Why are men so uptight? Why are they never willing to let go, to be fun, to be silly, so be dorky, to be flamboyant, to grin like an idiot? These qualities are extremely attractive to females, and yet most men just boringly sit around and bitch about women not being sexual creatures instead of trying to add just a little bit of whimsy into their lives and actually have a personality.
>Hurr I must be stoic and boring and serious at all costs for some reason
Do men make themselves completely uninteresting on purpose or something? Is it like, to punish women for something, by being a stoic personality vacuum?
Uptight Males
>to be fun, to be silly, so be dorky, to be flamboyant, to grin like an idiot
Plenty of men do that stuff
I guess having a 12 inch dick and being black qualifies as a personality these days.
This desu. The guy I've felt most attracted to was both funny and carefree, as well as intelligent, wise and well-read.
They really, really don't. Do you even know any males?
Of course, often some will try to imitate spontaneity and fun in order to impress a girl sufficiently to get into her pants, but this doesn't count.
Erm, no, you didn't. Honey, let me tell you why you are wrong and you are actually attracted to a strong, stable and unemotional man.
I believe it's because stoicism = masculinity for most people. I wish men were more emotive in general, it's frustrating trying to relate to men with the emotional capacity of a rock.
With the man harvest being so poor, this will suffice in some cases. Who can blame them when the other options are Jerry from Accounting, who loves to polish his boat on weekends (he'll take her out for a spin one day though); or Ray the Electrician, who Just Likes To Go Home And Watch a Ball Game With A Few Beers At The End Of The Day; or Chris the Consumer, who loves knowing everything about nerd media or anime and will blandly explain it at great unemotional length. Or maybe Wokeazoid William, who is just so into feminism and craft beer than there's no room in his head left for knowing how to improvise a joke?
it's possible to show emotion and employ stoic principles. it's all about sizing down emotional responses when a situation arises so a level-headed response can come through.
But this is not fun or interesting. That's the issue here. If you do this, you are boring.