How do you make someone be your friend?
How do you make someone be your friend?
it's not possible. things like that only exist in fiction
How come other people do it but when i try to it's a whole bunch of shit happening and they can't, it's bad for them, etc, meanwhile they had the greatest time of their life.
You just gotta talk to them every single day, you either make a new friend, or, you will get blocked.
Aren't you one of those obsessed over someone who ghosted/removed you? Then you know the answer.
feed them drugs
listen to all the embarrassing shit they say
now they HAVE TO be your friends cause you know too much
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Right, but you have to talk to them about the right things in the correct manner just like they do it and i don't know how.
The answer is that things could be done in better way that i didn't do it and that circumstances could've been better, i can't be that hard to exist around each other with no preconceptions, after all a bunch of other people do it.
>Right, but you have to talk to them about the right things in the correct manner just like they do it and i don't know how.
not necessarily
as long as you are fiercely persistent, any form of communication ought to form a bond, especially with losers on this site
The answer is that if you are that user who is obsessed over "special" friend who you lost and you never stop being obsessed over them then you will never find good friends because you are mentally ill and need to fix your head and personality first before trying to find new people
Become a psychopath,see what they like,what people they like to hang around with and become that.Lie and manipulate there week minds become there God whom they look up to for mercy.Make sky's of their dead relatives wooden coffins and sky on the crosses of dead dreams.Be like a shape shifter become what they adore and love,become a illusion of the most desire dreams that person wants.
I'd think so too that after some time it would've been better but apparently not or perhaps there's a bond but presumably not -a good or pleasurable one i think, lots of different sorts of losers, some just don't have a gf, some don't have anything, some aren't liked by people, some see more problem with themselves, probably most people just don't like everyone regardless of time, just the people that do the right things, i suppose given enough time anything can change though.
Wait, everyone has people they find it special there's nothing mentally ill about that, what differs is the proportion and the obstination or you mean to say willfulness is a mental illness, what's wrong with being headstrong about someone you find it special?
Not in a psychopathic way drugs are a great way to get close to people, i'd avoid the ones that can make you psychotic unless you're already close to them though.
I mean there are a few obnoxious faggots who spam such threads like yours almost everyday and they just can't stop being obsessed over someone not understanding that a core of their problem is inside their head, and any attempts to get new friends will always fail for them as long as they stay unhealthy obsessed
lol psychopaths are such a meme, the vast majority of psychopaths are unhappy and crave being normal but wont admit it because of the rampant narcissism that comes along with it
they are empty and bored making them take risks and do impulsive decisions, pyschopaths are almost always convicts and are almost never people with lots of friends, a successful romantic life or anything else like that because they usually either push these people away or their manipulation pushes people away
you wont ever have one admit this tho
asking for a friend, how do I get to stop this unhealthy obsession?
I'm not your psychiatrist, user.
Nah,psychopath are people with no feelings or emotions to anything they don't feel emotions.
no psychopaths have feelings they just lack empathy, cant feel guilt or remorse, and dont get any emotional connection from other people, they also usually dont feel anxiety or feel fear/have an extremely blunted almost non existent sense of fear
pyschopaths can get very angry or sadistic and the emotions can be pretty intense
meet someone and talk to them a lot. try to make friends in real life. online friends won't see you as a friend unless they're as lonely and socially inept as you
You are right.My bad user
ive no idea i increasingly think my definition of friend and the rest of the world's is totally different because people will say they like me or something and then never talk to me again
>Become a psychopath
I can't just become something i'm not else i'd have done so years ago, i had people tell me "just put on a mask bro", that's just retarded, whatever version of yourself you think you're projecting is also yourself.
I can add a bunch people until one of them sticks around, say hello to them once a day and consider them a friend, how much is that worth really? It's not about what i or them do or say or anything that happens that makes it meaningful to me. What i can't do is find someone that i would care about the same way as i do them and i just need one person that i'm satisfied with really above that there's no point really aside from maybe making myself a more interesting person or something like that, not from a "what i want" or need sort of way.
Talking to people irl is almost impossible, meeting them is even harder, also not entirely truth because i have an easier time with people i don't really have to anything also no one is really as "like" me that not as much as a necessity as a good thing to have, generally people won't give much of a fuck to a random person online i can't say i'm much diffirent, generally that is.
Everyone has their own definition, is a person to person thing on a person to person basis also generally people will just be nice because it's easier and doesn't generate any conflict, if they don't care about you in the first place why should they bother right? Don't feel too bad about it.
based off of that photo, i suppose you understand the importance of dreams
You still didn't answer if you are one of those obnoxious faggots who was making whiny threads about someone who ghosted you.
>how much is that worth really?
Sounds like you are talking to yourself, your messages to me make no sense you are just talking to your own thoughts completely ignoring what I say.
I will repeat for you last time. If you had someone and still obsessed over them, can't move on, then you can't find new friends. Zero. None friends can be yours if all your thoughts are still stuck on that old person you are crying yourself to sleep everyday like a faggot.
Yes I do,but how much will one sacrifice for the most desire dream to come true?,I will sacrifice my family for my dreams to come true sad part even if they come to reality will it be want I want in the end?
I'm telling you i have a friend already and that people have multiple friends and aren't confined to one person regardless of how much they think about them it's that no one will ever be to me the same way like they are and that it's not about what is that i or we do together that makes it special but the way i feel about them, if i can't feel the same way about someone else, and i've tried, then there's really no way to let go or to stop seeking to be his friend, i'm just going on as to what i think is the reason you make this statement. Also you didn't ask if i am anything you just made a statement that they exist, you could say that i am, most of the times i make threads it's for that reason but not about that necessarily.
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You don't sound like a local fat ugly Algerian retard, but who knows...
Anyway, if you aren't like those idiots who whine about old lost friends then you can freely ignore my posts which you, in fact, should have done already since they most likely not about you. But I still recognize you and I saw your previous threads, it just happens that some people parroting each other's thought on r9k and make the same threads, so it's easy to confuse you from someone else.
>How do you make someone be your friend?
well for starters don't force yourself on them.
I'm not as retarded as the Algerian guy making posts about masturbation but i do make threads whining and make a lot of threads about the same thing essentially but i do try to be covert and make it more of a general thing so unless you mean to target a specific person and not a group of people then i think it's still a valid thing to say not that i agree completely with it.
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I don't get it.
Forcing yourself on people is not a bad thing necessarily, it shows interest and most importantly it helps people who are too passive, i know i am and would appreciate it.
just don't be bland. From all the friends I made from 4chinz vs all the people that I just ghosted the common denominator wasn't that they weren't autistic or very particular. It's mostly having interest(s) of your own. If you're a boring person that has 0 interests and expects the other person to carry everything I've got some bad news for you.
both can bond