I don't understand why people tell you that getting a girlfriend won't solve your problems. Yes it will. Yes it fucking will. It won't directly solve your problems but it will give you the strength to face them, knowing you aren't alone. Knowing that if you fuck up, someone will be there with open arms to reassure you they love you and you're the only one for them.
I don't understand why people tell you that getting a girlfriend won't solve your problems. Yes it will...
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Literally all that I need in my life right now is a partner and I would feel fulfilled
>reassure you they love you and you're the only one for them.
for now
Because they don't know how to help us. So, some normies think it's easier to throw-out a random cliche. And go about their day.
Same. I just want someone to love me. That's literally all I need.
>Yes it fucking will. It won't directly solve your problems but it will give you the strength to face them
> Knowing that if you fuck up, someone will be there with open arms to reassure you they love you and you're the only one for them.
Oh sweet summer child..
Do yourself a favor and stop watching movies and reading romantic novels.
>I don't understand why people tell you that getting a girlfriend won't solve your problems.
it wont' only you will solve your own problems.
what a girlfriend does is make the struggle to fix them more bearable. Least that is what she is supposed to do.
people that are normal function off of and based in what is socially acceptable no matter what that may be at the time so they wont really be able to relate outside of that, intentional or not
I dont want an ugly american girlfriend. That's admitting my life is over and IIII might as well kms
Women subconsciously know that they are inferior to men. That's why they sleep with guys who don't SIMP.
That's literally what I just said, you retard.
if you think this or if it applies to you then you don't belong here
Omg, you're so sad dude. You've never had a gf before. Wow..
Trust me, it won't solve shit. 3 mos after getting a gf you'll wish you were single again. You think it'll fix everything because you've built it up so much in your mind. Remember when you were a kid and you wanted a certain vidya game or system and you were SO SURE that if you just got that game or system you'd finally be happy? And you got it and OMG IT WAS SO AMAZING! Then couple months later it's like "now what?"
Yeah, that's what getting a gf is. You think it'd be great bc you're brainwashed by movies and disney shit. Fucking grow up. Maybe then you'll get a gf. Lol so fucking pathetic..
It doesn't solve any real problems
Minor problems maybe
At the end of the day when you're both laying in bed and she's fallen asleep and the thoughts come back
>what if you're not good enough
>infidelity?
>is she just pretending to like me so I don't kill her?
t. married
No, because I'm not a fucking retard like you. Being in love with someone means you don't get bored with them.
It's because
1. Plenty of fucked up people still get laid and it doesn't help them, so there's no reason for them to believe it'll help you.
And 2. The girl you're imagining doesn't exist. Something close to it does, but it's still rare. The reality is most relationships are garbage, people are just lonely and want to fuck.
Yes, you're a fucking retard. You're like the biggest fucking retard. It'd be sweet if it wasn't so pathetic. Save this convo. Save it. I hope you get a gf, I really do. It won't happen tho bc you have the maturity level of a kindergartner.
The problem here is that women do not want to emotionally support a man. They want a man who can turn on passion when they want him to, but don't want him to have any sort of internal struggles. Women view this as a weakness, and are immediately turned off by it.
Men do in fact need a woman to be there for them. Paradoxically, women will not want you if you make that need known.
Women don't love men like men love women
She's not yours. It just your turn
This is going to sound like the most normie advice ever, but take it from a robot that got a gf that it only solves a few problems. For people like us that are so fucked up, being with someone causes more problems than you would have being on your own. If you can overcome those problems then its okay though, but it takes a special kind of girl.
You're not supposed to have a girlfriend unless your problems are fixed, anyways.
Women are weak and will only drag you down, unless you are strong enough to control them. And you obviously aren't. Grow up and get your shit together first.
Let me tell you a secret.
If your will, drive, and determination is so fragile that it depends on anyone else, then you lack the necessary qualities to be worthy of that kind of love in the first place.
>someone will be there with open arms to reassure you they love you and you're the only one for them
You will only receive this love if you can fight and strive and persevere without it.
are you fucking dumb. men dont even know what love means lmao
How the fuck's that fag still going in the rain that's what I want to know OP
>dude a girlfriend won't solve your problems
Whoa. I bet you have some empirical evidence to back that up. I wonder if I do?
>Sex is the most pleasurable, joyous, and meaningful human experience
>Mating performance is significantly related to happiness and life satisfaction
>Penile--vaginal intercourse is associated with health, but masturbation and anal sex are not
>Loneliness increases premature death rates by 26% and is as deadly as obesity
>Men are unhappier being single than women
>Males gained peer status through having had sex and females lost peer status
>Being single is a greater risk factor for developing depression in men than in women
>People that are married are 2.4x more likely to recover early from clinical depression
>The brain reacts to rejection in the same manner as physical pain
>Being shown a picture of a romantic partner results in higher pain tolerance
>Warm partner contact lowers stress levels
>Women prefer stoic men who downplay their health problems in a long-term relationship
>Tinder usage is associated with lower self-esteem for men but not women
Thanks, science!
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This is retarded. The men I know with the highest body counts are also the ones with the most problems. Their relationships are short-lived and toxic, but at least they get laid.
I don't know if I know what love is, because I've never felt it for someone. But I want someone I can talk to, someone I can help fix their problems, I'd buy flowers for her, I'd listen to her talk about her day, we'd help each other look our best (or how we want each other to look), we can learn things together, I can stay home from work if she wants me to, we can go for walks holding each other's hands, and if she ever screws something up and is afraid I'll be mad, I'll take her face in my hands, kiss her eyes and tell her she's the one person I could never be angry at.
you have no real problems then if you think a gf will fix them
youre just a stupid whiny faggot who sucks cock
You fags need to stop posting this shitty pasta outside your fucking containment board. Either kill yourselves or shut the fuck up. You've never been in a relationship let alone spoken to another human being. You have no idea what its like just your stupid fucking worthless fantasies that you are trapped in. Living with another human being is fucking excruciating
>I'll take her face in my hands, kiss her eyes and tell her she's the one person I could never be angry at
Lol omg... you sound co-dependant and cringy af. You grew up without a dad or something like that, huh?
don't be fucking retarded dude. Shitty human beings with tons of problems get into relationships all the time.
>Yes it will
>It won't
So which is it?