean she shells out the vag, but it does mean she goes to men to discuss her problems, which will be you sometimes. Although most of the time, they aren't actively trying to fuck your girl, some are, and most have wanted to at one point. They'll steer her down a shitshow path.
>when nothing is her fault
Even small shit, let'a say, if she can't take the blame and say "oh my bad" on forgetting to move your car seat back to it's spot after using it amongst other small deal issues, big things are likely to always be your fault.
>one uppers
Annoying, and one uppers in both sexes are full of shit.
>she tugs her hair, particularly from the lower back part of her scalp
Super common sign of bad anxiety/PTSD problems. She isn't playing with her hair, she's pulling it out. Even ifthe problems aren't her fault, her fight or flight probably means flight.
>sends every sentence in a different text, can't go without being in contact for a few hours, etc
It gets less cute over time and is unrealistic. Plus, she's [possibly] trying to test her leash on you, which shouldn't happen anyway.
>looks through your phone without asking
Personal space invasions that early on show that she's willing to do that at any time. She shouldn't find anything if you're a good dude, but the second she reads messaged and pictures from your phone, the trust should be gone. At the very least, she should be able to give up her phone too. This one is a big one in my opinion.

I'm just spitballing through ghosts of relationships past. Anyone feel free to disagree! I try not to put everyone into a box, so these are just things I have noticed personally from the past.

What's your opinion on career focused women compared to homemakers for formal long term relationships

Both have pros and cons. A career based woman won't have much extra time for a great relationship, but they are often smarter, confident, and I have always had a thing for women that love me, but don't need me, if that makes sense. It's no biggie to not talk most of a day.

Women in the home are dependent on you and your income, or at least some of that. It's actually great to come home to a woman every day, but you never get your free time, and your girl won't always be thankful of the hard work and income. Eventually, you have a roomie that you love.

didn't read your question, just popping in the thread to say that is a very fuckable sexy dog

Atleast you were lucky, i had to stand that bitch for 7 years. Feels like freedom now, time to coof

Thanks for the reply. I'm with you on the woman who loves you but doesn't need you. Suppose you found a woman with a profession that fit into your business or Career field. Would it be advisable to have her work within your business or the company that employs you?

Third-person jabs.
>Do something insignificant on a date
>Few dates later
>Girl "I hate it when people (muh ex usually) do EXACTLY WHAT YOU DID THREE DAYS AGO"

I'm a high school teacher. I have dated a coworker before that had seniority over me because of time, but not the position itself. I think the biggest problem is when dating someone in the same organization, you have to go through the regular shit, but you also have to check the professional vs. personal life at the door. That coworker and I lasted a good while, but I don't see us working in close proximity as the game ender. Some would and many do, but we just didn't work for a long term deal like we thought initially. It depends on how well you two check that relationship at the door. If one of you fails to do so, it is guaranteed to eventuay be a big issue.

Also, just be honest with her and your HR about the relationship and it'll work itself out, or they will.

Yeah, but they are so good in bed. Not sure if it's worth it tbh

You have to realize that most women want you to not like them but still need them.

Thanks again. Do you see that each party managing their own finances independently is superior to joint management?

I thought OP was spot on.
Girls who think they're beyond reproach ARE a NIGHTMARE.

I mean why bother doing anything together?

>scars

'Omg, she fell and scratched her forearm when she was 12 and got 6 stitches, I can't date her, are you crazy? That guy from Yas Forums told me it's a bad sign.'

Disregard all of that if you meant self-harm scars, that I agree with, but getting a scar is not a big deal otherwise

Yeah. It's important to be able to grow and learn from one another.

I mean self-harm scars could mean she has bad friends.

Oh and this same girl.
>Live 6 minutes away
>She has no car so I do pickup
>Send text saying I'm on my way
>Lives with family at 30 years old
>Knock on door, always a several minute wait for her to answer.
>No one else can answer the door in family apparently.
>Dog freaks out and starts barking from inside whenever I step on the gravel of the driveway
>One rainy day
>Walk up to door
>Dog freaks out
>Hear family yell "He's here."
>Doesn't check out window
>Doesn't go to door
>Wait the typical 3 minutes it takes for her to open the door
>Knock again.
>Wait three minutes again.
>Finally opens door
>Gets in car and I get mad that she ignored me and left me in the rain without even looking out her window for my car or checking the door.
>Acts like she did nothing wrong.

She probably wanted to walk in the rain.

>Update
Not really the 'deep' type.
Totally superficial/aesthetic.

I mean pic with her boyfriend in the rain on insta or tikwhatever is both bruh

Yeah, not that smart either.

I feel sorry for her now.

rottweilers are honestly lower teir than toddler maulers. Seriously the most roodypoo teir dog and faggot owned guaranteed.

Good thread, OP.

I'm currently crushing on my boss although I worked with her for 3 years before she became my boss, she's a 32 year old single parent (Two boys, 7 & 12).

I want to bite the bullet & take her out, I think she'd be on it but don't know if its worth the risk of my employment.

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It's totally worth the risk if it's true love.

Instability...

Well. I find that you need to remember that your connection is not special.

So, listen to her. The way she speaks about others in her past is the way she will come to view you too.

that's not a rottweiler, you retarded faggot

Man, if you really think that there must be a moderately good looking chick somewhere that’s not neurotic and won’t jump on any occasions to leave your ass as soon as she finds someone more profitable, then you’re fucking delusional

Has anyone ever met a woman under 40 that DOESN'T have half of these symptoms? I swear they age mentally at half the rate their bodies do

This is true.

Another red flag is never taking offense to anything you do. That means she's lying to you.

Underrated

>Borderline
Be careful with borderline girls.

Accusing others of rape is extremely common for that personality type.

What if that's her sense of humor? You guys just let them off too easy.

This is why MGTOW is a thing

True love is commie fairy tale bullshit. Love is something you build with hard work and commitment, it doesn't just happen by magic. There isn't one special person you're destined to be with. There are millions of people in this world that you could be completely happy with and all you need to do is meet one of them and have the tools required to build that relationship.

No Love is a real thing that can make you grow old and die unhappy and alone.

Mmmm. I've been thinking a lot about that.

Friends come and go. They cannot be relied upon. They come and go. They form new families. People who were close friends disappear when they breed children. And they certainly will not be there if you get sick, poor or old.

No love means no family means dying unhappy and alone. So we keep trying.

But is there an alternative? How can one find a truly lojal group to belong to without family?

You've already found it.
It's us. :3

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Heh.

No.

Won't shut up about them? First mention this kind of BS and I'm headed for the door.

Umm, there are some really risky ways but love is the BEST and TRUEST way. Enternal youth is hard to beat. It's what killed Freeza.

I mean like the system is set up to make up their slaves practically what a bitch.

No comparison, if you're going to have kids then a homemaker is the way to go. If a girl has spent some time in the workforce that's a good thing since she will understand what you have to deal with.

I have two cats and my wife knows how to make the best curry. Guatente I wouldn't be eatting the best food of my life if she was in teh work force.

There is no alternative. The family is unique in this regard, every other group will form bonds at most similar to those of a healthy family. The question is do you want a substitute and fool yourself you are living the real thing or accept the fact that you don't have a family.
on second note you may want to look into religious groups or cults if that is you might fancy. If not then be mindful of one thing. There is a difference between loneliness and solitude, it's all in your mind.

This.
My family never felt like a family, it felt like a chore and that I could never do anything to appease them.
I'm not lonely without them, I'm free.

Yeah. Thats pretty much my though-process.

I guess we keep trying.

Trips and wisdom.

I was thinking about this how you really want the community to suffer and not sacrifice yourself for the system. It's healthier.

THE SHIT TALKING IS ONE.

HOW SHE TREATS WAIT STAFF OR LOW END WORKERS IS ANOTHER.

SHE HAS NO LONG TIME FRIENDS, ONLY ONES SHE'S KNOWN FOR LESS THAN 5 YEARS AND NUMBER ONE...

SHE'S TOO ATTACHED TO HER SISTERS.

Seems like a witty, high-class, female society type. Probably worth around 20mil.

LOL. YEP A SELF MADE WOMEN MILLIONAIRE IS AS EASY TO FIND AS A NIGGER WITH A JOB. FUCKING WIERDO

Depends on the connections their dad gave them. I mean if I were able to take advantage of the current system I would, but I have to think about the future.