Hard truths you've learned

Hard truths you've learned
Girls would rather have a masculine/confident guy that beats them and does drugs, than an insecure/neurotic guy that would treat them well. They're already insecure and neurotic enough. They'll see you as a fellow female

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Well, you killed your own thread, OP.

Was it the picture?

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You started your own thread and immediately did a /thread

Was it the picture?
Nice dubs

OP are you still here

Yes

no shit. how old are you, 15?

unless you want a psychotic bitch that will likely cheat on you or have suicidal tendencies and destructive fantasies that will drag your life to the shitter, you better man up and find someone that is able to exist on their own and wants a partner equally independent and strong.

and guess what? insecure/neurotic guys dont match these criteria.
stop crying about how the world doesnt bend to your will and face the hard truth that if you want something worth living for (e.g. a beatiful, intelligent and sane partner), you better start improving on yourself and detach from that idiotic thought that "everyone deserves a prince/princess".
there's plenty fish in the sea, but most of these fish are fat, sickly and dont even taste good. learn how to win at life and better hurry the fuck up, because everyone else isnt waiting for you.

real hot take there OP

Nah man it's the fact you're an incel.

>an insecure/neurotic guy that would treat them well.
They would rather have anything than this, and most people on general world prefer anything other than this. All insecure/neurotic people are good for is having flings with because it's easy to get in their pants. Insecure neurotic women are shit in relationships. Insecure neurotic men are shit in relationships. Well adjusted people of both genders are the only ones worth dating. If you're so neurotic you can only land other people with neuroses then you're doomed to inceldom forever. Dilate faggot.

>no shit. how old are you, 15?
Mentally, yes. The autism makes it hard for me to learn social things like this. I try to think about everything logically. I'm just now understanding this stuff in my late 20's
>stop crying about how the world doesnt bend to your will
I didn't mean to sound like I was crying. I just stated something I learned the hard way. I didn't even call women bitches or anything for being that way. I'll work on my wording I guess. Maybe back in my early 20's I would have cried about it
More dubs. Is this a get thread?

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Girl in pic related is based as fuck, would be friends with.

PS. user I understand your autism, I grew up mostly around boring old people in a strict catholic school, I wanted to be a scene guy so bad but I could never have.

Are you actually autistic? I have assburgers

Well im socially retarded and have severe OCD so I more or less understand where you are coming from

to continue with this, it doesnt just end with finding a decent partner. your entire life depends on it.
people aren't born successful. sure, some have intact families and financial advantages, but most of us are born in western society. we didnt grow up in a trainyard in pakistan picking up trash to feed our parents and 18 siblings. so stop being a bitch. face it: life is competitive. there is always someone stronger, faster or smarter than you, and will probably do what you do for less money or time invested.
key to success is being at the right place at the right time, and to do that you have to create opportunity. do something. stop procrastinating.
you don't have to be a genius with an IQ of 150. IQ is just an abstract number that means absolutely nothing without its statistical background anyway.
there's plenty people that gave up on their aspirations and incentive. find something that genuinely interests you and makes you happy.
you cant force success, but you can at least set the course by not being a complacent, semi-depressed crybaby

Whats up gentleman gamer?
When are you and your gamer bros rising up?

The supreme gentleman has already risen up. Now we just worship him and his legacy

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fuck a hooker or something. your testosterone is hindering you from performing.
it sucks that you have autism. im semi sperg with no actual proof for anything, although i did suffer from selective mutism basically my entire childhood which branded me as the odd one out from day one.
if the women you desire fuck the stereotypical "chad", you can rest assured that past your biological urge to fuck a woman there is virtually nothing that will satisfy you with their personality past being "mysterious", mainly because you have a social disadvantage because of autism.
focus on finding something that makes you happy that you can achieve yourself.
stable women that dont fuck your head look for men that appear strong and independent, not a manbaby that needs nursing every 20 minutes.

best to disconnect your happiness and personal well being from relationship bullshit.
trust me, there are plenty more people unhappy with a partner than there are "perfect couples"

sorry if my rambling is incoherent, english is my third language

I know. I'm just not even interested in getting a girlfriend anymore. I tried that in my teens and early 20's, and it never worked out. I know enough now to "take it till you make it", but that wouldn't make me happy. I'm happier being alone doing things I like to do, rather than trying to get a girlfriend because that's what everyone else does to be happy.

Your English is fine, fren

Dude....

You just gave me an idea for a television show.

What of there was a group of betas all trying to get a girl like Roger Eliott...

It would be funny as fuck.

Sorry, I phrased that wrong.

They would try as hard as Roger, I mean.

I'll toss that idea into the think tank. Let me contact my producer and get his vision on this idea. We could really be on to something here. I'll let you know it turns out, ciao bella

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as long as you can reproduce, earn something of a salary and dont look like quasimoto shitting himself, you will eventually find a woman worth reproducing with. i just wish you most of luck that eventually she wont just be dumb as a brick. i found that to be way harder than finding a good looking significant other.
looks fade over time anyways. i pity some of my friends that married a good looking brick. i can smell that divorce coming from 15 miles away through a thunderstorm.
as i said before, it's all about opportunity. its a game of chances. everytime you go to those social events i know you hate so much, there is just a sliver of a chance that you meet a decent match. not even the jackpot, but like a 7/10 in looks that doesnt need to post everything she eats on instagram and looks like a lobotomized donkey as soon as you mention newton's laws or discuss literature that goes past harry potter and twilight.
the more often you leave your comfort zone, the more opportunity you gain to find someone else. it's time consuming, fucking stupid, expensive and most of all, it bores the shit out of me. but sadly, it's the only way.
that, or hookers.

So, you gotta be perfect to attempt approaching a girl? While that dominant guy has it everything just because he's tall and is confident because of how he was treated his whole life? Is it so wrong to expect to help someone grow, to learn together? I guess so, better be used by that abusive, 6'4" guy than show compassion, give some time to that loner guy.

Also same here, Ive just given up, don't even look at women these days. I can tell they are annoyed while I walk past them, they turn their heads expect me to be staring at their asses or something. Only Asian girls seems to show any interest in me.

Ugly people can be shitty and divorce too. If I had the money I'd IVF the shit out of some model girls eggs and just give my children better chance at life.

today when i took a walk after work i saw a cute young blond girl walking with a baby carrier together with what looked like a short and ugly vietnamese or thai boy. first time i have ever seen something so jarring

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>Only Asian girls seems to show any interest in me.
Redpill me on Asian girls. Are they really crazy like everyone says?

Was the guy loaded? Wish I could find a self hating blonde girl and leave subhumanity behind.

I'm actually afraid to play vidya online with other real people.

>Is it so wrong to expect to help someone grow, to learn together?
morally? no. i would love it to be this way. but realistically? you can bet your ass. but thats not the womens fault, its society as a whole. we live in instant-gratification land, anything less than perfect (at least presentation wise) is immediately dismissed.

also, that "tall and confident just because he had it handed to him" bullshit is just repetitive and fueled by your own justification and belittling yourself to feel better about your short comings. great, he's tall. thats a factor you cant deny. the same way, some girls are tall, have perfect boobs and a great ass. but if you think that that is really everything that it takes, you're a long way off.
confidence comes from within yourself. there is a difference in pretending to be confident and being actually confident, but can you really tell the difference?
people are like fucking robots, like switches that react to certain stimuli. learn to play the game, take a shower, wear something that looks good on you, shave and buy a good perfume. GET SOCIAL SKILLS. learning by doing. talk to people, fail miserably, try again, be consistent. its SKILLS. talent helps, sure, being rich helps, sure. being tall, yeah.
you just have some rocks in your way. its the human fucking experience. take small steps, improve. if you dont fail, you dont learn. per ASPERA ad astra.

all women like men who take charge
yes even that one you know that likes to act like she dont need anyone in her life. you want a girl so bad stop being a pussy and take charge

protip: take off the fedora

yes

I usually had to play with boys for weeks and be pretty confident with the game before attempting online mp, never played ranked, never talked on the mic. Don't care much about games these days.

Fuck, then why do they have to take half the jobs?

I don't want a girl anymore. Life is simpler without them. And the money I save is great too. I'm more interested in my future than getting a girl in the present

This is pathetic.

*Bots
Play with bots not boys.

That's not what I've learned from my experience

good. Focus on yourself. Build yourself up, and if you get the chance to bang a girl just go for it but wrap your shit up

What have you learned from your experience?

Quite the opposite actually.

what the fuck is "success"?

How old are you?

22, why are you asking?

I've heard older women have different preferences. I thought you may be older. It's interesting that you've had a different experience

>Girls would rather have a masculine/confident guy that beats them and does drugs, than an insecure/neurotic guy that would treat them well.

just a big retarded misconception. Insecure/neurotic guys are insecure/neurotic BECAUSE they are unattractive, not the other way around. so called "assholes" are attractive in spite of their personalities, not attractive because of their personalities. They are attractive, so they are allowed to get away with larger degrees of antisocial behavior (theres even good studies on this phenomena)

Guys cope like hell that this isn't the case and its all personality, because if you believe that, you leave some hope for yourself that you can eventually "learn" to be more attractive to women once you get past that pesky morality. Thats pure sophistry. At some point the internet seeded this popular meme that women are "less visual" then men, and yet the actual scientific research into human mating suggests women are the real sticklers for physical factors; precisely because they can be. In every matched testing, women ALWAYS will select more robust looking men - tall, broad shouldered, high facial masculinity but most important of all, low levels of fluctuating asymmetry - a so called "unfalsifiable" marker of genetic health (as opposed to say, muscular definition, which can be increased with training, diet and drugs).

The actual "cold hard truth" is that women value attractiveness in a mate to the exclusion of almost any other consideration, particularly in the modern age where the state provides resources and security far better than any lone man could. this is only shocking to you because it runs contrary to everything women say they value. But its shocking to women to, who are completely unaware as to why they do the things they do, which is why their entire lives are filled with go-nowhere navel gazing and introspection. They are victims of their own biology.

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I don't think those two things are mutually exclusive. Girls like attractive guys, but if the attractive guy isn't masculine, they instantly are no longer attracted. Unless he has some other redeeming quality like a good job or lots of money

I'd like to stay away from the details and i'm not interested in older women.
Generally, I think that you're right though because most girls prefer manly men. It's a good instinct. Have a good day/night!

success is reaching predermined goals. you know, succeeding at them.
doesnt matter if you seek spiritual enlightenment, sexual pleasures, financial independence, relationship goals or creative fulfillment.
as long as you have something to work and live for. if you dont have a goal, you cant be successful, however you define that to yourself.
that is my entire point. do what YOU want, not what your parents or society or your friends expect you to do.
all the other things in life will follow up. and if you think i'm being full of shit, thats fine by me. i dont have to prove anything, it's just my opinion.

i dont think youre full of shit. i guess im just all out of motivation, because goals sound so foreign to me at this point.

Still women are so sugestionable, why else should white American women lust over black men and Nordic Europeans like Muslims? Those fuckers are ugly as fuck.

Girls are like human dogs. They become real lovey-dovey and dependent on your every move. Only lonelyfags have to depend on them for their own self-sustenance. Otherwise, if you're typically not a lonely person longing for love, you'll get annoyed in a relationship fairly easily.

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>Still women are so sugestionable, why else should white American women lust over black men and Nordic Europeans like Muslims? Those fuckers are ugly as fuck.

First of all, the averages of racial groups has no bearing on individual attractiveness. I can find plenty examples of extremely attractive black and arab men.

secondly, white american women lusting after blacks is an internet meme. Dont take my word for it, go look at the dating statistics. If white women were sleeping with black men on any notable scale, we would see it reflected demographically. And yet every time racial dating preferences are examined, black males are right on the bottom rung, exceeded even by asian males. Black male virginity has also increased over time. White boys love to cry foul about the dating market in 2020, but they are ironically the demographic that has been impacted the least by the explosion of internet dating. Ethnics are having a really rough time, because their women can, and do, preferentially date white males. And white males who cannot secure attractive white women, can, and do, date attractive women of other ethnicities (particularly asian, which also includes indian women)

Happened to me, she was after me for a year then got me. She asked all the time if I loved her, she got me to tell her that. Then she asked me to show it more often and I guess I stopped being all stoic and contacting her only for sex then she got bored. Which sucks because I really had fun talking with her, going out, smiling, being goofy with her. Can't imagine how repulsed women must be towards those guys that bring flowers, get big teddy bears, write poems and open doors.

intrinsic motivation and self-determination are things many people lack until they have a classic mid-life crisis.
i spent much time being afraid of change, because i was completely convinced that the only way on was down. one day i had enough, cut most of my contacts, moved hundreds of miles to a strange place where i knew no one and had the luck to find people that accepted me as i was other to the people i left that only knew who i pretended to be. i realize that i am extremely lucky in that regard.
to find something that can truly motivate you is a challenge for your entire life. the only tip i can give you is that the greatest challenge is the barrier in your mind. there are many things we consider to be predetermined outcomes. "im not tall enough, im not mathematically capable, im not athletic, im not creative" and so on and so forth.
do some things you never did before. work with alzheimer's patients, do an apprenticeship in a carpenters or locksmith's workshop, start oil painting or composing, or just something that you did not even consider before. worst thing is, you find out you hate the job and can at least cross that off a list. you'll at least have some kind of social contacts and get to know people. if you're lucky you find something that genuinely interests you.
as long as you have at least some kind of progress, it's better than sitting there doing nothing or something you KNOW is not what you actually want.

"inflammable" does NOT mean "not flammable"