i want friends
why do i have no friends
how do i make friends
im trying to be proactive here
I want friends
What sorts of things do you like to do, user?
because you don't socialize or don't know how to
you make friends by learning how to socialize and then socializing a bunch
Just buy some friends, it's easy
>Use discord
>post tag
>accept friend requests
It was genuinely that easy to make a few friends. Irl I have no idea how to make friends so you're on your own there
I don't have friends either man
Not him but what do you mean by socialising? I've never understood this term
>do
i guess that's my problem
i'm pretty typical for a Yas Forums user though
Hanging out online all day and shitposting, with the occasional video game here and there?
yeah basically
my interests are also typical of Yas Forums too
>the action or practice of participating in social activities or mixing socially with others.
what's not to get user
Nothing exactly wrong with that, I mean, that's why we're here, right?
I don't really know what that means
>cant stand trump magamaga types
>cant stand faggoty SJW "everyone is equal and beautiful xD" types
>hate social media attentionwhore hookup culture
Fuck dude I just want like maybe 2 friends i could call to hang out but i cant stand 99% of people I'm around and the other 1% probably cant stand me FUCK
I have the same struggle user. I genuinely hate most people because they're as you described, and I can't find someone I actually like. Most of the population falls into one of those categories, and anyone browsing here is likely too socially anxious to interact with. I'm so picky goddamnit
practice gratitude and empathy, you will learn to see opportunities using your intuition alone
it literally means interacting with people through activity or conversation. if you don't get that then idk dude.
Do you live in the south too? I think that makes it worse for me because it seems that everyone else and their views fit neatly into one political box or the other.
Like oh you dont like to hunt, have no problem with abortion, and care about conservation? Fuckin pussy liberal snowflake.
Oh you think black people are responsible for a lot of their own problems and dont like being around flamboyant gays? Oh wow that's pretty problematic I think you should leave
Yep I'm in the South so I know exactly what you mean. Politics can get annoying, and I wish people were not as vocal about it.
maybe im exactly the type of person you cant stand but i have quite extreme political opinions and i dont let it influence personal relations
i mean i unironically believe homosexuality should be illegal like it was not 30 years ago but i go see movies with a gay friend more than once every two weeks
i think people define themselves too much by politics, especially those who hold fringe beliefs
If meeting up with someone from Yas Forums wasn't a guaranteed cringeathon and a possible murder/suicide I'd ask what city you were in. Its pitiful how badly i want a bro to hang out with.
Memphis?
Woah dude chill out me and him were getting along and now you're gonna fucking scare him off.
Outlawing gays? Are you retarded
>Woah dude chill out me and him were getting along and now you're gonna fucking scare him off.
i dont understand why would he be scared because another user posted
being gay only became legal federally in 2003
>However, in 2003, the Supreme Court reversed the decision with Lawrence v. Texas, invalidating sodomy laws in the remaining 14 states (Alabama, Florida, Idaho, Kansas, Louisiana, Michigan, Mississippi, Missouri (statewide), North Carolina, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, and Virginia).
t. wikipedia
now, it wasnt really illegal in all of these places before that but i dont want to talk about this. I dont think its a ridiculous position to take. Its a very modern phenomenon that its even legal
my point is, i dont let this influence interpersonal relations: im literally friends with a faggot and ive met his boyfriend multiple times
people who go on and on about politics irl and let it define themselves and their relationships are stupid. Im friends with him because he has interesting opinions on film and i like watching films with him. I dont agree with him being gay but i dont beat him over the head with it and he knows i disagree with it and doesnt let that fact ruin our relationship either
I wish it were that easy. Every time I've done that the few people who did add me never made any effort to hold a conversation. These are the same guys who complain about girls giving very short uninterested responses yet they do the same thing themselves. I've only had one person who I've added who actually spoke like a normal person, but they killed themselves so can't very well speak to them anymore unfortunately.
You dont agree with him being gay? What do you think he should do about it?
i want friend too! can anyone be my friend?
I guess the best way i can describe it is i think of it as kind of an addiction. Hes old enough now that I dont think he will ever not be gay but I think he can withdraw from acting on it in the same way an alcoholic can withdraw from alcohol but can very easily fall back into it or how people can recover from porn or sex addictions but really its always under the surface. As a recovered smoker, I more or less always still want a cigarette and I havent smoked for years. Obviously, this isnt exactly the same but its the best analogy I can think of.
Illegal has sort of extreme implications. Homosexuality being illegal, to me, more means behind closed doors and actually a secret. Gays have always, and always will, existed. I dont expect the police or something to go kicking down doors of suspected gays and arresting them.
Its obviously a very far out political opinion today and I dont want to derail this thread about it. I only brought it up as an example of how you dont need to let disagreements, even extreme disagreements, ruin relationships.
>why do i have no friends
You don't socialize
>how do i make friends
You get a job, uni course or whatever that forces you to go outside and interact with people, things will happen naturally from there unless you're a truly massive sperg
Sorry no, I'm in Jacksonville. If we weren't states away i'd be down.
I have unpopular opinions in terms of politics, but I keep it to myself. Most people think I am the complete opposite of what my beliefs are and I'd like to keep it that way. Political discussions always end up being cringeworthy unless you both agree on something. You're not really his friend, by the way.
Just say you are friends.
guess I'm fucked then, thanks for trying
And then you get results.
i'll be ur fren but we have to masturbate together every day for the foreseeable future due to uncertainty in the market via coronachan