I want to fucking die Yas Forums. My dad came out as fucking transgender today to me,my mom and my brother. Mother breaks down as soon he's done with my brother walking to our room disgusted and calling my dad a faggot. Based as fuck,anyways he started talking to me how he feels better this way as a woman and he's proud that i didnt curse or walk away.
I fucking hate him with all my soul and body and hopes he rots in hell. What should i do to distance myself from him?
Is this a fucking joke? Good dubs
Sadly no. I have a fucking father that pretends being a woman. Mom is really fucking sad and you can see pure hatred everytime she looks at him
was he a good father and did he pay for all your stuff?
tell him he needs mental help
Good father? Yes. Pay for all my stuff? No, he was and still is a useless fuck with my mom and brother having the largest income.
Tell him how you really feel.
Already tried user. Tried explaning that he shouldnt go through with a sex chsnhe surgery, grandparents got a lot of fucking money and he got a large chunk of it when they passed. He is determined to go through with it and i know that he wont exist for me afterwards
Already did twice, once for 1 hour ago. He started crying and saying that i was a evil person.
Your dad's probably going through a phase dude, how old is he? It could be a midlife crisis
Maybe just be happy for him? It's not like this changes much
He is 45. Already is starting to use hormone blockers and female clothes with makeup.
Will do. Its guaranteed that my parents are going to divorce.
Fuck dude, I would say his going through a midlife crisis, try and push him away from the surgery dude it's a literal death sentence.
Hopefully you can resolve things with him. If he's been a good father then I would hate for you to cut him off completely bc of something like this.
tell him the truth. tell him you will disown him if he goes through with it. and recommend therapy.
Faggot means gay, so your brother is a retard.
Midlife crisis is buying a motorcycle bro. This dude has straight up demons in his heart. This isnt going away in a few years.
Shoot him and then yourself
Wouldnt really affect me that much. I really dont want to be connected to by trans dad
I have tried several times. Each time he gets angrier. Why should i try to explain shit to him when he is this stubborn?
everyone wants to die stfu
My guess is if this actually happened you wouldn't turn to Yas Forums, so shut the fuck up with your lies and get your kicks from somewhere else
Your duty as a man to get through to your father and break him out of this. But do whatever I'm gonna go jerk off.
My guess is that you're a faggot that barerly goes out. Yas Forums and overall Yas Forums is the only social website i use without getting traced by other people easily
Guess you better kill your self you weak ass pussy
Traced by who, what the fuck are you doing?
I hope you can get over your negative feelings enough to support her. Gender transition is really hard, especially late in life, and she would be very proud and happy if you were there for her during the hard times
steal his pills lololololololololol
If porn has taught me anything you should suck his dick
Hes probably has a porn addiction and is also a narcissist. Sorry you have to deal with this op. Just know that you are better than your father and can get through this
Traditional nuclear families are overrated. If you're uncomfortable around him, don't be around him, but it takes too much energy to hold hate in your heart.
Oh, shut the fuck up OP and go suck your daddy's dick this the sissy fuck boy you are.
My dad cheated on my mom and had a second family, causing her to go nuts and take it out on us. He raped my special needs cousin, and caused our family to be ostracized.
But I'm sure your story is impressive too.
Moar?
reddit people look thru ur history and doxx often
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You should say you support his decision and when your brother and mother move away you will be the one he loves and will leave everything to you when he dies. Until then you should let him suck your cock.
Yeah I accept that, to be honest I just thought no one in their right mind would come here for life advise (I don't come here often) but some of the replies on this thread are actually genuine uplifting so I have obviously misjudged.
Yeah op really needs to suck his dad's dick.
You should be the one person in life that looks after them.
Because they're going down a hard road and you should be that one person who stuck by them through the fucking lot.
'cause it seems like the rest of your family are cunts, and if you're not careful, you're gonna be as bad as them.
>as soon he's done
She.
Kill him to save your familys honor
No. You need to back the fuck off.
Do you think this is easy for him? He's probably been tortured by this his whole life, and he's finally gotten up the courage to be who he really is. He probably knew his family wouldn't take it well, but it was this or suicide. He can't let you talk him out of it.
Good for him for being brave enough to face the truth, whatever it costs him. You need to leave him alone. You're not going to stop him.
Quibble: the image in the mirror would be reversed.
Go home faggot
Yeah no faggot. I'm trying to save my father that is clearly delusional. Its hard to crack him and i'm trying.
He
No, you're trying to save your idea of your father, which has little to do with the actual person.
My father. I do not want him to cut his fucking dick off and destroy our fractured relationship.
>Her
Yeah stop. I dont want my dad to go down that road
He was never the person you thought he was. He was never the person HE thought he was. And if you try to force him into that box now, you'll only drive him away. Or to suicide.
You are being unspeakably cruel to him right now. If you give a shit about that, you'll cut it out and support him in this. If you can't do that, then he's better off without you.
You understand that having a penis has nothing to do with gender, right? We are socialized to associate male with penis and female with womb, but those are social roles. All people contain both male and female, which are archetypal qualities unrelated to sex.
The fact that she's choosing to identify with a different gender does't mean she wants to cut off her penis.
Stop samefagging, nigger
>also based dubs
At the end of the day, you have the same right as they do, you can be pissed off that they’re trans, and they can be pissed off that you’re not accepting of it.
And if the relationship between you two is already fractured, that should be a sign to just cut connections off.
He's a tranny.
Probably going to an hero regardless.
My Father wont go through with the sex change and think he is a female. He was a loved family man and i refuse that he throws that FUCKING AWAY.
I'm not samefagging retard
This. I dont want my father to go through with it
Transgender people do fine with love and support. The reason they have high rates of suicide is because they don't often get that love and support.
That's his right, and you don't get to take that away from him.
HE wants and thought about it. Several times when we have dinner has he mentioned that he may go through with it. Each time making my mother disgusted every single time.
I refuse to that he goes down that road
You literally larped as the dad an hour ago faggot, you need to go back
Farthest you could get from him is by hanging yourself with a belt you cocksucker
Seems like he has lost that right at the moment. I may be forced to call some relatives and his brother to help him
No i fucking didnt ye fag. Have no clue about that.
Or because people enable mental-illness and then wonder why shit goes off the rails.
Yes. YOU. did. STOP LYING, because i SAW IT dude, I WAS THERE
lolololololololololol you're gay
You saw a different thread and assumes i'm that mentally ill person? Fucking an hero yourself ye fag.
He's an adult. You have no right to stop him. Gender dysphoria is no longer considered a mental illness, and you can't take away his liberty on that basis.
The instant she decided to identify with the female, she became 'she'. This is exactly what I'm trying to explain. Our culture has such fanatical conditioning around the social roles of "male" and "female" that those who decide they're prefer to choose the other feel compelled to make physical changes to their flesh which aren't actually necessary.
You can be female with a penis and male with a womb. I would encourage you to do some reading on the Anima and the Animus, the archetypal qualities every human being possesses as part of her or his or its identity. One you understand how it works, you may even be in a position to explain to your father why she needn't actually remove her penis or shave her beard to be a woman.
Guess who's making bank off of that decision.
Go to Tumblr you ass.
You should probably just an hero.
The suicide attempt rate is still obscenely high even if they are in """accepting""" environments, retard. It's a mental disorder that needs proper treatment, not entertaining their fantasies
I literally talked to you an hour ago, I know because i posted there. Not just saw, BUT POSTED.
btfo Retard.
Yeasure
Narcissistic dick. Came literally from nothing. Built himself up like Arnold. Got a decent living wage. Became alpha chad as fuck. Had bitches left and right(some that would come by our home looking for him). Neglected us except to tell us to straighten up and fly right. An overall manipulator who thought he was so hot, he could get away with anything.
Now he tries to seek closure from my brothers and I, mostly me. I know he raped my cousin because I walked in on him about to do it. I ended up suppressing it until he was ousted. Had a fuckin mental breakdown. Went to prison. Got out for good behavior temporarily pending trial. Used it to flee the country. He tries every now and then to contact me, but when he does, it makes me more and more numb emotionally. At this point, his weakness disgusts me.
Yeah no faggot. My father wont "identify as a female". Tranny or not, i'm going to call in my relatives to save his forsaken soul.
He wont go down that road. Planning to take his pills away tomorrow
ok so you gotta talk to your dad tell him how everybody hates him, call him a nigger (very important) and repulsive subhuman etc. then tell him, you will kill him etc etc. and then you tell him the only chance he has to make this right is to pretend this was all a fucking joke and convince your other family members. it is morally not acceptable to come out as a transgender as a father in a 30 year long relationship with his wife.
An hero yourself you delusional fuck. I have no clue what you are talking about.
The very page you posted says that those with family support do better than those without. Try harder.
Well, I tried. You kids are too stupid, poorly educated, and brainwashed to understand basic human psychology. Enjoy the shit life of cognitive dissonance and hate you've earned for yourselves.
Look, are you serious or are you larping?
Gender isn't an identity.
It's a group of characteristics recorded from hundreds of years of similar sex specific behaviours.
It wasn't until that psycho Money decided to turn it into a sideshow attraction.
Fag
Then you'll be interfering with a legal medical treatment, which is a crime.
Eat a log of shit for this weak bait.
Wait wut?
Can you post the screen caps?
You're the one who's delusional fucktard.
If you really want to get away from your dad go hang yourself with a belt.
That'll get his attention, you autistic mong.
You need to show him suicide statistics of pre surgery Gender dysmorphic people and post surgery dittos. Their mental illness is not alleviated by refurnishing their loins.
Gender dysmorphia is a mental illness and switching out your loins does nothing to help you.
Tell him you care about him, if you do, and tell him that is why you're so upset, if it's true, and then try to teach him a bit about the condition he has. Also, you need to speak to your mother about this asap. Mentally labile people can act out in all manner of ways - make sure you have an out as a family if he won't be helped.
Sad to hear that your dad cracked, I hope you don't end up hating him and that he comes around.
Did he go through some trauma in his teens or recently?
you ever talk about him with your brothers? hows the mood like with them? do they know about the cousin incident?
>37%
Oh thank goodness, with family support it goes from half all the way to just a third. All my worries are gone
No traumas as far as i know. May ask mother when she comes home later today. Thank you for the idea user. Those stats may help but i doubt it, his skull is way to thick
Fucking an hero yourself you schizo. Gtfo my thread ye jew.
Dude.
You are deep into this weird field that won't be funded in another 30 years from now. Instead of investigating the facts to reach conclusion you're believing people who have ideas and then try to find facts to support their conclusions. Behavior is not synonymous with gender. Also, all behavior is not caused by social norms, expectations, fostering or trauma.
We are biological machines with firmware as well as software: Nature AND nurture.
Please, I know people go full-blown sophomoric here but don't take that as validation for your own conclusions.
Peace.