>finally get a gf
>she's 21
>has already had bf's, is very experienced in sex
Gonna dump her. The biggest turn off I can imagine in this universe is when a girl has been in a serious relationship and I have to fuck a girl someone else has fucked hundreds of times before.
Can't do it. Just can't.
Get experience with sex. Even if that means banging prostitutes. Do the most degenerate shit you can with women (or trannies or men if that's your thing) so that no woman's past experiences can ever top yours. Would you really give a fuck about your gf sucking a dick in the bathroom of a club when she was 23 when you followed a large black man to a "health spa" in Japan, where a tiny Asian woman let you sit on her face?
>Would you really give a fuck about your gf sucking a dick in the bathroom of a club
Well yeah. Girls are still too used up for my taste.
It helps to do fucked up shit myself, but I shouldn't have to.
You never know until you actually do things. I used to feel a lot like you until I got in my twenties and started acting out my perversions. After I got a handjob from a stripper while I ate her ass from the back, my judgments of women started to fade away. I still don't want the neighborhood hoe. I'd rather not be with a girl who got a train run on her by some drug dealers. But if a girl fucked a guy in a moment of weakness, I won't hold it against her because I've been in those same situations where weakness causes you to do dumb shit.
You have the mind of a child and should indeed dump her. She deserves much better than you.
Maybe one day when you grow the fuck up you can be adult enough for an adult relationship.
you're a retard user
there's no logical reason why a girl who's had sex with other men before is any different from a girl who's had sex only with you before
just be happy you have a gf, honestly if you're so obsessed about where other mens cocks have been you might be gay
Not op but you two obviously don't understand the insecurity of having no sexual experience while the woman you're with has a ton. American culture teaches us that it's supposed to be the other way around. Either that or you're both virgins.
Or alternatively, accept that purity/inexperience is a value that is important to you and try to find someone who shares that sentiment. Doesn't seem to common in the western world however.
Braindead responses, just ignore them.
>the insecurity of having no sexual experience while the woman you're with has a ton.
Insecurity is irrational and if you make life choices based on it then you are indeed a retard
Humans make life choices based on irrationalities all the time. Including you. None of us are above stupidity. Humans are ironically too smart to not make stupid decisions.
>Doesn't seem to common in the western world however
Which is why my advice is the way it is. There may have been a different time when you had an ok chance of finding a wife with little to no sexual experience, but those days are long gone. These days, you have to play the game everyone else is playing or be left out and watch from the sidelines.
If you're purposefully advocating that OP dump his girlfriend because of his irrational feels then you are a retard
I do some degenerate shit myself, but I would never date a girl who did any degenerate shit. I know I can not have the urge to cheat every second of a relationship, I also know that a disgusting degenerate slut will have the urge to cheat every second of a relationship.
You are clearly a retard. Do you know how women's pair bonding works? Clearly not, now stfu
You're insecure af. I'm so glad I'm not you.
No I'm not but let's not pretend his insecurities aren't valid.
You're an insecure child who is afraid he can't measure up to other men, and frankly from you personality you're probably right. You're a fucking loser.
>Do you know how women's pair bonding works?
please enlighten me with peer-researched links
whenever people say this they just drop the study that shows people who wait until marriage are less likely to get divorced, which doesn't prove what they claim it proves because it's not a randomized controlled trial and there's the massive lurking variable of religion
Wait, you know what? I am advocating that he dump his gf. Yes, OP should dump his girlfriend as soon as possible. If he's not comfortable being with a woman who has had sex, that's his deal. Staying with her will only lead to unhappiness for the both of them. They can save years of their lives and move on. He can look for a woman with no sexual experience and she can look for a man that doesn't mind hers.
I'm not insecure, you just can't trust a woman who has had sex with many men. I have first hand experience with this.
Yes, of course there's no such thing as cognitive behavioral therapy to help with his insecurity and low self esteem
the only option is definitely to just call it quits and break up
>You have the mind of a child
>you're a retard user
Guys this is such a simp attitude. You shouldn't accept these things. Demand more from women.
Have you ever really demanded anything from a woman apart from having a pussy and letting you use that?
Your lack of standards is what makes women get shittier every year.
When the fuck did this board start getting filled with absolute fucking cucks. You're so damn desperate that you're willing to fuck any piece of trash woman that comes your way, and that's why you will never have a fulfilling relationship. You have no fucking standards.
>Yea my gf had a train run on her by niggers what's the big deal haha.
That's you.
the other user is saying you're insecure because you're obviously avoiding women with sexual experience so that you never have to measure up to another man's performance. you have low self esteem so you assume you wouldn't measure up.
you feel like you have to justify this desire so confirmation bias leads you to collect whatever misleading anecdotal evidence you see of women with sexual experience being eeeebil, regardless of the fact that people of all kinds do asshole shit
So, your deal breaker is that she's had sex? Of all things, she isn't a virgin is the dealbreaker? The average girl loses their virginity at 15
Projecting.
You're either roasties or guys who had to settle for a roastie and butthurt af
I got my first gf at 31 years old. Why? Because I waited until I could find a virgin. It made me lose over 10 years of prime fucking years but it doesn't matter now. I got something no other 31-year-old has.
amazing. asking for proof makes me a fucking cuck apparently.
I'm not him but it really isn't just "being afraid of another man's performance".
It's actually a valid reason to be pissed about, but it goes so much deeper. If you had a soul and didn't see sex as just a performance sport, you might understand.
For me it's something holy. It's not something you do every time you feel good and wanna fucc
If your partner needs to go to fucking therapy in order to even be with you, the relationship is doomed. If he decides to seek therapy for his insecurities, he should do it while single. You're asking his gf to put in a lot of emotional labor just to stay in this relationship with a man who no longer wants to be with her.
you are honestly a really sad and pathetic person, most people don't jump mentally to dicks and guys when they meet someone. are you so afraid you can't measure up to someone's previous sexual partner that you obsess over gangbangs by black people? Your "standards" are a way of defending yourself from the truth that you have nothing to offer women and will be a virgin for the rest of your life.
yeah I'm not talking about people who abstain for religious reasons or wait for marriage
I'm talking about people like OP who obviously see nothing immoral about banging their gf but get butt mad that she banged her past bfs
I talked to my psychologist about the same issues and she said that there are girls that do wait and that although so there are less these days I shouldn't settle for something that won't make me happy
What? That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Why would I think about her fucking other dudes while I'm with her. I wouldn't date a slut out of principle and past experience.
>Why would I think about her fucking other dudes while I'm with her.
you clearly do. obsessing over people being "sluts" is obsessing over their past sex with men.
Except I'm not a virgin, you probably are, I have no idea. But I know I'm not.
Okay well it may have been rude to call you a cuck, but the other guy definitely deserved it. He's stupid as fuck. I think I have the study saved somewhere.
Riddle me this: I'm not allowed to be disgusted by her sexual experience, but she's allowed to be disgusted by my sexual inexperience.
It makes no sense. Isn't resisted temptation the measure of a person?
I mean not all of us literally fuck every girl who puts out.
You're allowed to be disgusted by her past. Don't let anyone tell you that you're not. I'm personally not disgusted by women having sex, but if that's how you feel, it's how you feel. You're entitled to your preferences.
ncbi.nlm.nih.gov
That one while not entirely related sketches me out a bit from high count women.
And here's the other study
ifstudies.org
Have a look at these you tard, I just don't date cheating sluts that will have muttified offspring.